# Kittenland!!!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094>\
**Category:** Women's Journals\
**Created:** [January 6, 2008, 4:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094 "2008-01-06T16:44:45Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
**Page:** 11

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**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2008, 5:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/201 "2008-07-15T05:50:13Z")

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For the girls. (NSFW!) 😉  
[Naked Rugby](http://www.aol.co.nz/news/gallery/nude-rugby-match-ssv-071208/8/false/6000/gallery.jhtml). Talk about _manly_.

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2008, 8:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/202 "2008-07-15T08:26:35Z")

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> [@Kitten](#):
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> For the girls. (NSFW!) 😉  
> [Naked Rugby](http://www.aol.co.nz/news/gallery/nude-rugby-match-ssv-071208/8/false/6000/gallery.jhtml). Talk about _manly_.

LOL! Nice hats! 😃

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**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2008, 12:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/203 "2008-07-15T12:19:20Z")

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> [@Kitten](#):
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> So it’s cute, stylish. Great. But I’m used to – sorry for bragging – enjoying a little sex appeal while off the clock, so that was a problem I still needed to solve.
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> I was headed to the library with my ipod on shuffle, when Joe Le Taxi by Hanayo came on. And it hit me: I look french! I can work that. From now til it grows out, I will pretend I am a french jeune fille on vaycay from my job at Le Crazy Horse. 🙂
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> And I got a little hit from a gorgeous guy, also blonde heehee–and really tan, as I left the library. As I’m heading to my car, I hear some guy (with I think a South African or Dutch accent) following me, talking about the weather and how great it is that it is so hot out. I assumed he was talking on his phone. I was nearly to my car when he came up quickly and planted himself almost in front of me. No phone. “Hello!” Giant smile. “Are you having a good day?”
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> Unfortunately, because I was in the parking lot and it was late and getting dark and I was carrying my computer, I couldn’t afford to be nice to him. I kept moving, threw him a strong look, said “Hello.” firmly, trotted around him to my car and jumped in like a scaredy cat. Last thing I heard was, “I hope you have a wonderful day!” It was evening, but I’ll cut him some slack.
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> XO  
> Kitten

lol, it’s great that you like your hair much better now 🙂 Looking like a french girl huh? Sounds good to me!

Excellent hit, as usual (you’ve got most of the best hits!) but don’t worry you’re not the only one. If any girl got a hit in the night, the first thing, she’d think is to sprint lol I would!

Anyways! Nice to see that you’re doing great!😃

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**Author:** ![flaming](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/flaming/32/212_2.png) [@flaming](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/flaming)\
**Post date:** [July 15, 2008, 12:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/204 "2008-07-15T12:45:55Z")

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Im thinking of that movie…ah ‘Human Nature’ when the lab assistant pretends to be a French girl…"a little french girl’ he he he

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**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 12:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/205 "2008-07-16T00:09:53Z")

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> [@Kitten](#):
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> I was headed to the library with my ipod on shuffle, when Joe Le Taxi by Hanayo came on. And it hit me: I look french! I can work that.

French, huh? 😃 I would think it’s the way the bangs frame your cheek bones, especially if you have high cheek bones and an oval face. I’d been told, after trimming my bangs (though I had long hair at the time) that it made me look Frenchie too. Short hair really is very stylish if you know how to rock it… and lord knows you know how to rock what you got, Kitten 🆒

I’m watching my hair grow. Once it at least reaches my collar bone, _I’ll_ be able to rock it too! 😛 Up until I was about twelve years old, I had very long, very straight hair. It was so well-behaved. So what did I do? I chopped it all off! And you know what it did? It fluffed right up! Whaa! 🙄 And it even stayed fluffy when I grew it out again! Count your blessings 😛

(It’s curly now though, so I’m pretty eager to see it long!)

> [@msselva](#):
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> So for the makeup, accessories…

Msselva, those were some excellent glamor tips you offered 🙂 Very thoughtful of you! And Biotin, huh? I _wondered_ why my mother said that eggs and nuts helped hair grow… Now, to quote you… I learned something new today 😃

> [@mark-in-dallas](#):
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> But, if it makes you feel any better I’ve had hundreds of bad haircuts. I once had a stylist **swirl** my hair on top - I WANTED TO KILL HER!!!

LOL! Like [Ace Ventura](http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/512F63FX8ML._SS500_.jpg)? [Clark Kent](http://www.supermanhomepage.com/images/characters/who-images/clark2.jpg)? [Jimmy Neutron](http://www.cinema.com/image_lib/5054_heading.jpg)? 😛

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**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 1:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/206 "2008-07-16T01:10:11Z")

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> [@Kitten](#):
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> Anyway, today went _much_ better. Getting ready for work, I went overboard on the femme details, it was almost like drag! Pink shirt, flippy skirt, bare legs and heels. Kitten

That sounds like overkill (?). You sound very self-conscious about your appearance. I don’t know your age, but I’m guessing less than 25. Perhaps you live in California, too, or a large metro area like New York, Chicago, etc.

BTW, alot of women in my family have had short hair (both my grandmothers, my grandfather’s second wife, and my aunts and my mom- only my one aunt has long hair). It’s not unfeminine, you just have to have some confidence in yourself. And I wouldn’t say it looks French, either 🙂

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**Author:** ![ariadne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ariadne/32/770_2.png) [@ariadne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ariadne)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 1:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/207 "2008-07-16T01:38:51Z")

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> [@Kitten](#):
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> Anyway, today went _much_ better. Getting ready for work, I went overboard on the femme details, it was almost like drag! Pink shirt, flippy skirt, bare legs and heels. Red lips (thank you Msselva), 2 coats of lengthening mascara, and raspberry blush. My dangly sparkly earrings are very casino. So I’ll need to look for some new ones. I _really_ like that idea tho and I’m going to follow up on it. Pheromones: 3 sprays MX235, 1 dab Instant Honesty, and 100 mcg EST.

Sounds sweet, Kitten! I’m sure the cut looks great on you, by the way. 😉

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**Author:** ![ariadne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ariadne/32/770_2.png) [@ariadne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ariadne)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 1:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/208 "2008-07-16T01:39:52Z")

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> [@Bella](#):
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> LOL! Nice hats! 😃

Yeah. Nice hats. 🆒

😉

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**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 3:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/209 "2008-07-16T03:47:39Z")

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lol, kitten ya know what! you made me curious today, and I went through my album to see the worst cut I’ve eva had! I didn’t have any pics from when I was 12 (since I probably didn’t let anyone take pics lol) but! this pic was when I was 14! took it out, scanned it, and now I’m showin’ it to you! Yes, is/a is definately making me feel brave at the moment! lol 😛

lol, look my the mess ma mom made!!! 😮 😠 ☹ I looked like a choir boy lol!

[ImageShack - Hosting :: n5102493646942027218up7.jpg](http://img174.imageshack.us/my.php?image=n5102493646942027218up7.jpg)

If you wanna feel good, look at this mess, and laugh all you want! I allow you to do so!

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**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 4:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/210 "2008-07-16T04:29:40Z")

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> [@](#):
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> Quote:  
> Originally Posted by **Bella** [view post](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/202)  
> _LOL! Nice hats! 😃_
> 
> Yeah. Nice hats. 🆒

The hats were the first thing I noticed. 🙂 What does “bottom bus” mean? 🙄 The only rugby term I know is “scrum.”

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**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 4:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/211 "2008-07-16T04:55:26Z")

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> You sound very self-conscious about your appearance.

That hurts a little bit to read, but you are probably right. Up until I was about 12-13 I got teased about looking like a nerd because I didn’t know how to dress right. I was a really sweet kid and just couldn’t figure out what to do. And then when I hit 12-13 I suddenly had a killer figure and extremely prominent breasts and I got teased and harassed for that. The teasing didn’t let up until I changed my look to goth at 14 and scared everyone silly. 😃 I like to think I’m over all that now. But I’m probably still more aware of image than most people because I’ve learned to enjoy its power to affect others’ behavior.

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**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 5:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/212 "2008-07-16T05:00:45Z")

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> [@msselva](#):
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> I looked like a choir boy lol!

Wow, that really is a bad cut 😮 She missed your hair completely and took off your whole face!

Aw, Msselva, it isn’t _that_ bad 🙄 I gave myself a sort of _mullet_ once. How is _that_ for a fashion faux pas? I had been cutting my own hair, and didn’t quite realize the back had grown so much… I’ve destroyed all photographic evidence of course, but since we’re sharing, I’ll sketch it out, even though I won’t be able to do the atrocity justice 🙂 The red shows the way I had been trimming it. I was only 15 at the time. Can I use youth as an excuse?

[http://i36.tinypic.com/21279n5.png](http://i36.tinypic.com/21279n5.png)

So there you go, Kitten. You also don’t have a mullet-type! 😃

P.S. I’d be happy to remove my doodle if you prefer. I don’t wanna clutter your journal!

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**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 5:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/213 "2008-07-16T05:02:11Z")

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Brave girl, Msselva! 😃 However, I think you made that cut look cute! Pretty necklace, white dress… You look gorgeously retro. And I _wish_ my hair curled in little ringlets like that.

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**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 5:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/214 "2008-07-16T05:16:33Z")

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> [@Kitten](#):
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> And then when I hit 12-13 I suddenly had a killer figure and extremely prominent breasts and I got teased and harassed for that.

Ouch. You sprout a hot bod and get teased, and no doubt those same people grew to envy and chase you in later years… I hated middle school. Worst time I’ve ever had 🙄

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> The teasing didn’t let up until I changed my look to goth at 14 and scared everyone silly. 😃 I like to think I’m over all that now. But I’m probably still more aware of image than most people because I’ve learned to enjoy its power to affect others’ behavior.

Well, if you can’t kill 'em with kindness, there’s nothing wrong with making them piss their pants 😉

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**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 5:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/215 "2008-07-16T05:18:06Z")

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And we have an artist too! Nice profile drawing, Tealeaves!! Yeah mullets, not good. But cutting the back of your hair is practically impossible. If you use two mirrors, everything is kind of backwards and the scissors go in the opposite direction from where you think they will go.

My mom has a kindergarten class picture of me where I have bangs that are about 3/4 inch or so long. I was so excited about my picture and my sweet new dress that I decided to cut my hair with my paper scissors. Didn’t use a mirror. I ended up with hair in different lengths on each side and bangs trimmed at a wobbly slant that varied from about 1/2 inch to 2. I’m told I was really proud of my work. Mom took me to the salon right before the pic and they did their best to make everything the same length.

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 5:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/216 "2008-07-16T05:26:29Z")

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> [@Kitten](#):
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> That hurts a little bit to read, but you are probably right. Up until I was about 12-13 I got teased about looking like a nerd because I didn’t know how to dress right. I was a really sweet kid and just couldn’t figure out what to do. And then when I hit 12-13 I suddenly had a killer figure and extremely prominent breasts and I got teased and harassed for that. The teasing didn’t let up until I changed my look to goth at 14 and scared everyone silly. 😃 I like to think I’m over all that now. But I’m probably still more aware of image than most people because I’ve learned to enjoy its power to affect others’ behavior.

Don’t we all carry a bit of our inner 12 year old with us even after we’ve finally realized we’re gorgeous?

At least you out grew your awkward stage quickly, my awkwardness lasted until my late teens and I am still slightly self conscious at times. At 12 I was a too thin gangly thing. My knees were bigger than my thighs. My family nicknamed me skeeter. As in I looked like a mosquito all eyes and legs. :o 🙄

I’ve also had my share of bad hair decisions as a teen. Didn’t help my sister was planning to be a stylist. That didn’t work out, and neither did any of her hair cuts. I’m still afraid of hair cuts and keep my hair long and one length that usually ends up in a ponytail or big messy knot on top of my head by the end of the day.

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**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 5:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/217 "2008-07-16T05:31:21Z")

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Quote: Originally Posted by **mark-in-dallas** [What happens if a guy wears copulins?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-happens-if-a-guy-wears-copulins/616/13)  
_But, if it makes you feel any better I’ve had hundreds of bad haircuts. I once had a stylist **swirl** my hair on top - I WANTED TO KILL HER!!!_  
LOL! Like [Ace Ventura](http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/512F63FX8ML._SS500_.jpg)? [Clark Kent](http://www.supermanhomepage.com/images/characters/who-images/clark2.jpg)? [Jimmy Neutron](http://www.cinema.com/image_lib/5054_heading.jpg)?

`http://www.pheromonetalk.com/../images/smilies/tongue.gif`

For this one, I so want a picture! Or at least a detailed description.

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**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 5:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/218 "2008-07-16T05:40:59Z")

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> [@Kitten](#):
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> And we have an artist too! Nice profile drawing, Tealeaves!!

Thank you Kitten 🙂

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> Yeah mullets, not good. But cutting the back of your hair is practically impossible.

Actually, I’ve gotten pretty good at it 🙂 I’ve been doing it myself since 14, with the occasional urge to get it ‘professionally’ done (which always ends in heartbreak). I just cut blindly, feeling with my hands and checking the mirror every few minutes. Sometimes it comes out unevenly, but at least I haven’t had a mullet since 🙄

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> If you use two mirrors, everything is kind of backwards and the scissors go in the opposite direction from where you think they will go.

I’ve stabbed myself in the head trying to navigate with just _one_ mirror. Lol.

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> My mom has a kindergarten class picture of me where I have bangs that are about 3/4 inch or so long. I was so excited about my picture and my sweet new dress that I decided to cut my hair with my paper scissors. Didn’t use a mirror. I ended up with hair in different lengths on each side and bangs trimmed at a wobbly slant that varied from about 1/2 inch to 2. I’m told I was really proud of my work. Mom took me to the salon right before the pic and they did their best to make everything the same length.

LOL! Too cute 😃 _No one_ can tell a kid that their work isn’t totally awesome 🆒

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**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 5:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/219 "2008-07-16T05:42:03Z")

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> Don’t we all carry a bit of our inner 12 year old with us even after we’ve finally realized we’re gorgeous?

Yep we do. 🙂 And I think that is a good thing. There’s a lot more joy there than pain. (Wow. Look at me get all philosophical! About haircuts! 😮 )

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> My family nicknamed me skeeter. As in I looked like a mosquito all eyes and legs.
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> `http://www.pheromonetalk.com/../images/smilies/redface.gif`
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> `http://www.pheromonetalk.com/../images/smilies/rolleyes.gif`

Sorry, I know you probably hated it, but that is a truly adorable nickname. And all eyes and legs with knees bigger than thighs? I do believe that describes all the top models of today. But back then at that age, none of knew any better did we?

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2008, 8:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittenland/8094/220 "2008-07-16T08:51:12Z")

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Well, I’ve had my share of…I’ll say _interesting_ hair cuts. My family was in the hairdressing business. My mom, both of her sisters, my uncle and two of my cousins owned their own salons.

When I was little my mom always gave me a pixie cut. 🙄 I didn’t know any better not to like it…then. It grew out and I was wearing it to about my shoulders. I remember, one time, when I went to “the shop” as we called it…after school…I was in second grade…Mom wanted to wash my hair…when she took me to the sink before she began to shampoo…hope this dun gross ya out…she discovered 😮 head lice. Told ya it was gross 😛 …but not uncommon, then, anyways. She, of course, immediately freaked out! Said we’d have to cut it off…couldn’t deal with it…too difficult to try to remove ‘em from longer hair. I cried/screamed bloody murder and put up a fight ‘cause I didn’t want her to cut it off. Mama was quick with her hands…grabbed my hair in a hunk and chopped it off in one motion! It was a scene. I cried and screamed for an hour. 😛 Y’all are probably too young to remember when Vidal Sassoon first introduced his very mod styles, I had one of thoses too…lol. Heavy bangs, shorter in the back and angled down to the chin. Actually it’s very similar to what’s in style now, with or without the bangs. When I was about 15/16 I let it grow long, _very_ long…only cut it a few years ago. Never did the Farah Fawcett thing, though, as I don’t like layers. It’s funny because I had every opportunity to do…only God knows what to my hair…and what did I do? Nothing. Jus’ not my thing. Make-up? Now were talkin’…_that’s_ my thing. I’ve never even colored my hair…still don’t. No need. People would/do ask me, “What do you do to your hair?” It ain’t what I _do_ to it…it’s what I _don’t_ do to it. I still don’t do anything to it…lol. I hate being a slave to anything. 🙄 Though I do have a bane, or two, in/of my existence…fer sure.

Anyways jus’ thought I’d share a little of my hairstory, as well. 😉

Bella

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