# Love letter sprayed with a pheromones **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 5, 2008, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689 "2008-03-05T01:02:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![skywalker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/71e660/32.png) [@skywalker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/skywalker)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/41 "2008-03-06T20:17:18Z")
ive yet to come along a girl who does not have a love letter or note hidden deep deep among her old stuff… its one that no one can find easy to throw away and remember, jerks are onli charming at first and wen the charm wears off and u find out who they really are… well lets just say, the kind loving guy wins ---
**Author:** ![raceryan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/raceryan/32/1740_2.png) [@raceryan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/raceryan)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/42 "2008-03-06T20:28:57Z")
Well remember Baller21 is a Baller… times 21… he could dole out money to everybody in this forum!!! ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 8:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/43 "2008-03-06T20:52:17Z")
I’ve sort of stayed out of this one, because my initial response would have been “but how do you get the spray into your phone?”. Seems today it’s all about texting in that strange “text speak” (when I text,I use correct spellings and proper grammer, then again my phone has a full keyboard) . Long gone are the days of elegantly hand written letters that eloquently convey our feelings for the “other”. Sadly even this aspect of our lives has been “McDonaldized”, that is fast and cheap ☹ we don’t have (take) the time necessary for “class”. Everyone seems to be aiming at the LCD (lowest common denominator). ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 9:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/44 "2008-03-06T21:01:33Z")
Love letters don’t have to be lame. In fact they can be a great part the chase. One of the great privileges of my life was getting to read the love letters that my grandparents wrote to each other in the early 1930s. What I realize about them now after reading some pick up materials is that they followed almost exactly the attract/qualify theory of seduction. My grandpa was in his 40s, Grandma was in her 20s. Most of the letters were Grandpa telling her that he was too old for her and encouraging her to go meet a young man. Grandma would write back qualifying herself and telling him how good she would be for him. They were married 56 years until grandpa died from too much whiskey, tobacco and salt pork at 102. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 9:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/45 "2008-03-06T21:05:34Z")
> [@renny](#): > > My grandpa was in his 40s, Grandma was in her 20s. … They were married 56 years until grandpa died from too much whiskey, tobacco and salt pork at 102. Sounds like there might have been some over-exertion involved too 😃 , but all in all, not a bad way to go.🆒 ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 9:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/46 "2008-03-06T21:09:10Z")
LOL, they and their neighbors actually rigged up a signaling system after they broke a bed one night and could not get out of it. Grandpa was in his early 90s at the time. Very funny stuff they insisted it was termites that broke the bed but our family had some huge laughs over that one. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 9:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/47 "2008-03-06T21:46:55Z")
> [@renny](#): > > LOL, they and their neighbors actually rigged up a signaling system after they broke a bed one night and could not get out of it. Grandpa was in his early 90s at the time. Very funny stuff _ **they insisted it was termites that broke the bed** _ but our family had some huge laughs over that one. LOL LOL LOL…😛 ah…mark?..I was over at renny’s place earlier?..ahem…hope you have an extra set of eyes…! ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 10:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/48 "2008-03-06T22:20:47Z")
Hope you don’t mind, BH, but I rearranged your post to better express myself. > [@bosshank](#): > > _ **Exactly. You romance her to win her, you romance her to keep her. Like the last 20 years.** _ > _ **My wife and I still both have all the letters we wrote back and forth to each other through our courtship and marriage .** _ Ditto and ditto. > [@bosshank](#): > > _ **but you gotta tune into her to know … that requires asking and listening to the answers …** _ …and that means stepping outside of _your_ wants and desires…that’s why God gave us _two_ ears and _one_ mouth… > [@Bella](#): > > **Somebody help me here?** 🙄 > [@bosshank](#): > > _ **I’m here girl** _ 😉 …that’s what we’re talkin’ 'bout. > [@Bella](#): > > _ **Like I have time to write in my journal…** _ > [@bosshank](#): > > _ **You do girl, you do. I have faith in you.** _ Hope I’m making my point here…🙄 > [@bosshank](#): > > But if you combine the two: _ **A good honest hard look at yourself, start making the changes you need to** _ - which is almost guaranteed to take you out of your comfort zone - and see it through - _ **then you will have something powerful.** _ > [@bosshank](#): > > See guys - you can be an alpha and still be successful with some of the “old fashioned” stuff. _ **You just gotta be that thinking man** _ Bella talks about - _ **the kind that tunes into the girl he is after and figures out what kind of knight she is looking for** _ … And you’re lookin’ at him _right here_ 😉 …if _I_ were _you_ guys…I’d be takin’ notes… > [@incubusattacks](#): > > _ **Wow Bosshank you never cease** _ _ **to amaze me** _. “the kind that tunes into the girl he is after and figures out what kind of knight she is looking for” _ **That’s keeper material right there** _ haha. Keeper indeed…and I don’t mean _just_ “the material”…lol… Bella 😉 ---
**Author:** ![get2knowjb](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/get2knowjb/32/494_2.png) [@get2knowjb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/get2knowjb)\ **Post date:** [March 6, 2008, 11:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/49 "2008-03-06T23:22:16Z")
I don’t see anything wrong with being passionate or romantic with someone. Players may sleep with a lot of women, but often the women feel manipulated and tricked and wont give them the time of day afterwards. I personally sleep with a variety of women but did so on a different level where they felt special and comfortable but I always ensure up front I do not have the availability for any commitments and ensure they understand. I have found that I have a large retention and I am the one getting called up to come keep them company. Even women that end up getting into a relationship with someone still keep in contact with me and then when things go sour I am the one they call up to appease their drives. Whether it be for passion or just wall banging wild random fun. Just my 2 cents on my experiences. ---
**Author:** ![Lawrence084](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7bcc69/32.png) [@Lawrence084](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lawrence084)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/50 "2008-03-07T00:55:13Z")
I have written a few “Love Letters” in my days and some of them never got returned but after a few years has past I have gotten an email or letter from them stating how much they enjoy reading my letter and no matter how bad they feel, reading my letter always pick their spirits up. And knowing they didn’t throw away my letter and they read it from time to time always makes me feel special. I’ll write a "Love Letter’ in heart beat if I think the person will enjoy reading it. ---
**Author:** ![Baller21](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/baller21/32/1988_2.png) [@Baller21](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Baller21)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 6:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/51 "2008-03-07T06:46:23Z")
> [@raceryan](#): > > Well remember Baller21 is a Baller… times 21… he could dole out money to everybody in this forum!!! whats the matter, you jealous?🙄 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 1:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/52 "2008-03-07T13:55:31Z")
> [@renny](#): > > LOL, … they broke a bed one night and could not get out of it. Grandpa was in his early 90s at the time. Very funny stuff they insisted it was termites that broke the bed but our family had some huge laughs over that one. I wanna be breakin’ a bed or two when I am in my 90s. > [@Bella](#): > > Hope you don’t mind, BH, but I rearranged your post to better express myself. np. > [@Bella](#): > > …and that means stepping outside of _your_ wants and desires…that’s why God gave us _two_ ears and _one_ mouth… Exactly. > [@Bella](#): > > …Hope I’m making my point here… You are - and very eloquently at that - that such an interesting, insightful and well spoken woman would give us a wonderful journal of her life and thoughts. That was the point, right? > [@Bella](#): > > …And you’re lookin’ at him _right here_ 😉 …if _I_ were _you_ guys…I’d be takin’ notes… > > Keeper indeed…and I don’t mean _just_ “the material”…lol… :o ---
**Author:** ![Godhand](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/godhand/32/2378_2.png) [@Godhand](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Godhand)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 6:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/53 "2008-03-07T18:42:19Z")
Instead of spraying a love letter with pheromones, I’d spray a hallmark card for some special occasion with it. I’d use a pheromone that sticks for a long time like Androstenone with a good long-lasting cover scent, or better yet just use some Ammunition (that stuff does a good job of clinging). I just don’t like the results that people get with love letters (and according to “The Art of Seduction” I’m an ideal lover archetype). You actually get better results showing love letters intended for other women to women that you have placed in the friend zone than you do giving them to the intended target (strange but true). Way back when I was in high school, I used to write love letters for other people because I had a talent for it (and people would pay me for my services), but I quickly noticed that the greatest effect they had was to enamor other girls that read over them before they reached their intended targets. These other girls would go crazy over those letters, while the targets would only show slight reactions. All in all, love letters aren’t worth the effort that goes into creating them, unless you are trying to attract other females that “look over” your work. Just my two cents based off my experiences… ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 8:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/54 "2008-03-07T20:40:45Z")
This all reminds of a time..I remember when I was an even sillier kid in high school, I wrote a letter to my gf while visiting a college because she was sad that I wasn’t writing her any. (She would write letters in class then give it to me when we met up after school.) Anyways, I ended up making her cry. ☹ Apparently it was too much for her when I wrote that lacrosse and family were my priorities and that she came third. 😃 Oh what a mistake that was! Though, it turned out to be a good idea not making her a priority. I don’t think I had any clue about what I was writing. I don’t think she had any clue about what to expect in a letter from a high school jock either. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 9:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/55 "2008-03-07T21:15:25Z")
> [@Godhand](#): > > _ **Instead of spraying a love letter with pheromones, I’d spray a hallmark card for some special occasion with it.** _ > _**Way back when I was in high school, I used to write love letters for other people because I had a talent for it (and people would pay me for my services)**_ > _ **All in all, love letters aren’t worth the effort that goes into creating them** _ Sorry to hear you gave it up, GH, we could really use a man with that talent here…oh, well… Guess it depends on the girl…maybe a few dollars stuffed in that envelope would help?..🙄 lol… Whatever works for ya , baby, whatever works…😉 Bella ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 9:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/56 "2008-03-07T21:26:00Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > I wanna be breakin’ a bed or two when I am in my 90s. Afreakin’men…as long as the..ah…_legs_ hold out… > [@bosshank](#): > > You are - and very eloquently at that - that such an interesting, insightful and well spoken woman would give us a wonderful journal of her life and thoughts. _Now_ look who’s :o! > [@bosshank](#): > > That was the point, right? ---
**Author:** ![Lawrence084](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/7bcc69/32.png) [@Lawrence084](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lawrence084)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 9:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/57 "2008-03-07T21:53:58Z")
> [@](#): > > All in all, love letters aren’t worth the effort that goes into creating them, unless you are trying to attract other females that “look over” your work. Just my two cents based off my experiences… I disagree. Knowing the person you are writing too and the level of interest, and the intentions, with the right “Love Letter” you will always produce a positive reaction. Worth the effort it takes to write it. Letters and photos are two things that are hard to throw away. So even if your letters didn’t produce the effect you wanted. It is something that will always be with her for the rest of her life and if she discared it, she’ll always wished she didn’t. But then being paid for writing Love Letters probably gives you a monetary value for the Letters. Kind of like getting paid to have sex. How much do you think “Making Love” means to someone who get paid for having sex? ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/58 "2008-03-07T22:38:39Z")
> [@Lawrence084](#): > > _ **But then being paid for writing Love Letters probably gives you a monetary value for the Letters. Kind of like getting paid to have sex. How much do you think “Making Love” means to someone who get paid for having sex?** _ Ain’t no _love a_bout it. When you exchange money for sex it’s strictly business. _The deal you make is the price you pay_. Any self respecting pimp or prostitute knows that. 😉 Bella ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/59 "2008-03-07T22:45:22Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > _ **I wanna be breakin’ a bed or two when I am in my 90s.** _ Afreakin’men!..ah..as long as the _legs_ hold out…and I don’t mean on the bed… > [@bosshank](#): > > You are - and very eloquently at that - that such an interesting, insightful and well spoken woman would give us a wonderful journal of her life and thoughts. _Now_ look who’s :o!.. so sweet…:o Wait…gotta put ma shades on…ah…bettah…that “Shine Armor” ‘sho is bright! Nothin’ like comin’ to the rescue of a damsel? who needs a little encouragement! Whoa… BH knows I’ve been having a little? trouble gettin’ on the horse…guess I shouldn’t’ve greeeezed up the saddle so much…lol > [@bosshank](#): > > That was the point, right? That’s what\* **I** \* meant… Thanks boss,😉 Bella ---
**Author:** ![flaming](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/flaming/32/212_2.png) [@flaming](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/flaming)\ **Post date:** [March 8, 2008, 2:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689/60 "2008-03-08T02:09:30Z")
> [@Lawrence084](#): > > So you wouldn’t write your wife or girlfriend a love letter? > > Dude…it a lot cheaper than $100 dinner, and still get what you really want. Im very happy with my present girlfriend but iv kept every love note that women have given to me through the years…Now if it also smelled like them… WOW!🙂 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689.md?page=2) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/love-letter-sprayed-with-a-pheromones/9689.md?page=4)