# Itchin to get started! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 20, 2008, 3:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937 "2008-07-20T15:05:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Carpediem](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carpediem/32/696_2.png) [@Carpediem](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carpediem)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 3:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/1 "2008-07-20T15:05:29Z")
Hey. I’m Tonia, I’m a 39 yr old married southern girl. As my screen name says, I’m ready to seize the day! I was diagnosed with Social Anxiety a few years ago and I’ve been taking zoloft. It helps but I’m still the type that I don’t speak to strangers unless spoken to…and I must put off that vibe that makes me unapproachable. I lack confidence in all areas. I’m not looking to find a man or anything..I just want to be, I guess a little more like the “life of the party”. Another annoyance to me is that I never feel sexy. As you age and you’ve been with the same man for over 21 years, it’s nice to be noticed by others and have that flirtyness from cute guys. I feel like the only looks I get are toothless old men! I don’t know how to change that vibe I give off but I would love to try! ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 3:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/2 "2008-07-20T15:09:37Z")
Hey welcome to the forum babe! Nice to have more female members! Now there is instant sexiness. But there are 2 kinds, instant sexiness A which is more of an angelina jolie character, and [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) which gives more of a marilyn munroe character. Furthermore, instant shine is great for those days when to need to uplift your mood. And it also uplifts others’ mood around you. Instant openness is excellent for socialzing. Keeps the conversation going. If you have questions just ask sweetie 🙂 Editted: instant sexiness a comes in a to-go bottle and full size bottle, whereas instant sexiness B comes in a full size bottle only. So it’s better to try a to-go bottle first to see if you like the effects and reactions before investing more in a full size bottle, unless you’re really sure 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 3:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/3 "2008-07-20T15:09:50Z")
Hello Tonia, welcome to the forum. It’s good to see another female member here 🙂 anyway I see that have a lot of questions regarding [pheromones](https://a314.com/), guess what, you came to the right place. with your social anxiety before, i suggest you give the social products a try, such as IO and Ishine, they should make a good puchase. Instant sexiness is also highly recommanded among the laides here so i think its a good start for you. Besides those, I recommand you read as much as you can in the women’s section. hope you have a good time here 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Carpediem](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carpediem/32/696_2.png) [@Carpediem](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carpediem)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 3:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/4 "2008-07-20T15:16:16Z")
I have decided to do a to go bottle of instant openness and shine but was debating on the sexiness…I tend to come off bitchy to people when I don’t mean to…not sure what to pick because of that! Thanks for the welcome..I bet I’m gonna get hooked quick! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 3:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/5 "2008-07-20T15:17:03Z")
Hi there, welcometo the forum. To couter your lack of confidence, it is good to use the ice breakers – io. It make people want to talk to you. You will meet more people. Shine is also good in boosting your confidence socially. It uplift your mood and the people around you too. It helps in your social encounter. Good luck and have fun ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 7:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/6 "2008-07-20T19:15:24Z")
Hello Tonia Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I think [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine are great to start with. Yes I think every women should have a bottle and since you have social anxiety IS/A would be great for you. It ups you confidence as well as attracting others. There are a few people who feel it makes them bitchy but I would say 90% of the users love it. There is also a B version which is more soft and girly which is very good. It will make you feel sexy and attract attention. If you have any questions just ask. 😃 **Your GC will go out out shortly** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Carpediem](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carpediem/32/696_2.png) [@Carpediem](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carpediem)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/7 "2008-07-20T19:36:53Z")
great advice right away…I had pretty much decided before I registered to do instant openness and shine and thought about IS/A or B…you just confirmed my order I will place as soon as I receive my GC…thanks so much! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 7:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/8 "2008-07-20T19:53:02Z")
I just sent it out so be sure to check the spam box as well as your email because sometimes they go there. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Carpediem](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carpediem/32/696_2.png) [@Carpediem](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carpediem)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 8:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/9 "2008-07-20T20:53:56Z")
beside feeling sexy and more attractive…what about something to increase my nonexistant sex drive and make me more dominant in the bedroom? ---
**Author:** ![Carpediem](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carpediem/32/696_2.png) [@Carpediem](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carpediem)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 11:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/10 "2008-07-20T23:54:18Z")
bump!!! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/11 "2008-07-21T01:21:55Z")
Well copulins will make you feel sexy and they are in [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). You could look into Lust After Me which is a high cop formula but let me warn you its stinks like hell. You need to cover it and its probably better to get the other pheromones working for you first. Turn Up The Heat which is a mens product can be used to up your own libido and when used with a copulin formula can make men more sexually aggressive. You would just use dabs of the Turn Up The Heat, thats all you need. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Carpediem](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carpediem/32/696_2.png) [@Carpediem](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carpediem)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2008, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/12 "2008-07-22T02:52:42Z")
Placed my first order this evening…all for to go sizes as trials of IS/A, instant openness, turn up the heat, and instant shine…can’t wait to get it!!! My first real test will be August 9th at a biker bar…go figure! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2008, 9:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/13 "2008-07-22T21:12:38Z")
Oh Boy 😃 a biker bar, I cant wait to hear your reports. Be sure to test them out before you go so you can get used to them. If you need help with the products let me know. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Carpediem](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carpediem/32/696_2.png) [@Carpediem](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carpediem)\ **Post date:** [July 23, 2008, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/itchin-to-get-started/15937/14 "2008-07-23T20:33:17Z")
got my order today, love the speediness! I’m on vacation and at home by myself (damn) and about an hour ago, sprayed on each of openness, IS/A and shine…just wanted to see if I felt anything first. Nothing. My husband will be home in about an hour..can’t wait to see if anything happens…I’ll save my turn up the heat for now and I’m very excited that I got a freebie of MX134, as I really wanted to try it for work and have a BRAND new boss starting Monday so that will be very interesting. I’ve spent one day with him already so I have a baseline to gauge, I think.