# Is it possible to born without pheromone at all? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 31, 2009, 12:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-it-possible-to-born-without-pheromone-at-all/29433 "2009-05-31T12:44:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Renarde](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b5a626/32.png) [@Renarde](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Renarde)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2009, 12:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-it-possible-to-born-without-pheromone-at-all/29433/1 "2009-05-31T12:44:52Z")
Hi People! I’m new with the pheromone perfums world and I have a question to ask you. Is it possible for someone to have naturally any [pheromones](https://a314.com/) or sex-appeal? Let me explain my question a little bit further… I admit myself to be somewhat good looking. Not the most beautiful girl around but let say a little bit above the average. I’m not fat (I have nothing against fat people, but sadly it is a beauty critere from our superficial century -\_-),I don’t have any major flaws like a big nose, crooked teeth or other things like that considered as “ugly”. I’m always taking care of my hair, my clothes and so on…I considere myself also to be kind, polite and always on the go to help out… But mysteriously people tend to “runaway” from me for no reason at all… I never had any boyfriend in my life and I’m like 23 years old even if I try very hard to make the “first steps” with some of them. Since childhood and teenhood, I used to have always difficulty to befriend people.At my office (and other offices I was hired in it) during lunch or break times, people always ignored me in their conversations! Even if I try to join them. It is like if I was a “ghost” even if I try to be active with them! I say something…but the conversation don’t go further, it stays flaw and people start to talk of something else without acknowledge my point of view. People tend also to never notice me (even if my taller than the average women I’m 1m77).They are always like “Oh I didn’t see you” “Oh you was there? Since when?” or step on my feet while they were move back. When I go to the gym, the trainers are always very kind with the other members and always ask them how their exercices are doing or talking about the weather with them but never with me…Like if I was uninteresting or disgusting…Even the other people of the gym stared at me with a nasty look…No! I swear,I don’t have any paranoia! It is the truth! When I tried to date some guys on the Internet, when I sent to them pictures of me, they are totally dazzled by me but when they’re meeting me for the first time, I can see that they’re uninteressed with me… I’m really starting to ask myself some questions…What’s wrong with me? Do you think all these strange things happening to me could be really caused by a lack of “natural pheromones”? If yes, which perfum could help me out? But I found a weird exception to all that… I notice that I’m attractive among asians (I’m not asian at all and I live in a town that they’re not many of them). Don’t know why but I was in Japan a while ago and the opposite thing happened to me, the guys were starring at me, even approached me to know me better, told me that I was beautiful (I was with other foreigner girls but it was always with me that they wanted to start a chat) and so on…And when I was in an English immersion in a English province of Canada, every asians who was studying with me wanted to be my friend and wnated to eat with me like if I was a “superstar”…But the other “caucasians students” were ignored me like always though… Really, I’m puzzeled… Phew…Hope that you have the courage to read all my story. Please forgive my English, is not my native language at all and I’m the best language student around -\_- Thank you for your understanding! And I hope you will be able to help me!!! Bye bye!!! ---
**Author:** ![Flirtatious](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/flirtatious/32/2270_2.png) [@Flirtatious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flirtatious)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2009, 1:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-it-possible-to-born-without-pheromone-at-all/29433/2 "2009-05-31T13:30:18Z")
Hi and welcome!! I don’t think it’s possible you don’t produce pheromones… But I’m not sure, I’ll leave that to the experts. Do you have any idea if it can be in your body language? Maybe you’re not really approachable? There’s a great link somewhere about body language, I look it up for you… Here it is: [Using body language](http://changingminds.org/techniques/body/body_language.htm) Products you might like are [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and IO, it makes you more approachable and people more willing to talk!! Oh, your English seems fine to me though, but it’s not my first language euther 😉 Have fun look around here and trying products! They really make a diffrence!! Edit: > [@](#): > > I admit myself to be somewhat good looking. Not the most beautiful girl around but let say a little bit above the average. I’m not fat (I have nothing against fat people, but sadly it is a beauty critere from our superficial century -\_-) OMG I could have written that!!! :o ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2009, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-it-possible-to-born-without-pheromone-at-all/29433/3 "2009-05-31T13:58:36Z")
Hi Renarde, welcome to the forum! As far as I know you can’t be born with a complete lack of pheromones, they are naturally produced by your body. A simplified way of explaining it would be to say they are by-products of other compounds in your body like certain hormones. Pheromone levels do change throughout your life though. They are at their highest when you are in your teens and 20’s but decrease with age. Long term birthcontrol use and certain hormonal medical conditions can also impact on your natural production. I think it’s probably more likely that your problem is that not only are you pretty, you are tall as well. A lot of guys are initimidated by pretty girls, and many are also intimidated by taller women. If you aren’t naturally quite outgoing then it might be hard to make friends and meet guys. I’d love to help point you in the right direction with choosing a few phero’s to try but it’s easier if we know abit more about your personality. How would you describe yourself? Are you outgoing and chatty, or more towards the shy and quieter personality type? Also…is dating the only thing you want to use phero’s for or are there any other areas in you life that you want to boost a bit? General socializing & making friends, work/studies etc? ---
**Author:** ![jayarea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/48db29/32.png) [@jayarea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jayarea)\ **Post date:** [May 31, 2009, 4:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-it-possible-to-born-without-pheromone-at-all/29433/4 "2009-05-31T16:47:33Z")
hi renarde- welcome to the forum. you touched on a few points in your great intro that i feel i can relate to, and maybe help you out. in regards to meeting guys, i will agree with xiphoid; some guys may be scared by a taller beautiful girl. my girlfriend is 1m76 and even taller with heels on. i’ve noticed a few of my friends get scared around her when she is so tall and looking nice for a party. these aren’t random people either, these are our good friends who have known us for a while, and even they get scared. this is not your fault though. for as many guys that are scared by taller girls, there is a same number of guys that would love to be with a taller girl. native asians particularly, since there are not too many tall people in asian countries. knowing this, even though you are already a friendly person, it will help you to get some pheros that give off a friendly feeling. flirtatious has some good recommendations with ishine and io. these products can work on two levels. first, they make you feel good and want to talk to people. it seems you already do this but the “feeling” is getting to other people. once that feeling gets to other people, it makes them also feel good and want to talk. as long as you are not somewhere quiet like a classroom, people will be talking all over. (and sometimes they talk in classrooms too 😛) if you choose to use pheros, i’d say you’re on a good start. there’s a phrase around here that says “it’s 90% you and 10% pheros.” you take care of yourself already, you know what you want and maybe how to get it, but sometimes things don’t work out too well for you. that’s where pheros can help. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 1, 2009, 2:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-it-possible-to-born-without-pheromone-at-all/29433/5 "2009-06-01T02:50:54Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 As I mentioned in your post in the ladies section, I transfered a copy of your post here so you would get your GC. I also gave you my opinion as to what may be the issue and what steps to try to resolve it. > [@Is it possible to born without pheromone at all?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-it-possible-to-born-without-pheromone-at-all/29431): > > Hi People! I’m new with the pheromone perfums world and I have a question to ask you. Is it possible for someone to have naturally any [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) or sex-appeal? Let me explain my question a little bit further… I admit myself to be somewhat good looking. Not the most beautiful girl around but let say a little bit above the average. I’m not fat (I have nothing against fat people, but sadly it is a beauty critere from our superficial century -\_-),I don’t have any major flaws like a big nose, cro… **Your GC is on its way**. If you have any questions just ask. Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [June 1, 2009, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-it-possible-to-born-without-pheromone-at-all/29433/6 "2009-06-01T03:28:45Z")
Hi Renarde! Welcome to the forum. I admit, I am terrible at conversions and had to find a conversion chart to help me understand how tall is 1m77. After I had translated it into feet and inches I realized I also am 1m77! 🙂 The social that I have had most success with in Instant Shine. It seems to create a feeling of fun and interest around me that is a boost to what I was already projecting. It also seems to give me confidence and lessen the nervousness of any situation for me. You might try that to see if it helps with breaking the ice in new situations. Another great product is [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). It tends to cause people to want to talk with you, it makes you seem more approachable. Your English is not perfect, but it is very understandable, and you’re doing fine. Practice is the key, huh? By the way, what is your mother tongue? ---
**Author:** ![Renarde](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b5a626/32.png) [@Renarde](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Renarde)\ **Post date:** [June 1, 2009, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-it-possible-to-born-without-pheromone-at-all/29433/7 "2009-06-01T23:07:57Z")
Oh…Thank you everybody for the warmth welcome and for giving me some advices and suggestions. I was planing to try [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) first because it seems to be more the more used among people here (after reading some opinions) but most of you seems to suggest me Instant Openess…Mmmmm I’ll think about it. I’m hesitating now… My monther tongue is French (I’m from Quebec: The French part of Canada) that’s a shame to live in a official bilingual country without being perfectly bilingual myself -\_- By the way, it is sad that in Canada so close from the USA border, I have to pay an international shipment for $19.99! There is no other shipment method I can picke when I’m ordering something from androticsdirect? _Well, thank you again for welcoming me so kindly among you! 🙂_