# Long Distance Relationship - Im an idiot!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/long-distance-relationship-im-an-idiot/36559>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [February 26, 2010, 12:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/long-distance-relationship-im-an-idiot/36559 "2010-02-26T12:39:04Z")\
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**Author:** ![uklovelegend1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bb73d2/32.png) [@uklovelegend1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/uklovelegend1)\
**Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 12:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/long-distance-relationship-im-an-idiot/36559/1 "2010-02-26T12:39:04Z")

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Hey,

I was with my girlfriend for 6 months before she left to go abroad.

We decided to stay together, but I got horrendously drunk last weekend and ended it with her. I had no recollection I did this until her friend phoned me. I pleaded with her for us to stay together but 2 days later she said we were going on a break.

I still don’t know why I ended it. I love her to bits and feel complete crap.

I changed my facebook status to single and deactivated my account while we have this break.

I’ve just gone back to facebook, her status is now set to single and shes changed her profile picture.

She literally text me this morning saying: Hello. How would you feel if we talked today?x

I’ve text her back saying of course but I’m not sure if it’s a great idea. I love her to bits and I want to be with her, but after 3 days she wants to talk.

What does this mean? What do you think she wants?

Any replies welcome!

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**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\
**Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 1:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/long-distance-relationship-im-an-idiot/36559/2 "2010-02-26T13:22:03Z")

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Not to be an ass but this board is a pheromone oriented board, not a relationship advice forum. Granted many people including myself will offer advice on relationships, it’s usually done with the assumption that [pheromones](https://a314.com/) will be used in conjunction as a supplemental edge. Obviously since your relationship is long distance currently pheromones would be a non factor. Secondly, it’d be difficult at best to tell you how to get out of the hole you dug without knowing what shovel you used. In other words, we don’t know the specifics of what was said so we can’t know how to undo the damage from it. Best advice is ask the girl, or better yet ask any of your friends that might have been around to tell you as precisely as possible what it is that you said that night. Beyond that, consider cutting back on your drinking. Some people can handle it, but when you find out that you ended a relationship that’s important to you while drunk, it’s pretty clear that you’re not one of those people. Who knows, maybe by seeing that you’re changing your attitude about alcohol because of it’s effect on your relationship with her, she’ll see how serious you are about her and give you another chance…not likely mind you, but possible.