# It's a Tea party!

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**Category:** Women's Journals\
**Created:** [March 22, 2008, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/its-a-tea-party/10298 "2008-03-22T20:33:56Z")\
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**Author:** ![sugarspice](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarspice/32/1772_2.png) [@sugarspice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarspice)\
**Post date:** [April 3, 2008, 4:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/its-a-tea-party/10298/16 "2008-04-03T04:41:13Z")

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> [@Tealeaves](#):
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> Regarding whether the pheros comfort me, I think they do.  
> Last night, though the lights were on, I was very jumpy and paranoid (imagine a small child that just watched The Exorcist or something). I sprayed the muzzle area of my face with some Instant Honesty. It was odd, as I hallucinated one of the… “demons”? that keep me afraid wrapping her arms around me in a comforting embrace. I fell asleep soon after.
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> This is puzzling. I’ve never seen her touch me before…  
> (Not that she’s real. Meh, it’s complicated. I apologize if I sound like a nutjob.)
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> I’m actually very encouraged. My Cheshire suggested that, to overcome my fear, I should walk backwards in the dark(!) Just because he’ll stay the night in a haunted, abandoned school building… ☹ I’m not even remotely brave. Adventurous, yes, but _brave?_ Har har. Well, needless to say, I like this whole phero method a bit more 🙄

Don’t apologize for being a nut. What fun would you be? Hehehe. I had an experience with TAF + MEOEST and MX135 + MEOEST that gave me that shock factor. See [Dude where’s my burger…the TAF, MEO-EST memory lapse](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/dude-wheres-my-burger-the-taf-meo-est-memory-lapse/9072)

> [@Tealeaves](#):
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> Also…  
> I’ve been wondering how EST would work for younger women (18-25) in attracting guys not intent on “nesting”? Would they just become protective? Think of her as a younger sister? Or would they still wanna cuddle? Hmm. I really like the sound of EST, but the women who’ve gushed about it have so far been at least 15 years older than me, it seems. And no to-go? Boo, I don’t wanna spend $90 to stab around in the dark.

Don’t expect the effect to last when you’re away. I notice once I wash off the EST my desire to nest went down the drain. Here’s an example, the guy I was briefly seeing was in love with his ex, and he was totally in love with her memory. If you’re dealing with this kind of guy, understand that memories can be so etched in their minds that the make up stuff that’s grander than actual reality. EST is only enough to cuddle at that moment. You would need months of cuddling to create memories to make him want to nest. So that he realizes life without you sucks a whole lot more than with you. Then he will want to nest next time around.

BTW, good job on the journal.

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