# Looking for Gay love... and I am helpless! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 29, 2008, 5:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-gay-love-and-i-am-helpless/13220 "2008-05-29T05:07:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![crazymouse](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ce7236/32.png) [@crazymouse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/crazymouse)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 5:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-gay-love-and-i-am-helpless/13220/1 "2008-05-29T05:07:59Z")
I’ve tried to search on the forums for [Mystery Boy](https://a314.com/product/mystery-boy/) results, and what I’ve found is a lot of people who say that they “don’t personally use mystery boy, but have heard good results.” I’ve been having a lot of trouble figuring out if it is a good choice for me. Can anyone provide me with good information, or a source of good information about mystery boy? From what I understand, mystery boy is a mixture of pheromones which target the following effects: slight masculinity, openness, feel-good/giddiness, and a slight sexual suggestion. This is what information I’ve gathered so far, am I wrong about any of this? Here is my situation: I’m a gay male, 18, and I am having the hardest time getting close to guys. I know many guys who could be interested (who have shown signs of or have told me that they have bi or gay tendencies), and who have complimented me on this, that, or the other. But no matter what I do, I can’t keep my composure while talking with them. I can joke around, and I can be the lovely queer who’s great to be around, but I can’t break to the next step by being the guy who’s easy to get close to. Mystery boy seems too much like a fun, almost conversational pheromone, … I’m looking for something a little more bonding. This is what I mean: the instant female magic pheromone says it makes females more “vulnerable,” and they supposedly seek comfort more easily. This is the exact opposite of what I want, lol. I want guys to want me to confide in them (because that’s what I want to do, lol). So what are your best suggestions? I can’t experiment too much at once, I am very tight on money with all the bills piling up. But if you guys can help me come to a good decision, I would have no qualms with recording all the results of the pheromone mixes you suggest. Thanks to anyone who provides any help! ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 5:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-gay-love-and-i-am-helpless/13220/2 "2008-05-29T05:28:55Z")
I haven’t tried Mystery Boy, but I know exactly who’s posts can help you out. Look up R0N’s posts. I don’t know if he’s active still, but IIRC, he was a gay escort in Canada. I’m sure his posts will reveal all the pertinent information. Anyways, I think that is a good place for you to start, as mystery boy isn’t the end all of homosexual attraction. Good luck, and even though most of us are breeders, we’ll help where we can. 😃 As far as recommendations go, I think [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) might be what you’re looking for. You can get ToGos of it to try. If you’re trying to attract people, Instant Shine might work for you, all people tend to like people who make them happy. It might be expensive at this point since you’re a newer member, but p93 reportedly has good male bonding effects. But take a look at R0N’s experiences and go from there. I’m sure he can shed light on matter much better than I can since he has used them first hand in an effort to make guys more comfortable around him. If you haven’t read this thread yet, I suggest it. Gives a lot of information on how approach the situation. [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/has-anyone-used-the-gay-pheromone-mystery-boy-for-gay-men/564](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/has-anyone-used-the-gay-pheromone-mystery-boy-for-gay-men/564) ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 10:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-gay-love-and-i-am-helpless/13220/3 "2008-05-29T10:48:50Z")
Hello [Mystery Boy](https://a314.com/product/mystery-boy/) is said to be… [TAA](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/molecule-a/), [TAH](https://pheromonelabs.com/), high amounts of Alpha Androstenol and a dash of [Androstenone](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/). So Now you know what your working with to begin with. I left one out for trade secret purposes LOL Its a good product for the gay lifestyle because it dont come on overly strong. P74 and P83 are both good products to use with it. Ishine is another product that will work well for you. When choosing mone products, your going to want the same products that the men use to attract women. After all Gay men are attracted to masculine mone signatures. You just dont want to go to masculine. I think products like the above mentioned and also some in the Tseries like TAH TAL TAC will all be good. IH and IO are pretty much unisex so these are great to use as well. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 1:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-gay-love-and-i-am-helpless/13220/4 "2008-05-29T13:10:42Z")
Try [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)… and see what it does to you, maybe just a spray, or diluted 50/50 with a fragrance, then spray. I have read that androstadienone has a similar effect on gay males as it does for women. It makes me feel a bit like crap, mostly- maudlin and sad (I don’t _believe_ I’m gay). But it apparrently gives a warm, cuddly fuzzy for straight women and gay men. Most straight men have no reaction to it at all- a small minority it makes them feel wierd/bad. Just keep that in mind. Some straight men around you may start feeling bad for little reason. “Alan Alda” effect- in high doses it gives me nightmares/dread and turns into “Instant Succubus”. ---
**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 1:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-gay-love-and-i-am-helpless/13220/5 "2008-05-29T13:13:41Z")
[Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) should also work on gay men (since androstadienone activatives similar brain regions, and produces similar subjective feelings in gay men and straight women)… but it makes a sizeable minority of straight men feel bad. The female version might work better, since I believe the male version is buffered to try and reduce the self-effects (but I don’t believe it works very well, it still makes me feel blah). Instant Female Magic is not really an attractant pheromone, though- it doesn’t make people socialize. Instant openness is much better to get people talking, but you still have to approach people. Instant honesty might be good to “probe” somebody’s mind- just don’t go overboard. Instant Gentlemen is one product you should probably avoid, since in research studies gay men did not find androsterone appealing. YMMV of course. It gives off a James Bond (in low doses) or “older uncle” vibe in higher doses.