# Loosen Up, Baby! **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 23, 2008, 12:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086 "2008-08-23T00:04:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2008, 12:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/1 "2008-08-23T00:04:40Z")
Here is the situation… I have this friend who sometimes appears so uptight. He actually has a good sense of humor but sometimes just really needs to loosen up and stop being so conservative, responsible and SERIOUS! gee gads… What are some mixes you would suggest just to get him to take off the suit and tie and play? Thanks ---- awaiting to test your suggestions! ---
**Author:** ![ariadne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ariadne/32/770_2.png) [@ariadne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ariadne)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2008, 12:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/2 "2008-08-23T00:17:19Z")
Spaceland! ---
**Author:** ![TiggerBear](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tiggerbear/32/1813_2.png) [@TiggerBear](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TiggerBear)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2008, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/3 "2008-08-23T00:19:10Z")
TAC… lots of TAC!!! And throw in some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2008, 1:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/4 "2008-08-23T01:04:36Z")
SPACELAND!!! What a crack up! That is so funny…he needs to be spacey…hahahaha thanks ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2008, 1:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/5 "2008-08-23T01:05:07Z")
Tigger, Why the TAC? ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2008, 1:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/6 "2008-08-23T01:17:24Z")
I am still laughing at spaceland…I am going to test that on him… I just placed an order today…next order I will get spaceland and TAC and test them out separately. I think I should wear spaceland on myself for several days beforehand so I can try to be normal before I try it out with him around. ---
**Author:** ![TiggerBear](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tiggerbear/32/1813_2.png) [@TiggerBear](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TiggerBear)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2008, 1:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/7 "2008-08-23T13:44:58Z")
Spaceland never did anything for me, except tick me off with it’s smell. I don’t like the herbal smell. TAC can be fun. It’s generally friendly, talky, jokey, & goofy in higher doses. I sometimes add it to the back of my head with other mixes for the effects on those around me. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2008, 8:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/8 "2008-08-23T20:46:59Z")
I think a combo of Shine and Openness will mesh well together. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) just getting him to open his mouth, hopefully silly stuff due to the IS. 🙂 A nice joint might do the trick as well. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2008, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/9 "2008-08-23T22:36:48Z")
Phya, Hey it is YOU again. I just replied to you on another post 🙂. You must be an old member?? But this is only the second post that I have seen you make. Have you been away? Or just _secretly watching_ (smile). I have not tried i openness on him yet…I was thinking to add TAC for the fun playfulness, and I think you are right about IO, just to get him talking. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [August 23, 2008, 11:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/10 "2008-08-23T23:26:49Z")
I wouldn’t say I’m an old member by any means. Most of my posts are in the Men’s forum, I have a couple posts here and there, but I won’t pretend to know what works for a woman better than another woman when it comes to attracting guys, so I don’t really suggest products too often. There hasn’t been much activity on the men’s forum, so I’m kinda just…well, loafing around. I don’t have the most experience with TAC, so I can’t really comment. I can say, however, that the few times I did use it, it was a casual, relaxed atmosphere, with an air of giddyness…I don’t think that’s the best way to describe it, but it’s been a while and that’s the closest I can get.. Spaceland was a good suggestion too, I hear it flips the silly switch on a lot of people. 😃 Something like this..[Spaceland...: ) Good times : )](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/spaceland-good-times/17473) ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [August 24, 2008, 6:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/11 "2008-08-24T18:47:11Z")
> [@schell0385](#): > > Here is the situation… > > I have this friend who sometimes appears so uptight. He actually has a good sense of humor but sometimes just really needs to loosen up and stop being so conservative, responsible and SERIOUS! gee gads… > > What are some mixes you would suggest just to get him to take off the suit and tie and play? > > Thanks ---- awaiting to test your suggestions! LAM and TUTH 😃 Oh wait, I think I may be reading the “take off the suit and tie and play” part wrong. 🙄 What can I say, my mind is full of fun, and sometimes naughty things 😛. But, back to innocently answering like the others… I havent experience with TAC nor Spaceland. But I find MX135 really good for getting people comfortable and open around you. The mood tends to be lighter and good fun is always at hand. There can be a lil bit of innocent extra touching, but if the interest isnt there, or you dont draw it that way, it will stay just fun and light hearted. MX135 is a great mix in many situations. Also the Social line of pheros can often be great to help a person let down their guard. What do you already have to play with? ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [August 24, 2008, 7:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/12 "2008-08-24T19:25:17Z")
First, I have to say that there are some (a lot of) people who reply to my post’s that just make me crack up…you are very funny and fun people in this group of “The Mighty Phero’s” .CTT I think that is what I am going to call my journal “The Mighty Phero’s” in honor of all of you!!! I have TAH - 25 mcg, io x1, ih x2, is/b x2, CTTM2 (it does not say the strength), is/a (never tried), MX274, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) x2, P74 x25 mcg, MX235… I have these in to go’s and full sizes I am purchasing Full sizes of P74, MX235, B- Andestronone and TAK, and something else in strengths 40 mcg up to 60. This person I want to continue testing on is just very conservative…so I need the anti-conservative phero…does not have to be sexual - currently I am testing SOCIAL phero’s. ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [August 24, 2008, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/13 "2008-08-24T19:26:33Z")
Yes, Curious Chic you are NAUGHTY ------ BUT THAT IS FUN TOO SOMETIMES! ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [August 24, 2008, 9:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/14 "2008-08-24T21:36:53Z")
> [@schell0385](#): > > I have this friend who sometimes appears so uptight. He just really needs to loosen up and stop being so conservative, responsible and SERIOUS! gee gads… I’m throwin’ [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) on the barbie. Great at disinhibiting people, especially the reserved/conservative types. Might as well put that one in your next order. 😛 > [@schell0385](#): > > What are some mixes you would suggest just to get him to take off the suit and tie and play? Martinis. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [August 24, 2008, 11:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/15 "2008-08-24T23:45:02Z")
> [@Bella](#): > > I’m throwin’ P83 on the barbie. Great at disinhibiting people, especially the reserved/conservative types. Might as well put that one in your next order. 😛 > > Martinis. Both are good ideas. 😃 p83 is definitely disinhibiting, but it may be more than she bargained for. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2008, 12:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/16 "2008-08-25T00:13:44Z")
[P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/) is now added to my next order… I have never researched this one …I will have to dig around and see what I can find out about it. I certainly love a good martini. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2008, 12:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/17 "2008-08-25T00:35:55Z")
> [@schell0385](#): > > P83 is now added to my next order… > > I have never researched this one … Boy, your fast!..lol > [@](#): > > I certainly love a good martini. See, half your work is already done. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2008, 1:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/18 "2008-08-25T01:08:51Z")
Take your time with the Punatives. You wont get as instant a reaction as some of the buffered mixes in the Instant line, so have patients and have fun! I still reccomend figuring out if this guy is a TAL or TAH guy. Knowing this could open everything up VERY easily 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [August 25, 2008, 1:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/19 "2008-08-25T01:33:02Z")
He is a dominant male but one who is understated…not a big male ego…Do you think that would make a difference whether he is TAH or TAL… If TAH is more girly that is me for home and play. In a work environment where I am the big boss I think I might like TAL better… I have the TAH and like it…it would be nice if I could order a sample of TAL… ---
**Author:** ![schell0385](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/schell0385/32/199_2.png) [@schell0385](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/schell0385)\ **Post date:** [August 28, 2008, 9:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086/20 "2008-08-28T21:44:18Z")
Man, this guy is hard core serious at times… I can hardly wait to get my order of TAA and [P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/). I am going to gargle with it - soak my hair in it - and roll in it naked. Something has got to work!!! I need a new MX product that lightens up Very Serious People…this needs to be super loaded. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/loosen-up-baby/18086.md?page=2)