# Look 17 at 23 and stuck as the friend: what to add to A314 and IS?

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [September 11, 2009, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/look-17-at-23-and-stuck-as-the-friend-what-to-add-to-a314-and-is/32356 "2009-09-11T01:43:22Z")\
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**Author:** ![sephirot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e19b73/32.png) [@sephirot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sephirot)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2009, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/look-17-at-23-and-stuck-as-the-friend-what-to-add-to-a314-and-is/32356/1 "2009-09-11T01:43:22Z")

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First of all hi to all of you 😃 … I need help and advice im 23 years old male and sadly everyone in my family looks younger than they are so thanks to those genes i look like im 17 ☹ so i need suggestions on what do i need in order to have girls say as soon as i get into a club, bar or even the store: " This is the man i want" and cant keep their hands to themselves lol. I already bought A314 and IS, btw also i think that my [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) level are really low or none existent im serious about this, thats why women just see me as a friend and thats the reason my dating life and my sex life is basically dead for over 4 years so i need help pls. thanks.🙂

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**Author:** ![hohohate](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hohohate/32/2429_2.png) [@hohohate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hohohate)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2009, 2:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/look-17-at-23-and-stuck-as-the-friend-what-to-add-to-a314-and-is/32356/2 "2009-09-11T02:45:56Z")

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Try letting them know what your intentions are at the beginning, otherwise they will think your just being friendly. I had that problem a lot too. Just make a move faster.

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**Author:** ![sephirot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e19b73/32.png) [@sephirot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sephirot)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2009, 6:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/look-17-at-23-and-stuck-as-the-friend-what-to-add-to-a314-and-is/32356/3 "2009-09-11T06:45:55Z")

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thanks for the advice but i was thinking of more on help in the [pheromone](https://a314.com/) level since i’ve said it before my pheromone level is none existent.

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**Author:** ![sephirot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e19b73/32.png) [@sephirot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sephirot)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2009, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/look-17-at-23-and-stuck-as-the-friend-what-to-add-to-a314-and-is/32356/4 "2009-09-11T23:46:49Z")

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Hey guys does anyone have any suggestion as to what use to have the reaction i want?

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**Author:** ![evolver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/evolver/32/1896_2.png) [@evolver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/evolver)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2009, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/look-17-at-23-and-stuck-as-the-friend-what-to-add-to-a314-and-is/32356/5 "2009-09-11T23:50:21Z")

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Hey Sephirot,  
You want Ammo, I have consistently had the best reactions from this pheromone. All kinds of reactions, flirting and, well, sex!!!

Don’t worry about your pheromone levels being low, they are close to equal in everyone. There is a lot of science about testosterone levels, and that may make a difference. Hey some time at the gym never hurt anyone 🙂

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**Author:** ![sephirot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e19b73/32.png) [@sephirot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sephirot)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2009, 6:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/look-17-at-23-and-stuck-as-the-friend-what-to-add-to-a314-and-is/32356/6 "2009-09-12T06:30:49Z")

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so AMMO huh? when it is going to be on stock again i hope very soon

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**Author:** ![evolver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/evolver/32/1896_2.png) [@evolver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/evolver)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2009, 4:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/look-17-at-23-and-stuck-as-the-friend-what-to-add-to-a314-and-is/32356/7 "2009-09-12T16:28:20Z")

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I think they may be changing the scent package soon. It’s one of their best sellers, it will be back in stock soon!!!

In the meantime, your A314 will create the aura of manliness and IS will give confidence.

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**Author:** ![sigma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dec6dc/32.png) [@sigma](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sigma)\
**Post date:** [September 12, 2009, 5:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/look-17-at-23-and-stuck-as-the-friend-what-to-add-to-a314-and-is/32356/8 "2009-09-12T17:56:55Z")

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Your pheromone signature should really match the environment you’re in. Think of the pheromones you wear like your outfit…you dress differently in professional settings than you do in casual settings, to project different perceptions about you. The same principle works with pheromones.

That being said, although I recommended a high dose of A314 for your work environment, I really would shy away from it in bars or clubs. A314 can be a little too serious at times, and it really can dampen your approachability. In a bar type of setting, what you want is a lot of ‘social energy’…you want to be charismatic, up-beat and positive…you want to project masculinity, but only to the point that it doesn’t interrupt your sociability. For these types of situations, the pheromones you want to focus on are androstenol and androstenone.

I second the recommendation for AMMO, as its always been a very balanced bar kind of mix. Its socially attractive and very well rounded.

Also pheromones are only part of your attractive appeal. How you present yourself to people (your game) will more readily affect their perception of you, while also bringing their attention to the pheromone signature you’re putting out. Pheromones work best when there’s a synergy between how people consciously perceive you and how they unconsciously perceive the pheromones. Think of the effect you’re expecting the pheromones to have on people, and try to carry yourself in a way thats congruent to those effects.

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**Author:** ![sigil.tech](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sigil.tech/32/2357_2.png) [@sigil.tech](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sigil.tech)\
**Post date:** [September 13, 2009, 5:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/look-17-at-23-and-stuck-as-the-friend-what-to-add-to-a314-and-is/32356/9 "2009-09-13T17:14:35Z")

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Something that helped me is to summon, in my mind, the image of the man I want to be.

So, consider doing this. Pick up a bunch of Sean Connery movies. Watch them. And then, in your mind, try to literally become him while talking to women. Watch the nuance of his facial expression, really try to FEEL this, it isn’t acting.

Fake it till you make it. If what you have been doing isn’t working, do something else. You have to essentially “Summon” the hero you want to be in your mind.

Of course, I say this only half kidding. It doesn’t have to be Sean Connery, or Roger Moore, for that matter. Just choose an actor whom you admire, who obviously has a way with women, not due to looks, but due to charisma. Try to learn from that charisma and blend it with your own.

After all, if a goofy guy like me can land an incredibly hot wife and all the female playmates I do based primarily on charisma, so can you. Its a skill, like anything else.

Pheromones will turbo charge your efforts.

HAPPY HUNTING!
