# Looking for a new perspective........ all the way from the UK.....x **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 11, 2008, 2:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-a-new-perspective-all-the-way-from-the-uk-x/21195 "2008-10-11T14:33:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mysarebu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecd19e/32.png) [@mysarebu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mysarebu)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2008, 2:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-a-new-perspective-all-the-way-from-the-uk-x/21195/1 "2008-10-11T14:33:11Z")
Hi there, My name is Angie and I am 42 years old. I have not had a serious relationship for the past 8 years. Although I am deemed attractive, I don’t seem to have much luck with men in that they flirt etc but never seem to take it any further. Some say they find me a little intimidating??? Not sure really, anyway am going to try a new perspective and see what happens… If anyone has any pointers… feel free to send them my way…plus it will be nice to make a few more friends. Thanks in advance. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2008, 8:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-a-new-perspective-all-the-way-from-the-uk-x/21195/2 "2008-10-11T20:14:36Z")
Hi Angie, welcome to the forum! You should take a look at Instant Sexiness, it comes in two versions A(a bit more rough tomboy) and B (very soft and sexy). Also, take a look at some of the social products like [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine. They may suit your needs as well. Also, don’t forget to read the sticky threads in the women’s section and the links in Tisha the moderator’s signature (she’ll pop in shortly) Enjoy your stay… ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2008, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-a-new-perspective-all-the-way-from-the-uk-x/21195/3 "2008-10-11T20:17:02Z")
Hey mysarebu 😃 Welcome to pherotalk. Not too familiar with the female [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) like Instant Sexiness. However, there are some unisex pheromones that might help you. IO, IH, IShine in particular. IO and IH will increase communication and quality of communication, respectively. IShine will give you a confident, youthful aura which will help if you seem intimidating. Good luck 😃 ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2008, 8:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-a-new-perspective-all-the-way-from-the-uk-x/21195/4 "2008-10-11T20:20:54Z")
hi welcome! tenant gave u some great recommendations.. i personally think instant honesty maybe the one that would give u the best results since it would bring you and your possible TG’s closer together increasing the posibility of having a relationship gluck 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-a-new-perspective-all-the-way-from-the-uk-x/21195/5 "2008-10-12T00:40:45Z")
Hello Angie, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Just a few questions, How did you find Pherotalk ? Are you generally shy or outgoing ? I would start with Instant sexiness to increase attraction. Only problem is I think B would be better for you then A and B is out of stock at the moment. You can still use A and this will increase attraction just use one of the products I list below with it to soften the intimidation a little. Ishine is a must have, Its warm friendly uplifting charismatic and can help soften you a little. IH will increase communication and give a feeling of connection and closeness. [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) is very bonding which would be another good choice for you. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way 😃** ---
**Author:** ![mysarebu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecd19e/32.png) [@mysarebu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mysarebu)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2008, 10:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-a-new-perspective-all-the-way-from-the-uk-x/21195/6 "2008-10-12T22:30:15Z")
Hi, Thanks for the advice so far. Looking at your collection. I thing ISB would be better as well, will definitely order Instant Openess and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) as well.. roll on payday. Tisha23. With regards to your questions. I am definitely outgoing.