# Little advice for a near purchase **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 24, 2009, 5:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/little-advice-for-a-near-purchase/32741 "2009-09-24T05:48:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![colombianplayr11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d26b3c/32.png) [@colombianplayr11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/colombianplayr11)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2009, 5:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/little-advice-for-a-near-purchase/32741/1 "2009-09-24T05:48:04Z")
Hello to all and thanks for looking at my post. Before i begin let me say what i wish to accomplish with pheromones. 1. I would like to seem more attractive to women.(Which links to #4) 2. I would like to be more confident. (IS works wonders for this) 3. I will be getting interviewed for jobs and internships soon, and i would like to be confident and respected. (think A314 might be good for this but what else can i use or what can i mix it with) 4. This might seem funny but i want a specific girl to like me. Im not really looking to go out and find a one night stand. I want to make a girl like me not have sex with me. Sex is not the priority making her my girl friend is. What would be best for this situation. I am pretty sure she is at least a little interested. I just don’t want to mess it up. Help please. I want to ask for advice on my next purchase. To accomplish the goals stated above what would me the best way to go. I am a 20 years old college student and I don’t see hits as clearly as you all do. I currently have a full bottle of TUTH, half a bottle of [Come Talk To Me](https://a314.com/product/come-talk-to-me-cttm/) mix 2, running very low on Ammunition and A314, and an empty bottle of IS. I have read on the forum that if your young TUTH might be hard to use. So i don’t plan on getting any more of that. I still have a lot and as i get older and more experienced with these products i will use it more often. I am definitely getting another bottle of IS because this is the product that works best for me. I am a shy person and this product makes me get loose around women. I am trying to keep it within a 3 product maximum for my next purchase, and i dont know if i should get A314 and Ammunition again or if i should try another product. I definitely see the benefits of A314 with adults because i feel a lot more respected when i use it. But how can this product help me with women or the specific girl? Ammunition always makes me feel good about myself, but i don’t really see any reactions from women. Im not sure if i am just not looking hard enough for these hits or if im using it wrong. I simply put on a 1-2 sprays on my wrists and one on my neck and spread. Come Talk To Me mix two I have gotten some hits with but again its hard for me to read them as i am new at this. So now that you know which products i have what would you suggest i buy. Any advice on how to use them would also be greatly appreciated. Any mixes and things of that nature will also come in handy. Thank you, Colombianplayr11 ---
**Author:** ![LeafStamp](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/leafstamp/32/376_2.png) [@LeafStamp](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LeafStamp)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2009, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/little-advice-for-a-near-purchase/32741/2 "2009-09-24T18:17:28Z")
> [@colombianplayr11](#): > > I am definitely getting another bottle of IS because this is the product that works best for me. I am a shy person and this product makes me get loose around women. _puts on Horatio Cane sun glasses_ Now let’s find… a product… that makes… women… loose… around… you… YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAH! Hehe, now that that’s out of the way. Have you had any experience with [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/)? That tends to give off a “nice guy” vibe. When I wear it I feel kind of smooth and quippy. This one could help you with the confidence and respect thing. As for the girl… you could be in a tough situation (i.e. friend zoned) - in which case I don’t think pheromones will be a significant factor. I’m not sure how to un-friendzone myself. (All my previous girlfriends have been girls I’ve met outside of my social circle who I didn’t know for very long). Stay away from TUTH if you’re not looking for sex and you haven’t broken that boundary yet (wait until she’s actually your girlfriend). My advice would be to act fast. Don’t be overly nice and slip in some Statements of Intent and see how she responds. And DON’T make yourself out to be desperate… even if it may be the case (not saying it is). The ladder jump is tough and I wish you the best if this is the case 🙂 Godspeed. ---
**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2009, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/little-advice-for-a-near-purchase/32741/3 "2009-09-24T18:45:10Z")
> [@LeafStamp](#): > > _puts on Horatio Cane sun glasses_ > > Now let’s find… a product… that makes… women… loose… around… you… YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAH! LOL I’m gonna 2nd the suggestion for the IG. That product gives you the auru of being dependable, manly, with an undertone of sexiness. This also would be good in the work environment as you can downplay the ‘sexiness’ of it with ease. The A314 could be good in both situations also (work and girls). It gives you an ‘alpha’ vibe but you need to be congruent with it. It can also help you seem higher value in the eyes of females, and women do like that, but are sometimes intimidated. This could be buffered with the IG and IS pretty easily. I would stick to what you know mostly and maybe add the Instant Gentelman and maybe go for a 4th product and grab the [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). The self effects will be similar to the Shine in that it will open you up and make you seem more approachable. This is great to go go with the A314. Definitely stay away from -none heavy products until you’re in a more intimate situation and want to ramp things up or until you get more used to using the pheros in general. My suggestion would be to keep a small journal book with you at all times (I do this and am normally in observer mode when I’m out to increase my recognition of hits). Write down anything you think is a hit and then write it out in a journal on here. A lot of us read other journals and are happy to let you know if it’s a hit or not. Good luck and keep us updated! ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2009, 8:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/little-advice-for-a-near-purchase/32741/4 "2009-09-24T20:20:47Z")
Sounds like you’ve gotten some great advice there. I LOVE [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) because not only does it give women the sense of you being boyfriend material it also comes across in a fun, but high value way where people tend to see you as someone important. 🙂 And it pairs very nicely with Instant Openness, Instant Honesty, or Instant Shine (or all three but I’d go with one or the other and Instant Shine). ---
**Author:** ![colombianplayr11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d26b3c/32.png) [@colombianplayr11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/colombianplayr11)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2009, 11:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/little-advice-for-a-near-purchase/32741/5 "2009-09-24T23:15:55Z")
Wow amazing advice really helpful. Im pretty sure the girl is not in the friend zon because ive had that happen to me before. I meet her at the beginning of this semester and we definitely flirt with each other. I have not used IS around her because i ran out cant wait to see the results when i do get t use it around her. So what im thinking for now is probably IS A314 and IG. Ive never used IG who knows might be the phero that works best for me. Im thinking about keeping a journal, but im always really busy and dont know if i would have the time but im definitely going to try. Hey reclipse im sure i would be able to find this on the forum somewhere but you told me to stay away from -none products. Which product contain -none and why must i stay away. Thanks for the help. Lastly i did a search on the forum for the product [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) didn’t find much info, but i was wondering if you guys could tell me if that product can help my situation. Thanks for helping guys you really make newbies feel welcome here. Thats not a common thing for many forums =) ---
**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2009, 11:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/little-advice-for-a-near-purchase/32741/6 "2009-09-24T23:22:30Z")
Heh.. I’m actually a n00b myself. I just signed up a week or so ago, but this place really does bring good things out of people. Lots of positive responses and lots of people here willing to help! As for the -none products… because you’re young I’d suggest saying away from TUTH or [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/). These 2 have a pretty significant -none content. Some of the mx’s have it but are very well buffered. Ammo should be really good for you even though it’s -none based, it’s buffered very well like the MX’s. Definitely keep a journal! It helps you to re-read the good things you’ve done and the bad things you’ve done. It helps us to keep an eye out and help you go in the right direction too. Just make sure to keep your eyes open and write down what you think are hits. Even if you’re not 100% sure it’s a hit. Then post it to your journal or give us a recap and we can help you start keying in on these so you’re better at seeing them. It’s good to have a friend around to watch for those too while you’re out in public. Anyways… GOOD LUCK! You seem to be on the right track right now so go get 'em tiger! ---
**Author:** ![LeafStamp](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/leafstamp/32/376_2.png) [@LeafStamp](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LeafStamp)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2009, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/little-advice-for-a-near-purchase/32741/7 "2009-09-24T23:29:16Z")
> [@colombianplayr11](#): > > Which product contain -none and why must i stay away. Thanks for the help. -none is the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) used for sexual arousal. You should have a read through of this thread > [@Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159): > > Ok. Feel free to correct any errors I may have made. This took forever to write, so I hope you like it. Chapter 1 Alpha Androstenone: In the forum this is commonly referred to as –none or none. It is a hormone produced in men and women’s sweat. (significantly less if women) “Androstenone is the first mammalian pheromone to be identified.” ([http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androstenone](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androstenone)) Androstenone has the ability to cause arousal in women during their ovulation. It also has the ability cause irr… It gives advice about what each of the main molecules do. I personally, don’t think you should completely stay away. I think a bit of AMMO might do you well. But stay away from TUTH for now - save it for later 😉 I haven’t really dealt with A314 much - but it is on my todo list. Make sure you do keep a journal and let us know how you go! Plus, it’ll help if you ever want to look back and check previous results that you might have forgotten about. An extra 15 minutes a night when you come back home before you pass out don’t go too badly and everything’s fresh. I’m reading my posts from a few months ago now and they are bringing up things I’d forgotten about. So - yes. DEFINITELY keep a journal 😃 Good luck!