# Ladies, I need your help! What do you suggest for lust/sexiness/increasing that 'spar **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 5, 2016, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-i-need-your-help-what-do-you-suggest-for-lust-sexiness-increasing-that-spar/66580 "2016-11-05T00:25:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![msherr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ad7895/32.png) [@msherr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msherr)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2016, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-i-need-your-help-what-do-you-suggest-for-lust-sexiness-increasing-that-spar/66580/1 "2016-11-05T00:25:47Z")
Smile Hello! F/25 looking to bring more lust in my marriage Hi everyone- I am 25/f/USA. I am looking for something to increase my husbands sexual attraction to me. We are already both very attracted to each other, but because life happens, our sexual intimacy has decreased significantly (we used to have sex 3-5 times a week, now its once a week- if that) because of his demanding job and our opposit work schedules. He says he’s “old now” and often “tired” (he’s only 34!). So I guess I am looking for something that will help bring a spark back. He always thinks I’m sexy but I want him to jump my bones again lol. I am interested in trying the Instant Female Wardrobe, the Lust After Me oil, or a TAH / TAF [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). What would you all suggest I try? Thank you in advance! ---
**Author:** ![brasileira](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/5f9b8f/32.png) [@brasileira](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/brasileira)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2016, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-i-need-your-help-what-do-you-suggest-for-lust-sexiness-increasing-that-spar/66580/2 "2016-11-05T16:11:30Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum, msherr! The Instant Female Wardrobe is definitely the best option to start. Test each product solo for a few days so you learn how to recognize what each one of them does and how people (specially your husband) react to it. I.Sexiness A and B are both great sexual [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) but your husband will most probably react better to one of them only. It will also take some time (exposure) for him to start showing the expected reaction (he is too used to your “natural mone signature”) but when it finally happens, you will be amazed. 😉 After you are a bit more familiar with the pheros, you can start combining the I.Sexiness with other great putatives or mixes which bring some diferent fun to the game. Hope you enjoy this Phero World as much as the rest of us do and pls start a journal. It’s the best way to track results and improve the experience. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [November 7, 2016, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-i-need-your-help-what-do-you-suggest-for-lust-sexiness-increasing-that-spar/66580/3 "2016-11-07T01:12:48Z")
Hi msherr, I have actually tested IS/A and IS/B and you are more than welcome to read about them in my journal. I would start off with the female wardrobe and test both of them out to see what is best. I would start with the IS/B and the reason why is the IS/A is more in your face and can be a little much for some guys. I suggest the kit to start with because they spray is easier to use starting off with until you get familiar with pheromones. I would also check out brasileira’s journal to as it is full of good info.