# Looking for some advice! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 17, 2010, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313 "2010-02-17T04:16:03Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Ladyhawk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e47c2d/32.png) [@Ladyhawk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ladyhawk)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/1 "2010-02-17T04:16:03Z")
Hello Everyone! I’m a 49 year young female that has been dating and finding it hard to connect on different levels. I’m very outgoing, far from being shy and find that some men are intimidated by my confidence. I relate well with men and tend to have more male friends then female, but its more on the friendship level or just a sexual level with men. How do I get both?, LOL I have a very nice man that is like a best friend, but there seems to be a lack of what he calls chemistry. Now don’t get me wrong, we have had some incredible sex and I’m able to keep him intrigued but he says the chemistry is not there… With other men, I date, they seem to drop off after a date or two. I’m a very self sufficint woman, make good money but can’t seem to attract the right kind of men, so I started reading some books and read a few things about phermones and thought it might have something to offer me on the lines of help…So I’m all ears and looking for information and am open to any advice on where I should start with all this… Looking forward to hearing your response. D~🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 4:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/2 "2010-02-17T04:58:45Z")
Welcome to the forum. You have an interesting situation. This forum is all about chemistry. Perhaps some of the ladies might have some experience in similar situations. You might want to experiment with some of the commercial products. Isex a and b come to mind as possibilities. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 7:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/3 "2010-02-17T07:11:49Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. I wil suggest [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). Instant Sexiness can make men think you are sexier and more attractive. There are 2 versions of IS. IS A is for more dominant and tougher vibe whereas IS B is for more feminine and softer vibe. IH will also help. It can make men closer to you. They wil talk more personal and more details with you. It can help to buld relationship. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 10:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/4 "2010-02-17T10:31:53Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Hmm, I would say your right and men may feel intimidated by you. Many men feel best about themselves when in the Alphas role and when they meet a attractive women who is a alpha they tend to not connect as well. I would try [Instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) which is the softer of the two they offer. This one is sexy feminine sweet vibe as opposed to IS/A which is the Sexy alpha women vibe. Men tend to feel they have more of a hand in taking care of you or more of a sense of being needed. I am a alpha female as well and while I know darn well I can take care of myself some men just like to feel its there role to be the alpha so I let them play it LOL I also suggest you look at Ishine and IH. Ishine is magnetic and warm and IH can help you connect more. One other to consider which I really like is MX274 if they have it in stock. This one is really upbeat and bonding. Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Ladyhawk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e47c2d/32.png) [@Ladyhawk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ladyhawk)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 3:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/5 "2010-02-17T15:53:01Z")
Thanks for the responses. I guess now I just need to test it all. ANy suggestions on the strength? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 9:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/6 "2010-02-17T21:41:10Z")
> [@Ladyhawk](#): > > Thanks for the responses. I guess now I just need to test it all. > ANy suggestions on the strength? Just start with regular strength for now, until you’ve tested each one separately at different numbers of sprays until you’ve found the amount that gives you the best effects. Every person is different, and each product is different, so you just have to be patient, and “learn” each one. One big mistake that many new people make is to not be methodical about it, and just spray away. Then they complain about not seeing results and wonder why 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![mosaic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e19b73/32.png) [@mosaic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mosaic)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2010, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/7 "2010-02-17T23:16:47Z")
p86 and instant shine are real attention-grabbers! Combine those with [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A and you’ll have a kick-ass combo. ---
**Author:** ![Ladyhawk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e47c2d/32.png) [@Ladyhawk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ladyhawk)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/8 "2010-02-18T03:33:37Z")
So how and when do I get this coupon that is indicated prior to making my order? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 4:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/9 "2010-02-18T04:19:50Z")
> [@Ladyhawk](#): > > So how and when do I get this coupon that is indicated prior to making my order? Mickaelia will be around in the next day or so to hand them out 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/10 "2010-02-18T23:50:54Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![Ladyhawk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e47c2d/32.png) [@Ladyhawk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ladyhawk)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2010, 6:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/11 "2010-02-22T18:59:41Z")
Okay I attempted a search to answer this question and I’m sure the answer is out there but only saw parts of the words… About how many applications are in the travel size containers? Are they a one time use, or have a couple? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2010, 7:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/12 "2010-02-22T19:22:44Z")
> [@Ladyhawk](#): > > Okay I attempted a search to answer this question and I’m sure the answer is out there but only saw parts of the words… > > About how many applications are in the travel size containers? Are they a one time use, or have a couple? Approximately 40 sprays, and I think the large size is maybe 300 sprays. ---
**Author:** ![Iputon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/a8b319/32.png) [@Iputon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Iputon)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2010, 8:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/13 "2010-02-22T20:59:56Z")
> [@Ladyhawk](#): > > Hello Everyone! > > I’m a 49 year young female that has been dating and finding it hard to connect on different levels. I’m very outgoing, far from being shy and find that some men are intimidated by my confidence. I relate well with men and tend to have more male friends then female, but its more on the friendship level or just a sexual level with men. How do I get both?, LOL I have a very nice man that is like a best friend, but there seems to be a lack of what he calls chemistry. Now don’t get me wrong, we have had some incredible sex and I’m able to keep him intrigued but he says the chemistry is not there… With other men, I date, they seem to drop off after a date or two. I’m a very self sufficint woman, make good money but can’t seem to attract the right kind of men, so I started reading some books and read a few things about phermones and thought it might have something to offer me on the lines of help…So I’m all ears and looking for information and am open to any advice on where I should start with all this… Looking forward to hearing your response. D~🙂 Marry me!!! Haha jk, I get what you are saying how to some guys you are intimidating, because you are a self-sufficent woman. I for one like girls who are! I was raised in a wealthy family and I am the baby of my family, so I am used to getting what I want. So when I go out on dates girls take that for there advantage so when I meet a girl that is self-starting, to me it’s a quality I look for. So maybe you’re just meeting guys in the wrong spot! You could try going to different things or whatever you’re into with some of you’re girls and meeting a different type of crowd! ---
**Author:** ![Ladyhawk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e47c2d/32.png) [@Ladyhawk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ladyhawk)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 4:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/14 "2010-02-26T16:48:27Z")
Good Morning, Well I place my first order the other day, and I’m patiently waiting for them to arrive. I have I/S A and b coming, som Instant shine, some IO and IH and I believe I got one more… So once they arrive I will begin the testing process and post my results. From what I have read, I understand the reporting information required to provide good feedback, I need to read a little more about what I should test and how much I should test and when I should try layering scents. I also need to ensure I’m using the right scents for the right audience. The way I read things now, Instant sexiness should be worn more for dates and the remainder can be used in mixed company…If I’m incorrect please provide any feedback. I’m hoping that the scents arrive today, because I have a conference tomorrow I would love to test the [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) at… Any suggestions? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 4:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/looking-for-some-advice/36313/15 "2010-02-26T16:59:22Z")
[Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) can be worn anywhere, because it does not contain copulins. Just try them one by one until you’ve found your sweet spot for each. Also, you may want to post questions in the Women’s Section, because more people go there, and you have a better chance at getting more feedback than here in the newbies section.