# Just Giving A Little "Hello" **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 2, 2010, 4:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259 "2010-05-02T04:05:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Evan2010](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b5a626/32.png) [@Evan2010](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Evan2010)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 4:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259/1 "2010-05-02T04:05:18Z")
Hello there, I’m 18 years and I’m from New York. I haven’t done a significant amount of research on [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) but just from this website, its blown my mind on my original thoughts of them. I found out there’s more than meets the eye to the science of it and I’m very willing to learn as much as possible. I’ve gone to parties all over my college and the strange thing is, is I can’t bring myself to act the way others do at these parties. Guys and girls grinding up on each other just to hook up. It just doesn’t seem moral. And it’s not that I lack confidence either. As long as I can grasp a girls attention I can usually maintain it for a significant amount of time. I just need a little more than that, I guess. ---
**Author:** ![scotties123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c37758/32.png) [@scotties123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scotties123)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259/2 "2010-05-02T04:16:24Z")
Welcome to the forums! Why don’t you tell us a bit more about yourself. What is your personality like? Are you more outgoing or introverted? What do you hope to get from using pheromones? Here is a quick breakdown of some of the more popular pheromones. Instant Shine is known for putting a big smile on your face and you might notice people lingering around you a bit longer than usual when you have it on. Instant Honesty helps promote deeper connections and friendship. Instant Openess turns people into chatterboxes and some people use it to get over social anxiety of meeting new people. CTTM2 is kind of like a 50-50 mix of IH and IO. AMMO is a big favorite for many users because it combines respect, approachability, and sexiness all into one. A314 is an amazing confidence booster and many people use it in the workplace to help gain the respect of their colleagues. Women also tend to see you as more valueable when you have it on. It pairs nicely with the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) (IS, IH, IO). Turn Up The Heat is basically a purely sexual pheromone. It’s best in club/bar/party type of situations, or when you already have a girl warmed up and need that little extra boost. I hope this helped, and just let us know if you have any questions! ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 4:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259/3 "2010-05-02T04:20:52Z")
I couldn’t have said it better. Great info scotties gave you. ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 4:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259/4 "2010-05-02T04:22:10Z")
Hello Evan, Perhaps the club scene is not your thing, I’know there’s many other places you can go to interact with ladies and I perfectly understand your choice and respect that, there’s several products that you should consider to reinforce attention and attraction, so with that I would recommend Ammo and Instant Shine both have a way of setting a real good tempo with the ladies. By the way consider either [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) or Instant Honesty as well for these are very good social products that goes along way in social and conservation department. cheers, MVKBUGATTI ---
**Author:** ![Evan2010](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b5a626/32.png) [@Evan2010](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Evan2010)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 4:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259/5 "2010-05-02T04:27:57Z")
Well, going a bit more in depth with myself. I’m not a very shy person, although to most it comes off that way. It just takes me some warming up to do but life experiences have taught me how to be very humorous. I’m not really sure what to expect from using the pheromones. I’m not a big risk taker so I always enjoy trial and error and if they even give me a slighter great advantage than that of “the other guy”, I can make it happen tenfold. There’s women who come in and out of my life like nothing and I’d hate to look back on it all and say “that was the one who got away.” Now, I’m not saying that these pheromones are going to find me the girl of my dreams but life always has a way of presenting us with little miracles. ---
**Author:** ![Evan2010](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b5a626/32.png) [@Evan2010](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Evan2010)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 4:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259/6 "2010-05-02T04:33:14Z")
I’m hearing a lot of good things about Ammo and one I’m very interested in trying is [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). Now, if anyone has expertise on that one, please let me know if it would be appropriate for this scenario, being this is one I find myself in most: I’m typically a traditional romantic for the most part. I like to be there for women, whether they’re a girlfriend or just a friend, and just let them know that they always can come to me if they ever need someone legitimate to talk to. Now, being that most, if not all people hear that on a regular basis, no one can honestly trust that. But I sincerely mean that, from the depths of my soul. I’d like them to be able to truly feel that. ---
**Author:** ![scotties123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c37758/32.png) [@scotties123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scotties123)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 4:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259/7 "2010-05-02T04:39:39Z")
Members your age have reported pretty good success with [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). It tends to make you come off as cooler and more mature, and people sometimes call it the James Bond effect. Just a heads up because I’ve seen this happen many times before, 95% of girls your age are not looking for the type of guy you describe yourself as (i.e. the hopeless romantic). I’m not saying that you should change yourself, all I’m saying is be prepared to be in it for the long haul because it will probably be a very long time until you meet someone that fits your personality. Just try not to fall into the friend zone because very often that’s how this stuff plays out. In all honesty I think the best thing for you to do is to just enjoy yourself and have fun. Try a few different pheromones out, see which ones you enjoy using the most, and give those a solid run. Everything else will fall into place from there, I promise 🙂. ---
**Author:** ![Evan2010](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b5a626/32.png) [@Evan2010](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Evan2010)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 4:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259/8 "2010-05-02T04:49:31Z")
I completely agree with you. I learned that lesson at age 15. I don’t plan as coming off that way at all. Most women my age like you say, just want fun. I do to. I think I just got a little to in depth in the long term relationship aspect of my life. Sorry if that was confusing. But if [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) gets good results, that might be my top choice. ---
**Author:** ![scotties123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c37758/32.png) [@scotties123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scotties123)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 5:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259/9 "2010-05-02T05:42:07Z")
IG does seem to work great for your age group, as does AMMO. I would probably go with AMMO, IG, and one of the socials to start with (IS, IH, IO). ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2010, 10:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-giving-a-little-hello/38259/10 "2010-05-03T22:44:35Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.