# just getting started... please help:) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 7, 2006, 8:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854 "2006-11-07T08:41:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bebbe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ce7236/32.png) [@bebbe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bebbe)\ **Post date:** [November 7, 2006, 8:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854/1 "2006-11-07T08:41:47Z")
I found this forum a few days ago, and I am wanting to try some of the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I have always thought it was just a load of rubbish, but after reading your posts, I would love to give it a try. However, I am at university in the UK with limited amounts of money, so I guess I would have to go for the travel sized phermonoes first… or at least the more inexpensive ones. Which should I try? I am mostly attracted to women, but not exclusively, so I would like something that might have an affect on gay women as well as straight men… if possible. I also suffer from social phobia at times, so something to make me calm down a bit in social situations would be great. And I am about to graduate, so I am wondering if there is something that might work to my advantage in job interviews… Cheers!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![sigma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dec6dc/32.png) [@sigma](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sigma)\ **Post date:** [November 7, 2006, 10:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854/2 "2006-11-07T22:07:53Z")
> [@bebbe](#): > > I found this forum a few days ago, and I am wanting to try some of the pheromones. I have always thought it was just a load of rubbish, but after reading your posts, I would love to give it a try. However, I am at university in the UK with limited amounts of money, so I guess I would have to go for the travel sized phermonoes first… or at least the more inexpensive ones. > Which should I try? I am mostly attracted to women, but not exclusively, so I would like something that might have an affect on gay women as well as straight men… if possible. > > I also suffer from social phobia at times, so something to make me calm down a bit in social situations would be great. And I am about to graduate, so I am wondering if there is something that might work to my advantage in job interviews… > > Cheers!🙂 Welcome aboard. Both bi-sexual women and straight men are reported to respond well to Copulins. I don’t know a whole lot about the women’s products, but I’m thinking that if something that works well at attracting straight men, should work on gay women as well. As for the whole social phobia thing…I would definately recommend Instant Shine, Instant Openness, and Instant Honesty. These products work great at openning people up, though each works a bit differently. Instant Openness is more upbeat, chatty, fun. Instant Honesty is better at getting people to open up, and helps you build rapport much more quickly. Come Talk To Me, which is a combitionation of the two primary ingredients in IO and IH, would also be a good fit. Might want to look into [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) for women as well. ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [November 7, 2006, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854/3 "2006-11-07T23:07:22Z")
> [@bebbe](#): > > I found this forum a few days ago, and I am wanting to try some of the pheromones. I have always thought it was just a load of rubbish, but after reading your posts, I would love to give it a try. However, I am at university in the UK with limited amounts of money, so I guess I would have to go for the travel sized phermonoes first… or at least the more inexpensive ones. > Which should I try? I am mostly attracted to women, but not exclusively, so I would like something that might have an affect on gay women as well as straight men… if possible. > > I also suffer from social phobia at times, so something to make me calm down a bit in social situations would be great. And I am about to graduate, so I am wondering if there is something that might work to my advantage in job interviews… > > Cheers!🙂 Hi, bebbe! Welcome to the forum. Once things have settled down here a bit today, I’ll send you your welcoming gift cert. I have a feeling the original [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) might be good for you. It makes me very powerful and forward. I’ve been calling it “Femme Fatale” a lot lately, because it’s _sexiness with guts_. Makes you feel like Angelina Jolie, and there’s many men and women who find that very sexy. I don’t know if that would deal with your exact problem, though. What’s your experience of social phobia like? Do you not feel like going in the first place, or do you get funny feelings after you go out and meet people? As for cost, almost anything we have can be made in the little “To Go” size bottles which will make it cheaper for you. The cheaper GPM (Global Priority Mail) shipping is fine for England, it usually takes a little over a week. Don’t worry about more expensive shipping. Also, shhhh… but usually throw in a couple of extra smaller-size freebies for newbies (especially the nice ones) so they can try different things 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bebbe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ce7236/32.png) [@bebbe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bebbe)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2006, 8:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854/4 "2006-11-08T08:25:05Z")
Thank you so much for your advice, Sigma and Jasmin. I really want to try the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and instant shine. My social phobia is usually only a problem during class and while doing presentations… but when we go out at night it´s not really a problem. I have a presentation comming up, so I might try the instant openness and instant honesty as well. When it comes to my sexuality, I find it hard to attract girls because very few assume that I might be into women… and there are no gay clubs where I currently live. I am moving to a bigger city next year - looking forward to that. Anyhow, thank you for your advice and can´t wait to try some pheromones 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![sigma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dec6dc/32.png) [@sigma](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sigma)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2006, 9:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854/5 "2006-11-08T21:57:12Z")
> [@bebbe](#): > > Thank you so much for your advice, Sigma and Jasmin. I really want to try the instant sexiness and instant shine. My social phobia is usually only a problem during class and while doing presentations… but when we go out at night it´s not really a problem. I have a presentation comming up, so I might try the instant openness and instant honesty as well. Oh when it comes to public speaking, Instant Honesty is much better than [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Instant Openness has a tendancy to make people babble on mindlessly. If you find yourself in a situation where you’re speaking in public and are nervous about it, you might find yourself babbling pointlessly out of nervousness…it happened to me a few days back when I gave a presentation without preparing. Instant Honesty feels like a slower pace comminication type of product. Light amounts of it will help ease some of your nervousmness ---
**Author:** ![bigballsky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/6f9a4e/32.png) [@bigballsky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bigballsky)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2007, 3:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854/6 "2007-07-14T15:57:22Z")
Hello !! New in this forum:-) Questions what is the favorite mix of the male members of this forum ( to attract women )? ---
**Author:** ![Legs\_on\_Approach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/legs_on_approach/32/2134_2.png) [@Legs\_on\_Approach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Legs_on_Approach)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2007, 6:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854/7 "2007-07-14T18:59:23Z")
Hi! Jasmin…Dont forget about me! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2007, 5:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854/8 "2007-07-24T05:34:03Z")
Your gift cert has been sent 🙂 ENJOY! ---
**Author:** ![Legs\_on\_Approach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/legs_on_approach/32/2134_2.png) [@Legs\_on\_Approach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Legs_on_Approach)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2007, 8:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854/9 "2007-07-24T08:52:23Z")
Right on…Thank you! 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2007, 6:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-getting-started-please-help/854/10 "2007-07-26T06:13:16Z")
> [@bebbe](#): > > I also suffer from social phobia at times Hi! Don’t worry too much about it…I’m sure you’ll overcome the problem just in no time! Glad that you joined this forum! 🙂 Welcome aboard!🙂