# Jumping through hoops? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Journals\ **Created:** [February 11, 2012, 10:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-through-hoops/54530 "2012-02-11T10:14:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mamba](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/49beb7/32.png) [@mamba](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mamba)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 10:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-through-hoops/54530/1 "2012-02-11T10:14:00Z")
When did it get so hard to find a woman of reasonable quality or get laid? my view is that the dating game is a two way street. I mean when i think about all the things we guys typically do in a bid to get laid some Friday night it sometimes seems quite ridiculous, well lets see: 1. go to the gym pump up your big chest 2. put together well with a fine selection of robes in your closet 3. get your banter on point 4. be happy and confident all the time - not reflecting any kind of reality 5. Alpha male yourself up, - necessitating even some kinda getting a drink at the bar politics (look just take a ticket and get your drink in the order you arrived at the bar already) 6. Bling yourself up, well not literally but demonstrate higher value etc..etc.. all around intricately contrived gaming. well, i don’t know but last time i checked i wasn’t a clown in a circus act. Hey look, i just say be your god dam self, and if she doesn’t feel u then you’re not an appropriate match. Simples. rant over now to my report. **Scene** Oxford Uni BOP (party), Valentines oriented theme, loads of smoking hot babes, i really don’t know were they’ve been hiding all this while. Guys too, guys seriously making an effort in terms of appearance with recurrent theme - just came from black tie dinner or just jumped out of The Untucked Country Club poster. **Associates** 2 friends one guy one gal from my course. Guy laid back, get impression quite inexperienced with women. Girl, laid back, good home maker type. **Mood:** Kinda just blew an important interview for a promotion previous day, so feeling a bit low in mood. **Pheros in play** Ammunition to neck x 2 P79 to the neck x 1 Shine next and wrists x 5 Openness x 1 to the neck **Climate** small closed environment, good diffusion potential, few competing scents. **What Happened?** Meet up with friend at venue, in a low mood. Slightly worried, i heard P79 exaggerates your mood. Talk and meet people, do the rounds. Noticed a lot of attention from women throughout the night, slight glances and out right starring at times. Tarrot card reader reckons i’m not gonna find love tonight. Should have kept my receipt. no obvious reaction from guys, noticed a point when my friend (male) paused/ noticed my scent. girls walk past, towed by boyfriend but decide to pause and pay eye contact and smile beyond the view of their other as they go by; three times in all. spend some time with a nice american bird on the sofa, who seems a bit wild. Going on about the socially awkward nature of the males in the uni, wants to party hard drink vodka and other hard liqueur from the bottle and have fun (think she might be a naughty one). But it’s strange cos she’s clutching a bud Budweiser, which i’m pretty sure is flavoured water with a single stingy pipette squirt of alcohol. Apparently my sextuple malibu and orange juice is for women. She was cool spoke for quite some time, IOI’s. aggressive hair play, suggestive eye contact mostly. She want to split and go to a club, i agree the party was a bit wack so i say let’s split, but…she want to wait, gather a group and then go…ok…the conversation starts to unwind so i split for a smew. Friend later tells me that she was talking about me allot, asking him if “..that tall beautiful man is your friend”.. much of the same most of the night, no real hitting on women, just not in the right frame of mind for it today. partying was definitely getting better with every sip. My friend (male) wants to split to catch a male friend to walk him home? ok, so decide to split after another drink, on the way out meet up with american chic and tell her i’m leaving, ask for number, i’ll call her later on in the day about clubbing etc..ok here we go, she pulls out her phone but takes too long finding her new number, so i suggest to give her mine and she call me, she takes my number and says she’ll text. (still no message) She say’s it’s really nice to meet you and wants me to hug her so i do, then leave. Some other guys were at a club so i decide to join them. again not really in the mood for it but want to try out the mones. Reapply: tuth x 3 shine x 4 to the neck found myself a quiet corner of the club next to the dance floor to sit and chill, before long surrounded by 6 women dancing with each other in front of me: 3 groups of 2 friends. glancing my way from time to time. Leave. ask some girl to save my seat, go for a smoke. come back to my seat, group of girls have dispersed. Take my seat again, before long group of girl reappear. dancing around the corner where i am again. Not sure what to make of that. don’t get involved, other guys try their work, some r lucky some get blown off. noticed that if i joined a group with men and women and initiate conversation, the women stop interacting with other men and pay attention instead to me, this is normal i guess, but surprising by the seeming intensity with which they hang on your words, completely ignoring their previous suitor… anyway, go home to sleep. **summary conclusion** p79 mood enhancer ammo - first try i like the smell, no outrageous hits like i’ve had before with tuth stay at home if you’re in a bad mood. Always go out with a cool female friend to act as an interpreter. ---
**Author:** ![mamba](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/49beb7/32.png) [@mamba](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mamba)\ **Post date:** [February 11, 2012, 11:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/jumping-through-hoops/54530/2 "2012-02-11T11:14:04Z")
[Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) x 2 Shine x 1 woke up this morning and went to the shop to get some orange juice. met a nice lady who is rather good looking i most say: ripe. speak with her for a while and ask for facebook details, kinda middle ground arms length contact method i feel. Seems friendly…‘i’m not hitting on you’…kinda. Anyway she was going on about people in this place being insular. Well normally i would find a way to spend time to get to know her on a friendly level, assess or build attraction then break out for a sexual relationship. But this time i decided to ask her out straight up. straight to the point. She gets back to me and suggests we go to a ball that’s coming up this week. Now, i’m not exactly sure if that means hey, let’s hang out on a friendly level. full stop, or i don’t know u let’s hang out a bit first. before doing things alone together. I Don’t know it’s different for women i guess but i can regularly ask guys i just recently met out for a friendly drink.