# Late Bloomer seeking ways to keep evolving game **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 28, 2011, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/late-bloomer-seeking-ways-to-keep-evolving-game/49565 "2011-03-28T01:02:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Funkfreed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/73ab20/32.png) [@Funkfreed](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Funkfreed)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2011, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/late-bloomer-seeking-ways-to-keep-evolving-game/49565/1 "2011-03-28T01:02:42Z")
Hey all! Hope everything is going well with everyone on this forum. I guess I should give an introduction about myself and a quick run-down on what I hope to achieve through this forums and the knowledge it provides (plus the 25 dollar gift card wouldn’t hurt a poor college kid like me 🙂 ). I’m currently of African descent (currently obtained my citizenship in the U.S. not too long ago) and moved from African country to America around late elementary. Thanks to the culture shock my personality became ultra-shy and super afraid of rejections and being judged by others (sounds so silly now but 5th graders sure can be mean). In fact, I just had my first kiss when I was 18 (and I’m still yet to have a girlfriend!), and my first sex experience when I was 19. I don’t think I’m bad looking (Dark skinned, 6’2”, leaned out, girls check me out), however I like to keep expanding my repertoire, if you will, in hopes of achieving Don Juan status. Thanks to my sister and cousin who are a model and fashion designer respectively, my fashion sense is on point and always draws attention. I’m currently at a state school with an insane Greek life and the fact that these girls are just throwing their inhibitions to the wind makes me want to take advantage of it before I graduate (currently a junior). I’m a double major in accounting/finance and take my education very seriously (I have an insane desire rich). I hope that by joining this forum I will be able to achieve a few things: 1. Increased confidence 2. Better knowledge of [pheromones](https://a314.com/) 3. Stop being an insane dick to women (seriously, I swear I would be doing 1000x times better with women if I just didn’t have this complex and fear of rejection) After browsing the forums, I’ve already found a plethora of knowledge on pheromones. So I guess my question would be: 1. How does one go about treating women? Being a dick is not working out at all. 2. How can I be better at holding conversations? Hopefully I can continuously contribute to this forum as time goes on with my experiences (I go out 5 times a week haha, I love partying) with pheromones and interacting with girls (huge social circle due to my fraternity). Thanks so much for reading this and I hope to interact with all of you one way or another! [http://imgross.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/chicago-bulls-mascot-157147.jpeg](http://imgross.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/chicago-bulls-mascot-157147.jpeg) And to a great season for the bulls! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2011, 1:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/late-bloomer-seeking-ways-to-keep-evolving-game/49565/2 "2011-03-28T01:17:46Z")
Hi and welcome funkfreed to the mone forum!!! Yes, some excellent advice giving mone members here that WILL help you out on your quest to Don Juan status! 🙂 By your description of yourself, you sound like IJ personified, though your intro post doesn’t come off as from a jerk! Now, as a boost to increase confidence, you can start out with IG and AMMO. Once you have a handle on how these work out in providing you the self effect of confidence, you can get a much better use of the ultimate Alpha mone, A314. I’d say, either the A314/b or the oil would be your next stage, with both of these giving an equivalent High Status signal with a boost in your own confidence. The spray be quick and to the point in effects, with a shorter duration of effects while the oil will last more like all day, but is a bit slower in beginning to get an effect on others. With AMMO, it will provide a sexually inclined attraction to others. You could also add a socially inclined mone, such as IS to get a relaxed at ease vibe with it giving you a sparkle in the eyes of others. But, in all cases, whatever mone you were, just like your fashion sense will dictate how and when you’ll wear your clothes, your mones will need **you** to be in the driver seat when you put on your mones. You’ll need adjust your attitude and maintain it in accord to the mone signal you’re putting out. Wear the mones, don’t let the mones wear you… otherwise, people just won’t believe that signal from your mones… It does look like you’re into the Bulls… a little…😛 Hey, I’m sure others will chime in, and we’ll all chip in to get you straightened out, bud! ---
**Author:** ![Thelostsock](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f0a364/32.png) [@Thelostsock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Thelostsock)\ **Post date:** [March 28, 2011, 1:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/late-bloomer-seeking-ways-to-keep-evolving-game/49565/3 "2011-03-28T01:19:19Z")
Hey yas Funkfreed, welcome to the forum. You have came to the right place for info and in my opinion the right place to buy some mones. I am new to this myself but I am/was kinda like you, afraid of rejection but I was also afraid of approaching beautiful women. I think in your situation you need some mones for the effect they will have on you. I would recommend some IO, IH and some IG, and I would stay away from the IJ you seem to have that down pact on your own lol J/K. With the mones you will get the increased confidence you are looking for at least I know I have. Best of luck and if there is anything more I can help you with let me know.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 29, 2011, 8:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/late-bloomer-seeking-ways-to-keep-evolving-game/49565/4 "2011-03-29T20:00:19Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Funkfreed! I am surprised at your question at how you treat women. That is something men/boys learn from mother , parents or by watching how dad at home treats mom. Pheromones are a great start and will do you good and the men on this forum will help you when it comes to all your questions about women. Women love to be treated well and should be treated with respect because we are the flowers of the earth. However, because of the games persons play , the deceit it is good you are aware of how women think and what they are actually saying as oppose to what they are telling you. This information is good to help you grow as a human being and understand women and yourself better > [@Help to the Masses](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-to-the-masses/189992): > > I am going to make a thread dedicated to getting better with women. What would you guys like to know more about? **Your gc was issued! 🙂** ---
**Author:** ![Like7UP\_nVerhaditNeverwil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ce73a5/32.png) [@Like7UP\_nVerhaditNeverwil](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Like7UP_nVerhaditNeverwil)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2011, 6:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/late-bloomer-seeking-ways-to-keep-evolving-game/49565/5 "2011-04-05T06:32:46Z")
Nice post man!The only thing I can contribute to your fear is last week went to a mall and I got rejected a few times never felt anything besides that I felt wayy better better afterward, my mood got lifted and I felt like I just wanted to meet new people, just in a real talkative mood. try talking to a few average girls then when you start feeling that good feeling fiind a girl you preccive as being out of your leuge.If it goes well your one step closer to overcoming this little problem and if you still find yourself with those bad feeling and thoughts take a step back and approach girls you feel confident around, then try with another real hot girl and repeat.You should find yourself that after a few times of doings this it wont matter like remember when you were a kid and your on your bike and there this big jump you want to hit but your sacred for whatever reason but you eventually hit it, you probably fall and you realize it wasn’t even bad, you try your second time and you don’t fall but it’s kinda sloppy, by your tenth time hitting the jump you don’t even care about what happens and you realized you lost that fear you first had\>By the time you hit it like 30 times your doing tricks and all.Kinda the same things first times are always the hardest but you never know what it’s like until you go for it!