# ladies! help me out with my.... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 17, 2008, 4:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-help-me-out-with-my/11331 "2008-04-17T04:30:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![woostar88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/96bed5/32.png) [@woostar88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/woostar88)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2008, 4:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-help-me-out-with-my/11331/1 "2008-04-17T04:30:41Z")
hello, i’ve been reading many post in this forum, and so many good tips and informations are soaking into my brain… anyways, let me tell you about myself, im korean-american, and being able to speak two different is great and all, but unfortunately english and korean has completely different sentence structures, thus it confuses me something when i am flirting with a woman… im not asking for a english lecture or anything like that… I’ve been taking some interested in [Pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/), but im only experimenting to engage with some flirtations. My problem is not the language, it’s just when i talk to some sexy ladies, my mind just so focused in her, so that i can’t really engage into any interesting conversations… And finally, from my understandings, is it true that the girls can flirt way better than guys can? thanks! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2008, 9:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-help-me-out-with-my/11331/2 "2008-04-17T09:05:10Z")
> [@](#): > > And finally, from my understandings, is it true that the girls can flirt way better than guys can? My opinion yes we can, I think we were born with a flirting gene or something. You see it at as young of a age as 6 months when little girls figure out how to wrap there daddies around there finger. I always find it amazing to watch. My friend has a 2 year old grand daughter and she is a pip. I told him she would steal his heart and he said “oh no I am strict” and he is with the boys. She had him the first time she stuck her little lower lip out. He melted like a puddle on the floor LOL So that being said, What do you want to know ? How to flirt or what products will help you with flirting. Flirting is simply giving direct attention and interest then taking it away and doing it again in a repeated manner. My advice would be to practice. Think of the things you may want to talk about before you begin to flirt. If you have a game plan after a while it will just come more natually without thinking about it. Keep in mind you can practice verbal flirting here in the forum to. It can help build your confidence. There is alot of material on the art of flirting on the net. Some good places to check out for tips … [Flirting Article - The Meaning of Flirting, Signals, Signs, Animal Instincts](http://www.links2love.com/flirt_article_3.htm) [How to Flirt if You’re a Guy - Learn how to Begin or Improve your Romance!](http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/flirtm.asp) [Guys and Women Flirting Tips](http://www.flirtzone.com/tips.htm#men) There are a ton more online. Keep mind that body language is a form of flirting as well so learning to read and knowing certain cues will help you there. For products to use for flirting. Ishine, this gives off a charismatic vibe and people with charisma usually are flirtatious. IO will help you feel more comfortable flirting and make them more responsive. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2008, 10:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-help-me-out-with-my/11331/3 "2008-04-18T22:40:13Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > My opinion yes we can, I think we were born with a flirting gene or something. Well some of you certainly are - lol. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2008, 6:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-help-me-out-with-my/11331/4 "2008-04-21T06:25:07Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > You see it at as young of a age as 6 months when little girls figure out how to wrap there daddies around there finger. I always find it amazing to watch. My friend has a 2 year old grand daughter and she is a pip. I told him she would steal his heart and he said “oh no I am strict” and he is with the boys. She had him the first time she stuck her little lower lip out. He melted like a puddle on the floor LOL > Tisha I have no children and definitely no Grand children, but that story melted my heart. Reps for tugging at the heart string. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![woostar88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/96bed5/32.png) [@woostar88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/woostar88)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2008, 7:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-help-me-out-with-my/11331/5 "2008-04-21T07:50:55Z")
yeah… definitely girls are way better at flirting than guys… we are just learning, i noticed that guys are straight forward, and girls are trying to figure out the way to change themselves… (don’t get me wrong please =/ )