# Ladies, may I ask for your advice?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-may-i-ask-for-your-advice/16189>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [July 24, 2008, 10:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-may-i-ask-for-your-advice/16189 "2008-07-24T10:06:06Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![Puppet](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/puppet/32/992_2.png) [@Puppet](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Puppet)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 2:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-may-i-ask-for-your-advice/16189/82 "2008-09-24T02:07:39Z")

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data4

I have been reading these posts for some time and can only add my opinion and feelings.

reps to you!

My opinion is that you are a kind, sincere, and lovely person and that you have successfully traversed a hard path to a better place.

I don’t feel that it was all about this new relationship with Sarah as much as it was about finding yourself and your new place in the world … and in this you have triumphed !!!

Go forward a stronger human being … make the right choices for YOURSELF (i am quite sure that you will) and watch what the future will bring you… I have the feeling that it will be wonderful wonderful things!!!

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**Author:** ![pepot69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a4c791/32.png) [@pepot69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pepot69)\
**Post date:** [January 1, 2011, 4:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-may-i-ask-for-your-advice/16189/83 "2011-01-01T04:05:45Z")

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Bookmarking

I symphatize with D4’s situation. I am myself similar in the beginning of his situation but by dint of hard work and really putting my foot down (with help of A314) I able to salvage my marriage. I am subscribing to this thread in case something like this were to crop up again.

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**Author:** ![data4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/data4/32/272_2.png) [@data4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/data4)\
**Post date:** [January 2, 2011, 7:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-may-i-ask-for-your-advice/16189/84 "2011-01-02T07:45:12Z")

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> [@pepot69](#):
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> I symphatize with D4’s situation. I am myself similar in the beginning of his situation but by dint of hard work and really putting my foot down (with help of A314) I able to salvage my marriage. I am subscribing to this thread in case something like this were to crop up again.

Wow… I was never expecting to see this thread pop up in my email, but there it was. It’s funny how things come full circle. Since my last post in the thread, I’ve worked at the new location for a little over a year and a half and am back at the old. I’ve interacted with “Sarah” quite frequently since returning and the feelings have been… well, indifferent. I think Warren was right when he posited that I didn’t really want this girl. I _thought_ I did, but time has taught me that it was a fleeting thing.

Oddly enough, now that I’m not interested in her any more, I noticed that the way I act around her is totally different. Cocky/funny, confident. Not in the least bit nervous or fidgety. Just goes to show what a crush can do to a psyche. 😃

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [January 5, 2011, 5:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-may-i-ask-for-your-advice/16189/85 "2011-01-05T05:32:03Z")

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He lives! 🙂 Good to see you, Jon. I was wondering where you got to.

Time and distance often put feelings into perspective. You worked it out as I knew you would. You’re smarter than the average bear, lol. 😉

Bella

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**Author:** ![pepot69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/a4c791/32.png) [@pepot69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pepot69)\
**Post date:** [January 5, 2011, 12:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-may-i-ask-for-your-advice/16189/86 "2011-01-05T12:26:38Z")

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Whew Warren!

Just finished reading the entire thread. Warren is DEEP and so are all of you who replied and engaged in the discussion. I am so glad to be in this forum myself and I hope to be able to contribute to the discussions as eruditely as Warren has in the future. For now I shall continue to read and be edified by the material in this forum.

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