# Jumping in with both feet **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 12, 2012, 4:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-in-with-both-feet/55842 "2012-06-12T16:23:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bemsha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/df705f/32.png) [@bemsha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bemsha)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2012, 4:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-in-with-both-feet/55842/1 "2012-06-12T16:23:34Z")
As I tend to do with things that interest me, I’ve spent the better part of the last 15 hours checking out this site and soaking in a lot of information. You guys are a great community! So, a little about myself. I’m a 27 year old male and I’m definitely a “nice guy”. I’m also goofy funny, relaxed, and almost always positive, and fairly confident, although that might not show. I only do well with women who have known me long enough to get to know that I’m a guy they might wanna be with. I’ve only had one ONS. I’m definitely a relationship guy, but I’m not opposed to short passionate flings, that’s just not my primary objective with women. I’m also hoping to use mones to help me with my job. I work at a bar, and have been there for 5 years. So many people there are gunning for the good shifts that I only want what’s coming to me, which is the better shifts and for people to listen to me when I give them advice about the job (i’ve been doing it a lot longer than most of my co workers). I guess I want respect and for everyone to feel like they can trust me, while at the same time, having the women be more attracted to me. (their ages range from mid 20’s to early 30’s). So, I’m looking for mones that will get me respect from the males at my work, but also maybe be a turn on for the women, one of which I could see myself having a ONS with and one in particular that I’d like to be in a relationship with. I already know that most of them are attracted to me but I need more of an edge because I’m bad at closing the deal, or even making a move really. I jumped in with both feet and have purchased the following mones: A314 (10ml) Turn Up the Heat This is the order that i’m going to purchase after the $25 gift card comes through: Instant Shine (probably gonna get 2x because of the value) Ammunition (togo sized) [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) (togo sized) Instant Honesty (togo sized) Since I’ll be under $100 after the $25 discount, and i want to get that free expedited shipping, I’m thinking of adding either P83 or P74 since those are popular and might not have such a steep learning curve. My reasoning for not getting instant gentleman is that I’m already kind of an old soul, and I’m already probably too much of a gentleman for my own good. I can’t pull off being a jerk or asshole, and I don’t want guys to hate me, so I’m probably not gonna get instant jerk. Does anyone have any advice on any mixes for the above named mones or any advice at all based on what I’ve said above? I tried to give as much info as possible so that I’m not being too general in explaining my situation. Thanks in advance and I hope to become an active member of this community. ---
**Author:** ![bemsha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/df705f/32.png) [@bemsha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bemsha)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2012, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-in-with-both-feet/55842/2 "2012-06-12T16:39:17Z")
Oh, and I’m from Texas. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![samuraitea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/samuraitea/32/1998_2.png) [@samuraitea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/samuraitea)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2012, 6:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-in-with-both-feet/55842/3 "2012-06-12T18:54:51Z")
Hello! Welcome to the community! I am glad you have put some insane amount of research time and money into this already! That is really awesome! IG is something you might want to try, it does ‘enhance’ that quality, I am the same way as you! IJ is something a lil scary, I was intimidated at first but then fell in love with it! (ps it is better to leave Love scent and other companies for their forums, not saying you cant use them or have them, but it just looks better if you ‘discretely’ hint that you have those products 🙂 I wish you the best and hope to see some of your awesome experiences! ~Tea ---
**Author:** ![bemsha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/df705f/32.png) [@bemsha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bemsha)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2012, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-in-with-both-feet/55842/4 "2012-06-12T21:04:09Z")
Thanks for the insight, Tea. I guess I did so much research that I got my forums mixed up. This one is definitely the leader for products and knowledge though. I think I will get the beginner set then with all the instants now that I’ll be giving IG and IJ a chance. I just know that [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is going to be my jam so I’m just gonna add a big bottle of 2X to that order. What do you mix the MX297 with, Tea? I was thinking of getting that one as well. ---
**Author:** ![bemsha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/df705f/32.png) [@bemsha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bemsha)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2012, 12:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-in-with-both-feet/55842/5 "2012-06-13T12:33:34Z")
I couldn’t wait to make the order, went ahead and pulled the trigger. I’ll just use the GC next time. I ordered the killer newbie kit and since they were out of IJ, Steve called me to resolve it and we talked for about a half hour! Super cool guy, and very helpful and friendly. A++ customer service! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2012, 12:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-in-with-both-feet/55842/6 "2012-06-13T12:53:32Z")
NICE! Great to see such enthusiasm. It’s good to have gotten in touch with Steve as talking to him about mones just makes all decisions SO much easier. 🙂 So, where will be your testing grounds for these mones? WHICH one(s) will you try out? You’ve got some excellent times coming and do keep me/us in the loop as to how it goes. As I KNOW you’ve been reading up on the forum, I wanted to make sure you took a look at my sig, Intro to Mones and How to Know what are hits to better apply the knowledge of the mones to your situation. 1Alpha ---
**Author:** ![bemsha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/df705f/32.png) [@bemsha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bemsha)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2012, 1:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-in-with-both-feet/55842/7 "2012-06-13T13:04:14Z")
My testing grounds are going to be at work, an atmosphere that I’m well aware of and will be able to see changes in behavior the easiest, since I spend so much time there. I work at a pub. Other than that, I don’t go to clubs, so it’ll be other pubs and bars or music venues to test the night time mones. I also might test the night time ones after hours at work when hanging out with some of the regulars and cute watiresses, as I will notice changes in behavior in that setting as well. I’m a musician, so I might try some of the more bonding mones on the bandstand to see if it helps us connect more. I did read a lot of your posts, Alpha, and I did check out the intro to mones link from your sig, but I’ll definitely check out the others, they seem very informative. The mones I’ll be testing at work will be A314 oil, both the A314 sprays, IS, IG, IO, and IH. From reading, I think an IS/A314 mixture sounds like what im going for at work. The IO might make the customers want to talk my hear off.😉 For nighttime use, I’ll definitely use the AMMO and TUTH along with IS and maybe A314. For first dates or hanging out with girls I’d like to date, probably some IS and IH or IO, with just a hint of AMMO or TUTH. I’ll probably stick with solo mones at first so I can get a grip on their individual characteristics, but I know I won’t be able to resist mixing for very long. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 14, 2012, 12:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-in-with-both-feet/55842/8 "2012-06-14T12:16:46Z")
Welcome Bemsha! I can see you are going to be one of those who give us excellent, detailed and consistent feedback. I love that according to you, you jumped right in but in a good way, reading and doing your hwk! I am impressed for a newbie. Have fun with your products and I await your journal. _ **Your gc was issued!** _ ---
**Author:** ![bemsha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/df705f/32.png) [@bemsha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bemsha)\ **Post date:** [June 15, 2012, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-in-with-both-feet/55842/9 "2012-06-15T02:17:43Z")
I’m used to amazon customer service (one of the best in the online shopping biz), and I gotta say that AD is right there with them, tied for first in my book. Super friendly and accommodating. I think I’m gonna like this place!