# Journal of the modest beginner ~ PLEASE READ and ADVICE **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [December 25, 2009, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/journal-of-the-modest-beginner-please-read-and-advice/35076 "2009-12-25T21:42:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Pheroboi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e47774/32.png) [@Pheroboi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheroboi)\ **Post date:** [December 25, 2009, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/journal-of-the-modest-beginner-please-read-and-advice/35076/1 "2009-12-25T21:42:03Z")
Hello everyone, Let me first introduce myself, I am a 5’8 male medium build Asian male. I am Sagittarius. I love creativity, art and media and enjoy talking to people. I could be an introvert at times. I especially like attention. You could say I am a very attention driven person and I love to be around crowds. I have been doing so pretty well without any pheromones or colognes for that matter. I am pretty well respected among my friends and I do create attraction for the ladies. However, I haven’t been in a relationship in close to a year. Reasons are usually: -that I seem like a player (I am usually a playful character, jokes a lot, Talks a lot). -I can’t be trusted, I lead many girls on and they don’t feel secure around me (Not my intention) -Can’t get serious, (I lost interest in a girl very quickly, or after hooking up, I decided she’s not GF type so I just leave it at that.) Due to some of these reasons, I burn a lot of bridges. A lot of times these females ended up having a crush on me and I just destroyed them and made them my enemies while all I might have wanted was a hook up and have them as my friend. When it does work out, I am closer female friends then do I have close guy friends. (I like having girls around more than guys, so don’t picture me as a particular bar guy, sports, and gambling). I enjoy chatting, travelling, eating and extracurricular activities with females. I just purchased the a314, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Shine (Sample) & Turn up the Heat (Sample) from Smart tones. (All 1x strength). I would need all the tips possible! Without being too skeptical, I am going to share my results for my two days of trying the product. I currently work in an office environment with my own desk (Picture a banker). Clients come and sit down across from me to do sales. So far I only tried it at work since I haven’t had time to try it elsewhere. HERE’s my social objectives: -To be better respected and trusted among people around me -To create more confidence in myself. -To win attractive and intimate relationships with females -To create a social, fun vibe and be the sunlight in the social circle and yet be trusted in an individual level. Day 1 & 2 I followed the instructions and applied 1 drop of a314 on my wrists and 1 drop on the area from my ears to my neck. Since I did not wanted that “Too cool to be bothered aura” I sprayed instant openness on my neck/chest area and another on my back neck. (I sprayed an extra spray in the air and walked in it on the second day). For both days, I paid extra attention to body signals, most people at work know me pretty well (Or those close to my desk). I work with all Asian Chinese coworkers. I did not really see any effects on them. I wanted some effects on one particular girl that I supposedly led on and left, to see if I could build back rapport and trust. Not that I would really like to get on with her again but I wanted to test it. However, I did not sense anything. Aside from that, some new female employee did say hi to me now when she passed by my desk, I am not sure if its cause she is new so she says hi to people or is it that she was affected by the pheromones. As for other ladies in the office (the older 35+) ones seem to want to talk to me more, they go on and on. I’m not sure if it’s the pheromone or if they wanted to talk lots that day. I would ask them a question and they would explain it with a long answer when it could have been answered with a yes or no. As for male co-workers, I almost could say I did not feel much result. That is also to say I know them pretty well and according to another post, it seems like it works more subtle with people you know. I do feel more confident when I talk to my boss. As far as closing sales, I did not see any chances but it does seem like they have more trust and respect for me. BTW, I look young for my age. I am 23. Questions I WONDER: 1. I am not really used to the oil musk smell of a314, anyways; do the people have to smell it to notice it? I saw elsewhere on the forum that they do not have to smell it. BUT, how far of a distance do they have to be in, I am very curious. 2. Also, I have been using a314 with Instant Openness for both days, what would happen if I only used a314 or vice versa? Would you recommend it? Did my effects sounded like both chemicals worked? I feel like it was only a314 because I did not get much opening from others. I have to still initiate most of the time. 3. Am I putting the pheromones on correctly? I have to wear suit and tie at work. My sleeves are all covered, is the pheromones penetrating through? Also can I really mix it with my favorite cologne (Or what colognes would you recommend? I don’t use much cologne besides deodorant on my armpits) What else would you recommend I get to get the results I want? Or with the products that I currently have? I am sure I have more questions but I am also sure I have bombarded with you all enough. I look forward to all your replies. I am new here so shoot me anything, led me away, show me the ropes. Thank you all for letting me the opportunity to express my interests in pheromones. I wish you all a happy holiday! ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2010, 1:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/journal-of-the-modest-beginner-please-read-and-advice/35076/2 "2010-01-13T01:05:02Z")
Hi Pheroboi 1. You must stated that the older women in the office (the older 35+) seem to want to talk to me more. As if they would explain it with a long answer when it could have been answered with a yes or no. That’s’ [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) if you ask me. you will have to continue to initiate and approach ladies unless you’re Brad Pitt. 🙂 2. You applied those pheromones in places where it can still circulate and that’s good. I understand about the concern with the suit and tie thing. Have you considered a small application of A314 on the back side of your hands? Some of the experience pros may share more light on their recommendation of favorite colognes. I really think you have enough products: A314, Instant Openness ([Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)) , Instant Shine and [Turn up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) for the time being. Just take you time and work with you products “one on one.” I have thoughts about different combination, not saying they won’t work. It’s just that I want to cover this process thoroughly to ensure that I get a better respect and handle on what I’ am dealing with. MVKBUGATTI