# just a noob trying to test the pheromone waters, lol **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 8, 2010, 2:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077 "2010-02-08T14:22:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hielo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hielo/32/383_2.png) [@hielo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hielo)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2010, 2:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/1 "2010-02-08T14:22:49Z")
I’m male and I am a recent high school graduate who isn’t the the most confident with the ladies so I am hoping this will give me a little push. I’m more so looking to find a [pheromone](https://a314.com/) that will take me out of best friend category since I always fall into that ad well I hope I don’t have to buy a combo of sprays to use since well I am looking for something a lil more simple such as one spray that might help. I was looking at ammunition. Is that a good start? I don’t go clubbing or anything but I play volleyball a lot and basketball with a lot of girls, and I just want to catch some of their interest as in more then just a friend. Oh and I live near pittsburgh pa ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2010, 3:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/2 "2010-02-08T15:15:30Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. To break away from the friend zone, I recommend you try IH and AMMO. IH will make the girls comfortable, closer and more intimate with you. AMMO will get them attracted to you. It can give you some sexual attraction too. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![LucidDreamer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/luciddreamer/32/2141_2.png) [@LucidDreamer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LucidDreamer)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2010, 3:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/3 "2010-02-08T15:17:09Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum!!! For a confidence booster, I’d suggest instant shine. Maybe toss in some come talk to me or other social mones ammo might be the good way to go on a more intimate level. ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [February 8, 2010, 11:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/4 "2010-02-08T23:27:45Z")
Add Instant Shine (2x concentration) to that list as well as Instant Openness… Don’t overlook the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) … They work great with Ammo. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2010, 1:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/5 "2010-02-09T01:31:51Z")
Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination 🙂 While I would love to issue you the $25 Gift Certificate for saying hello I do kindly request you post some more about yourself here. If you are unsure about what qualifies as sufficient to obtain the gift certificate I am just itching to email you, please have a look at this thread: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I wrote it to help everyone in writing the perfect introduction. Of course the choice is yours and your privacy is very important. If you just don’t feel comfortable providing additional info we will all still do our best to assist you anyway. Welcome to PheroTalk ---
**Author:** ![hielo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hielo/32/383_2.png) [@hielo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hielo)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2010, 8:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/6 "2010-02-09T08:46:42Z")
Well I def was thinking about the ammo one in the first place. Though I wasn’t sure about the IH one because well I think I give off the aura, feeling or whatever you want to call it, lol already. Thats one reason why I always end up as every girls best friend " just like ryan reynolds in just friends" I mean sure it has perks because I actually enjoy it when one of my friends just randomly open up or cry on my shoulders but I do get burnt out because I always end up as every girls rock and never their diamond. To give an example of how girls I’ve known for a little while view me as, well they would say I’m cute and sweet and one girl for example who doesn’t mind making the first move well lets say for three years she flirted with me, in short words she lusted after me. And I guess after one night she made a move and tried making out with me, I say try because well I’ve never made out before and this was going on for like 5 minutes and she did most of the work, I tried but due to inexperience on my end, all I could do was go to second base I think while we made out. But something happened where something clicked in her head and she stopped. She excused herself to the bathroom and came back like a minute later and was totally well not there and I knew something was up and all I could think was "did I do something wrong, bad kisser etc and later on in the week she confirmed that although she was loving it but that she couldn’t believe she was actually making out with me. She felt like she was taking advantage of me and or that I was like a brother to her uggghh. This is the farthest I’ve gotten with a girl mostly due to modesty but I hate being in this friend zone too because well for these reasons. I would have been happy even if it were a friends with benefits thing, so we can still be close friends and while she doesn’t have to do anything to me, I’d be more then willing to try to make her happy and I’d be gaining learning experience, lol. I’m not looking for sex, since that seems to far advanced for me, I’d try everything else. Sorry if I posted too much info, but I’ve had a bad childhood where sex doesn’t interest me but pleasing them I guess you could say makes me happy since I know I’d be making them happy. Guess you can say I am a boob man, don’t really care about size. SO I want something to help a girl who is not only comfortable with me but also won’t find it weird if I wanted to give them more then a leg massage, lol. But this stupid best friend phase always gets in the way because “I’m a great listener and understanding” and they don’t want to loose that ahhhhh. Which always gives off the impression that people think I might be gay but I’m NOT, just shy around the ladies,lol. Anyways so you would agree that ammo is a good one for me? There are too many choices I can use to compliment with it but since I shared a bit more info does it help with your recommendations? And I tried to order ammo but it says out of stock, where else would you buy these from. Any department stores? Thanks and again sorry for rambling ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2010, 4:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/7 "2010-02-12T04:19:39Z")
Thanks for the great info, and don’t worry about rambling or too much info, this forum is a great place to share your thoughts and feelings and questions, not only about pheros, but about life, which, if you think about it, is what pheros are all about anyway. Ammo is definitely for you, it will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be worn in any environment. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is one I would recommend because it brings intimacy and depth to conversations, and because of that, may well help to slip things beyond that dreaded “friend zone”. In order for a woman to want to take things to the next level, she needs to feel super comfortable and feel like she can really trust you. I hope this helps! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![hielo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hielo/32/383_2.png) [@hielo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hielo)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2010, 1:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/8 "2010-02-13T01:46:00Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Thanks for the great info, and don’t worry about rambling or too much info, this forum is a great place to share your thoughts and feelings and questions, not only about pheros, but about life, which, if you think about it, is what pheros are all about anyway. > > Ammo is definitely for you, it will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be worn in any environment. > > Instant Honesty is one I would recommend because it brings intimacy and depth to conversations, and because of that, may well help to slip things beyond that dreaded “friend zone”. In order for a woman to want to take things to the next level, she needs to feel super comfortable and feel like she can really trust you. > > I hope this helps! 🙂 Those were the two I was thinking of getting but wasn’t sure. I’m hoping that the ammo would still be in stock by the time I get the $25 gc. I think I am pretty sure that I provided enough info at least for the $25 gc, haven’t heard anything since the first day I signed up =( but I don’t mind waiting if I must. Though even though a new ammo came out, would you still suggest the original one since pretty much all the girls in my area are americans and so am I? ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2010, 3:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/9 "2010-02-13T03:07:06Z")
It is really just a scent preference. I believe there is still some to-gos of the normal ammo available. You can use your gift card to try out the to-go versions of ammo and IH at next to no cost. You should be getting it soon, try pming mickaeli if you still aren’t getting it. ---
**Author:** ![hielo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hielo/32/383_2.png) [@hielo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hielo)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2010, 2:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/10 "2010-02-13T14:20:15Z")
> [@Maidenfan01](#): > > It is really just a scent preference. I believe there is still some to-gos of the normal ammo available. You can use your gift card to try out the to-go versions of ammo and IH at next to no cost. > > You should be getting it soon, try pming mickaeli if you still aren’t getting it. I’ve tried pming her on the morning of the 11th, but I’m afraid to annoy her since i know she must be busy Oh do I have to mark a best answer first before I can get a gc, I mean would that be the holdup or is it just the timing of things? ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2010, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/11 "2010-02-13T20:33:27Z")
I think you should consider a shot of IO and a shot of Shine to your chest area for some self effects. I haven’t used shine yet personally but it’s on my next to buy list as is IO which I tried a togo sized trial of and had some good results. The combo should in theory help you feel a bit more confident and chatty. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2010, 10:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/12 "2010-02-13T22:53:12Z")
> [@hielo](#): > > I’ve tried pming her on the morning of the 11th, but I’m afraid to annoy her since i know she must be busy > > Oh do I have to mark a best answer first before I can get a gc, I mean would that be the holdup or is it just the timing of things? There’s just an awful lot going on right now, what with a big restocking and all. She’ll be around. And don’t worry, I think you’ve qualified 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2010, 12:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-a-noob-trying-to-test-the-pheromone-waters-lol/36077/13 "2010-02-15T00:09:58Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.