# je ne sais quoi

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/je-ne-sais-quoi/30397>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [July 5, 2009, 12:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/je-ne-sais-quoi/30397 "2009-07-05T00:07:07Z")\
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**Author:** ![WildFlower](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wildflower/32/1260_2.png) [@WildFlower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WildFlower)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 12:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/je-ne-sais-quoi/30397/1 "2009-07-05T00:07:07Z")

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I’ve never really liked how the dynamic between Pheromones and the wearer are often described, as simple and as basic as, 90% you, 10% Pheromones.

I believe, Pheromones simply add je ne sais quoi to a person. That is not to say they are not powerful. Pheromones can be EXTREMLY powerful. What I am trying to say is that, Pheromones add a (tailored) dimension to us which others feel and interpret as je ne sais quoi.

Various dictionary definitions of je ne sais quoi:

- A quality or attribute that is difficult to describe or express.
- something indescribable.
- an indefinable, elusive quality, esp. a pleasing one: She has a certain je ne sais quoi that charms everybody.
- an intangible quality that adds or makes something attractive or alluring

There is no particular reason I’m making this thread, other than last night I ended up in a conversation with an old female friend of mine. We were discussing charisma and I ended up suggesting that certain people just naturally have je ne sais quoi (don’t ask me to pronounce it). I was wearing [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), and anyway what followed was a long conversation about how she thinks I have an indescribable aura and that there’s just something about me that she can’t put her finger on. That is how the effects of Pheromones are interpreted and felt on a conscious level - it has nothing to do with 90%/10%. The perception one person makes of another is non-linear, which involves many dimensions - some of which are perceived consciously, others which are perceived subconsciously - and therefore, there influence in the overall perception can not simply be measured as a percentage.

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**Author:** ![M\_P](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/m_p/32/1633_2.png) [@M\_P](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_P)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2009, 7:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/je-ne-sais-quoi/30397/2 "2009-07-05T19:40:16Z")

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Well said.