# Just Saying "Hello" with some Questions... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 31, 2010, 4:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-saying-hello-with-some-questions/35840 "2010-01-31T04:25:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![XJAYX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/bbe5ce/32.png) [@XJAYX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XJAYX)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2010, 4:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-saying-hello-with-some-questions/35840/1 "2010-01-31T04:25:11Z")
Hi people I’m Jay and I’m totally new to any of this stuff so, I’ll just start by talking a little about me and what brought me here on the first place. I’m 20 yrs old, in college and sadly a closeted gay guy ☹, live on U.S, Connecticut. So I have a friend that was talking about this [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) stuff… and I thought I should check it out. Well I know nothing about Pheromones at least not the science stuff; and I’m not expecting much, certainly not expecting no-one throwing themselves at me (even though it would be could) lol. But since I’m not “out” I thought this could work to make the slightest hints people throw out to show that they are interested a little more noticeable; so here my first question: Besides the Pheromone that it’s specially designed for gay men, what else should I consider? Like, TUTH? or do I buy like from the womans’ section?, since those are designed to attract men. I’m kind of shy and not good at making “the first move” even though girls are always flirting with me 😃 too bad lol. So yeah basically I’m looking for something that can will make little “hints” more noticeable so I don’t have to wonder if they are into me or something. What do you think, consider or recommend? Anxious to read what experts and not so experts and to say… everyone I suppose. With love your new buddy JAY! 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2010, 5:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-saying-hello-with-some-questions/35840/2 "2010-01-31T05:36:20Z")
Welcome! You have an interesting situation and I’ll throw in my 2 cents but am curious to see what more advanced users think Mystery boy clearly seems to be the main product you should go for. Adding some instant shine will get you more smiles and make people feel better to be around you and make you feel better. IH will make other people more honest, so maybe other gay or closeted gay males would be more blunt with you and more forward about their sexuality in conversations if the discussion is pointing that way? I do not know for sure if it would apply but don’t see why not. IO will make it easier to get conversations flowing with people.. hope that helps get ya started. you can order to go’s from [androticsdirect.com](http://androticsdirect.com) that are only like 10 bux each ---
**Author:** ![XJAYX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/bbe5ce/32.png) [@XJAYX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XJAYX)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2010, 5:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-saying-hello-with-some-questions/35840/3 "2010-01-31T05:40:20Z")
Umm, Thanks. Sounds interesting… But do you think I should go with the male of female Pheros? ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2010, 5:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-saying-hello-with-some-questions/35840/4 "2010-01-31T05:47:54Z")
I am not quite sure. What I would do is use the search feature in the upper right of this screen and type in gay or closeted gay and see what past users have done. I don’t know much about [female pheromones](https://phera.com/) ---
**Author:** ![XJAYX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/bbe5ce/32.png) [@XJAYX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XJAYX)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2010, 6:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-saying-hello-with-some-questions/35840/5 "2010-01-31T06:14:13Z")
Ok, thanks dude. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 31, 2010, 6:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-saying-hello-with-some-questions/35840/6 "2010-01-31T18:03:24Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.