# Lessons in congruency + mx292 **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 15, 2009, 3:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904 "2009-01-15T03:39:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![SCoupe](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scoupe/32/2101_2.png) [@SCoupe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SCoupe)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 3:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/1 "2009-01-15T03:39:11Z")
Second real report for me and I must say I learned a lot. It’s sorta long but bear with me - or not - I’ll get it off my chest either way. Today was a day of in my face instruction on [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) and being congruent with the vibe they project. As background info, I am a building & fire code specialist who is hired to work with various gov’t agencies to make sure construction projects get on track and stay on track with local, state & federal requirements. I’m expected to be the eyes, ears and negotiator of all things fire protection or life safety oriented in everything from multi-family residential to 100 story Class A office buildings & I’m damn good @ it. I stumbled onto Androtics for pretty much the same reason that I suspect most other people end up here but after reading some of the experiences being reported, it became clear fairly quickly that these products were tools for the romance department but could also be quite useful in virtually all aspects of life - so in I jumped. I had used all the instant products along with A314 and saw that what I was reading about was in fact real. Due to the effects (self & otherwise) I seemed to have been working on cruise control for the last couple of months until TODAY. Without too much boredom, I was hired by an Architectural firm to begin the approval process of a multi phase, multi-million dollar jobs generator south of the City. The instructions were as usual with some special instructions that certain things had to happen in a particular sequence due to job functions being imported from other states. It was critical in other words. Since the beginning of Dec. things were rocking along on schedule with Civil design issues while building plans were being reviewed. First thing this morning, I meet with a city building department for their initial compliance assessment and just absolutely walked into a buzz saw. Long story short, I got my head handed to me, went to meet with the Architect who ripped me up one side & down the other then had to meet with the project management staff with the GC & watched the blood drain from their faces while they simply said “We’re just screwed”. From my perspective, I had taken multiple shots right between the eyes and was reeling back on my heels wondering what the hell just happened. By noon, the azz kicking was over and while handling a few other things was having a good old fashioned talk with myself. I had used mx292 with some other pheromones Monday & Tuesday of this week and quickly saw that SteveO was right about it. That mix is way to complex to start by combining it with anything else and certainly wasn’t appropriate for an important meeting such as this morning until I had a better handle on it. Thank god I didn’t use it because I knew that this morning’s meeting required A314 & I-Shine for sure so that’s what I had chosen. As I moved through other projects later in the day, I realized that A314 was doing its thing as normal. Confirmations of that came from other interactions + the fact that I wasn’t freaking out about the way the morning began. Finally, it sunk in - it wasn’t the pheromones NOT working it was me NOT assuming the role of the vibe they were projecting. I had rolled things around in my head and knew without question that what the team & I had done was good stuff. So a deep inhale of residual 314 and I was on the phone with the city scheduling another appointment for late afternoon. Basically, I stepped IN to the role of A314. You may have heard the phrase ‘check yaself before ya wreck yaself’ It applied. During the second meeting of the day, I was meeting with the same plan approval technician again but I was in charge this time. We discussed several things back and forth with me pushing for a modicum of ‘reasonable’ and even some concessions in a couple of instances. Pretty soon I notice a gentleman, whom I hadn’t met before, standing to the side observing. Shortly, he stepped up and introduced himself by saying he had overheard part of the conversation. A few minutes later he’s agreeing with me and interjecting that he hadn’t heard an unreasonable request as of yet and began offering even more than I was asking for. It turns out that he was the Director of the department which oversees all aspects of development & construction for that jurisdiction. The guy begins writing down a synopsis of our agreements, makes a copy for me and suggests to the plans examiner that ‘we will approve the project this way’. Soon the three of us were kidding around to ease the tension expressed by the plans examiner and agreeing that things were good to go provided certain documentation was provided. Sincere smiles all around. A314 & I had done it again. The point of this not so little rant, is : - pay attention to the experienced people on this forum & take advantage of their wisdom - test the pheromones purchased and KNOW them, especially if you’re gonna use them in the workplace (include the romance department too … wouldn’t want to mess that up either) - once you know the effects a pheromone or mix has, make sure you can step into it and work with it. once you’re walking that walk & talking that talk … if it’s working stay with it and BE it if you can. You know when it’s right and you know when you’ve got ‘IT’. You don’t need to shout or rub it in other people’s faces. Don’t be lulled into complacency because pheromones work so well. The user has to be fully present. Ending on mx292 … this is gonna be good stuff. Just needs some more testing before I can add my .02. Just wanted the powers that be to know that this one is going to receive a lot of research (assuming we aren’t gonna be limited to a single to-go bottle … hint hint) Thanks for listening. ---
**Author:** ![douche](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/douche/32/1144_2.png) [@douche](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/douche)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 3:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/2 "2009-01-15T03:44:48Z")
reps to you, very nice post. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 7:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/3 "2009-01-15T07:54:08Z")
I rarely, if ever use the thread of the week mod, but damn this post was inspiring. I am always happy beyond words when someone really gets it. Congratulations on a job well done and not to mention the amazing understanding on the mones. GREAT, GREAT GREAT. ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 11:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/4 "2009-01-15T11:27:08Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > I rarely, if ever use the thread of the week mod, but damn this post was inspiring. I am always happy beyond words when someone really gets it. Congratulations on a job well done and not to mention the amazing understanding on the mones. > > GREAT, GREAT GREAT. SCoupe, you don’t get better feedback than that! Nice one, reps ---
**Author:** ![SCoupe](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scoupe/32/2101_2.png) [@SCoupe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SCoupe)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 1:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/5 "2009-01-15T13:45:02Z")
> [@diamond](#): > > SCoupe, you don’t get better feedback than that! Nice one, reps Yeah, I know D … I’m bowled over by that alone. ---
**Author:** ![SCoupe](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scoupe/32/2101_2.png) [@SCoupe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SCoupe)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 2:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/6 "2009-01-15T14:23:59Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > I rarely, if ever use the thread of the week mod, but damn this post was inspiring. I am always happy beyond words when someone really gets it. Congratulations on a job well done and not to mention the amazing understanding on the mones. > > GREAT, GREAT GREAT. Thank you sir … you’ve raised us well Obewon. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 8:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/7 "2009-01-15T20:06:09Z")
This is an amazing post and is all about you. Every new user should be required to read this ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 11:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/8 "2009-01-15T23:17:15Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > This is an amazing post and is all about you. Every new user should be required to read this Stickie?? ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 11:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/9 "2009-01-15T23:22:16Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > Stickie?? Seconded! and people should be made to read it before buying A314, I don’t know, call it congruence 101 ---
**Author:** ![chads](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/2acd7d/32.png) [@chads](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chads)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2009, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/10 "2009-01-16T00:19:18Z")
Awesome story. What happened with the architect and project managemant when you fixed things? ---
**Author:** ![SCoupe](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scoupe/32/2101_2.png) [@SCoupe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SCoupe)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2009, 1:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lessons-in-congruency-mx292/24904/11 "2009-01-16T01:50:11Z")
> [@chads](#): > > Awesome story. What happened with the architect and project managemant when you fixed things? That was first thing this morning Chad. Triple shots of IG & IS with a Tom Ford cover & some crispy duds. The principle of the Architectural firm sat & listened cafefully to the results of my negotiations, never asked a question and when I was finished just looked me dead in the eye with a little grin and said ‘that’s exactly why we hire you Steve’, then sent me on my way to do my thing. The VP of the construction company was particularly pleased because I had moved some interior renovation portions of the project ahead of the first building addition to clear some scheduling conflicts & headaches he would have had. One of the project managers spoke up and said to sideline another project I was working on for him for a day so I could focus on keeping the ‘problem child’ on track. All is right with the world and the mones chosen today certainly helped with that.