# It's hard to tell...

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/its-hard-to-tell/11941>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [April 29, 2008, 1:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/its-hard-to-tell/11941 "2008-04-29T01:41:26Z")\
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**Author:** ![jayzee327](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/bc79bd/32.png) [@jayzee327](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jayzee327)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 1:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/its-hard-to-tell/11941/1 "2008-04-29T01:41:26Z")

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I have read plenty of reports and have no doubts they work. I read plenty of reports of things like smiles and chattiness. I guess I am confused by what is me and what is the mones. I am naturally upbeat and have had plenty of succees with women without mones. I have gotten plenty of smiles in my life without mones. Does anyone else feel this way. I guess I cant tell when the mones are giving me the edge or is it me successful for being well just me.

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**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 1:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/its-hard-to-tell/11941/2 "2008-04-29T01:49:00Z")

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Well, I get a lot of smiles without phero too, but I can tell when those came from situations or people that I would get usually (ex. out of my league…)

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**Author:** ![Eldros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/eldros/32/279_2.png) [@Eldros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eldros)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 2:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/its-hard-to-tell/11941/3 "2008-04-29T02:25:16Z")

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> [@jayzee327](#):
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> I have read plenty of reports and have no doubts they work. I read plenty of reports of things like smiles and chattiness. I guess I am confused by what is me and what is the pheromones. I am naturally upbeat and have had plenty of succees with women without pheromones. I have gotten plenty of smiles in my life without pheromones. Does anyone else feel this way. I guess I cant tell when the pheromones are giving me the edge or is it me successful for being well just me.

You shouldn’t be tyring to determine what is you and what are pheros. And I like how many guys think of getting smiles as a large accomplishment 😃. It’s 90% you 10% pheros (depending on mix 😃), not 50/50, or 10 you 90 pheros. What you should do is aim to have as much fun that day as possible.

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 2:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/its-hard-to-tell/11941/4 "2008-04-29T02:38:26Z")

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As Eldros said, it’s 90% you and 10% pheros, and you will never be able to completely determine why your getting attention. Nobody’s going to tell you that they were a little interested, then we they smelled your pheros they couldn’t resist you.

You should be able to get a fair idea of what the pheros are doing though, by thinking about where and who the hits and IOI’s are coming from, and whether you think you would have got the same action/reaction without the pheros.