# Just your not so average college kid **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 11, 2009, 8:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947 "2009-03-11T08:25:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tsnowdude55](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f07891/32.png) [@tsnowdude55](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tsnowdude55)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2009, 8:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947/1 "2009-03-11T08:25:36Z")
Hi I’m Brian. I’m 19, go to college in California, living in the epitome of a college town, beautiful females everywhere. You would think with a setting like that I wouldn’t have any need for some extra help right? Well that isn’t exactly the case. I’m probably the least experienced college kid you’ve ever met. I’ve never had a girlfriend, never a first kiss. It’s not like I have some kind of weird repulsive problem or that I’m deathly afraid of girls it just hasn’t happened. I am a little shy but I’m not uncomfortable talking to girls. My problem is that I’m always the “Best Friend”. I’m the guy who all the girls talk to when they’re having boy issues but I’m never the boy who the girls talk to their best friends about. I’m tired of just being the best friend. Help me strike passion in the eyes of the girls who consider me just the best friend. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2009, 8:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947/2 "2009-03-11T08:31:26Z")
Hi Brian, Welcome o the forum. To counter your shyness, try SHine. It is a confidence booster. It lighten your moods too. To attract the girls, try AMMO. It can make them attracted to you. Hope it will help you to break the ‘best friend’ zone. AMMO is well buffered and can be used at most occasions. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![tsnowdude55](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f07891/32.png) [@tsnowdude55](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tsnowdude55)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2009, 8:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947/3 "2009-03-11T08:42:33Z")
Thanks for the advice. I’d like to try that. Also, does anybody have any breaking the friend zone stories to share? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2009, 8:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947/4 "2009-03-11T08:47:04Z")
> [@tsnowdude55](#): > > Thanks for the advice. I’d like to try that. Also, does anybody have any breaking the friend zone stories to share? There are many posts on the topic in the mens section. Just search for it. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2009, 1:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947/5 "2009-03-11T13:07:20Z")
One good way to break the friend zone, is not to be so readily available to the girls you are with. You need to seem busy, and let them know that you can’t always be there for them when they are having problems because you have more important things to attend to. Also I’m not sure if this is the case with you, but don’t act needy, desperate, clingy, too interested etc. You have to act interested enough to let them know you are into them, but act with the manner that if they don’t want you as a date, then you have other options, other girls, etc anyways. Hope that helps a little. I used to have that problem too and am transitioning out of it. “I have a party I am going to later tonight…I’ll see you tomorrow if I’m not busy”. “I’m actually watching a really good show right now, so can’t talk on the phone this moment. I’ll call you when the show ends” Things like this are good ways to show that you aren’t readily available and that you are busy and have other options besides them. This will get them more interested in you. The thing that girls don’t like about the “nice guy”, is that they are too predictable, too boring, and too easy to take advantage of. They see them as a good friend, a good person to talk to, a good younger or older brother figure etc. The key here is to not be too nice, but not be an ass to any girl either. ---
**Author:** ![tsnowdude55](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f07891/32.png) [@tsnowdude55](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tsnowdude55)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2009, 4:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947/6 "2009-03-12T04:25:08Z")
Yea I am that way a bit but I’m working on it. I would just like a little help. Do I qualify for the certificate? ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2009, 4:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947/7 "2009-03-12T04:33:58Z")
I would suggest [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and Shine, they work well together and the to-go’s are well priced for us college kids. ---
**Author:** ![hoaxey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hoaxey/32/182_2.png) [@hoaxey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hoaxey)\ **Post date:** [March 12, 2009, 9:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947/8 "2009-03-12T09:52:48Z")
> [@revivia](#): > > The key here is to not be too nice, but not be an ass to any girl either. When i realised this, made my life alot more easier. The first girl i went out with turned out to be a real bitch. Kinda glad. Now i know it can’t get any worse 😉 + I learned ALOT. And in my opinion, first relationships never work out that much. Based upon other people’s experiences, so as mine. So Don’t give up on it, or get too dissapointed. Keep your head up 😉 [The Ladder Theory](http://www.laddertheory.com) Read this to Enlighten to you (A) ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2009, 12:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947/9 "2009-03-13T00:42:55Z")
Hello There Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Great advice from the members. I think AMMO and Ishine would be good to start with. AMMO will give you a sexy attractive interesting vibe and Ishine a charismatic charm. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** Be sure to balance your nice ass. (snort) Whoops I mean find a balance between being nice and being a ass LOL 😃 Just teasing 😉 > [@](#): > > **Revivia** > The key here is to not be too nice, but not be an ass to any girl either Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![helloMcFly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b782af/32.png) [@helloMcFly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/helloMcFly)\ **Post date:** [March 13, 2009, 1:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/just-your-not-so-average-college-kid/26947/10 "2009-03-13T01:00:27Z")
Dude, you and me both. I mean to the casual user reading intros we might just be the same person. Let me just say I feel yah on the friend zone. When you are dropped into that dreaded place it feels like you just failed a competition you’ve been training for weeks on end. Rent “Just Friends”. I guarantee you will get a good laugh.