# Looking for an edge. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 11, 2009, 4:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-an-edge/33194 "2009-10-11T04:55:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![KaoruX2813](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/b3f665/32.png) [@KaoruX2813](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/KaoruX2813)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2009, 4:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-an-edge/33194/1 "2009-10-11T04:55:50Z")
Hi, my name is Krista. I am nineteen and from the grand state of Pennsylvania. Last year was when I discovered [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), even though I don’t really remember how. The first and last brand that I tried was called Pheromore I believe. I was pleasantly surprised, but not overwhelmed by the results. My boyfriend at the time was the only one who seemed to notice the change, and perhaps that was because he was around me most often. Either way, I’m alone now and have been for a while. I don’t mind it too much, as I like my independence, but I’ve been pressed with a difficult situation recently and it has made me return to the possibility of pheromones. Right now I am looking for something with a bit more potency. I don’t want something that is only going to be noticed by the people I see every single day. So if anyone has some stories or suggestions of better brands or lines, I’d love to hear them. ^^ ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2009, 5:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-an-edge/33194/2 "2009-10-11T05:03:44Z")
Welcome Krista. Tell us about your personality. What are you trying to achieve? Looking for a relationship? What kind? What kind of guys do you like? By the way, there’s a sticky post at the top of this forum that will let you know what info in your posts will get you a gift cert. We need to know a little bit about you to give some tailored advice. ---
**Author:** ![KaoruX2813](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/b3f665/32.png) [@KaoruX2813](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/KaoruX2813)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2009, 5:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-an-edge/33194/3 "2009-10-11T05:29:54Z")
Sorry about that, not used to these types of places. I am sort of a contradictive person. I like going out and doing things, but sometimes it’s like pulling teeth to get me to leave the house. I am very nervous around people I’ve never met, but hardly ever show it. Depending on the people, I can become very open and expressive, or downright mean and defensive. It all depends on the situation I am placed in. I suppose you could say I’m insecure when it comes to men, because I no matter where I am it always feels like someone is staring at me for a negative reason. Sometimes it seems like I exude this negativity, and a few of my male friends now were once intimidated by it before, finding me unapproachable and scary(their word, not mine.) It’s not hard for me to get along with men, as they are easier to talk to for some reason, and we tend to have more in common. It just feels like I have to make an extra effort, which leads to me drawing a lot of attention to myself in other ways that shouldn’t be necessary. I don’t want to have to be obnoxious in order for them to notice me, as that can bring negative attention as well. What I’m looking for right now is a relationship, or at least an opportunity for one. It’s hard when in a small town, but I see people I don’t know almost every day. The hard part is getting their attention. I need something to help me meet guys, so they give me the opportunity to show them who I am. I’m not into the men who are addicted to sports. Sure most men enjoy them, but obsessing over them is irritating. I don’t want someone who has to go out all the time in order to have a good time. There is nothing wrong with staying home on the occasion. While confidence is usually quite alluring, and I’ll admit it is, I don’t see it as a necessity. That could be because a lot of the guys I know who are confident, are borderline arrogant. I know what it feels like to not have a whole lot of confidence, and if I find someone and can help them achieve a better feeling about themselves, that’s great. If I am missing some information, don’t hesitate to let me know. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2009, 5:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-an-edge/33194/4 "2009-10-11T05:58:58Z")
Hey Krista, welcome!! 🙂 I know exactly how you feel. I felt the same way about going out and doing things the solution?- Go out and do everything every chance you get and dont let yourself keep you from going. Also, about being scary and unapproachable, there is something that might help. [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is a line that has 2 different formulas. IS/A is more alpha sexy vibe. Think Angelina Jolie. Hardened- as those have said you are like. IS/B is more a cute, kittenish vibe- think Marylin Monroe. It would definitely help ease up your unapproachability and make you more desirable. IO can have the same results, making you easier to talk to and easier to make conversation yourself. IS/B and IO would be good starters for you. If you have any more questions let us know, we are happy to help, and again, welcome. Best of luck, mco ---
**Author:** ![KaoruX2813](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/b3f665/32.png) [@KaoruX2813](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/KaoruX2813)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2009, 6:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-an-edge/33194/5 "2009-10-11T06:11:01Z")
Thank you very much, I just might try those out first. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2009, 6:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-an-edge/33194/6 "2009-10-12T18:00:09Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum Host or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 14, 2009, 4:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-an-edge/33194/7 "2009-10-14T04:27:22Z")
You might try ih and io for conversations and building rapport with people. They help with relaxed interactions.