# Lust vs. deep connection vs. playful . . .? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 4, 2007, 6:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lust-vs-deep-connection-vs-playful/2340 "2007-03-04T06:12:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jpballerina](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jpballerina/32/1004_2.png) [@jpballerina](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpballerina)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2007, 6:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lust-vs-deep-connection-vs-playful/2340/1 "2007-03-04T06:12:49Z")
I’ve read on some posts that what you choose to mix depends on the kind of result you want, i.e. primal lust, a deep connection, playful and flirty, seeming in control . . . Which products pruduce which result? Thanks & luvs jpballerina ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2007, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lust-vs-deep-connection-vs-playful/2340/2 "2007-03-04T13:58:03Z")
well, this is where alot of us will tell you to do some reading of the threads. the reason for this is because you will not find a list of putative and what they do because they are _test material_. same with the test mixes , guiding you as to what they will do defeats the testing purpose. if you go into the smartmones store, you will see nice juicy descriptions of what the “instant” line of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) will do, and as we women have found that they do even more than described, its still worth reading through the posts to learn. even scrolling back 5 or 6 pages will be helpful. it goes fast,these women are FUNNY 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2007, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lust-vs-deep-connection-vs-playful/2340/3 "2007-03-04T13:58:57Z")
why dont you give a list of reactions you are hoping to get so we can narrow it down? 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2007, 2:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lust-vs-deep-connection-vs-playful/2340/4 "2007-03-04T14:01:45Z")
well i can only speak on what i’ve got experience in but for me: Primal Lust = Edge gel deep connection = i’m not sure - androstenol for sure, but whether a beta product or an alpha product seems to depend on the individual, and also the pre-existing relationship, if there is one. I’ve also found some deep bonding with A314. playful and flirty = cleo for me. seeming in control = depends on the time of the month, and also context - soemtimes A314 sometimes cleo I’ve got soem other products that I can’t wait to play with. TAL - seems to be for an alpha female vibe TAH - seems to be a cuddly flirty vibe P97 - seems to enhance focus. i’ll know how they work for me, once i’ve got them. ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2007, 3:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lust-vs-deep-connection-vs-playful/2340/5 "2007-03-04T15:12:04Z")
> [@Nunya](#): > > P97 - seems to enhance focus. I haven’t really messed with the putatives, but TAF is also good for helping with focus…I use it a good bit when I am working… ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2007, 3:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lust-vs-deep-connection-vs-playful/2340/6 "2007-03-04T15:23:43Z")
hee hee - Dolly TAF is on my wishlist. I was a little hesitant at first, because i don’t know if i can handle being focused on everything all at once, but i still want to give i a go. ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2007, 3:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lust-vs-deep-connection-vs-playful/2340/7 "2007-03-04T15:40:26Z")
> [@Nunya](#): > > hee hee - Dolly TAF is on my wishlist. I was a little hesitant at first, because i don’t know if i can handle being focused on everything all at once, but i still want to give i a go. Well, when I really need to concentrate, it gives me that “laser-beam” type focus for important tasks…I really love it… ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2007, 3:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lust-vs-deep-connection-vs-playful/2340/8 "2007-03-04T15:51:03Z")
good to know! i’m adding it to the next order of putatives. i’m still waiting on your last suggestions. _lol_ ---
**Author:** ![jpballerina](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jpballerina/32/1004_2.png) [@jpballerina](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpballerina)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2007, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/lust-vs-deep-connection-vs-playful/2340/9 "2007-03-04T21:24:55Z")
😃 Oh, believe me, I’m reading around, and yes, the posts are very interesting! Sometimes it does get a little confusing, which is why I ask, but I think you’re right Lor: that testing is the whole point. I’m not exactly sure what I’m looking for . . . I want to be ultra desired but respected (as I hold a position of authority and I need everyone to still take direction.) The reaction I got with Pherlure for Her was nice because suddenly everyone was very attentive, and it inspired a lot of casual conversation that I haven’t received before. But not really the sexy side I’m still looking for. But, I think I need to do more testing with it as well. Right now I am thinking of getting [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) (a) to go and testing it out (separately, no mixing) to see what that does for me. I like the Pherlure for Her, but I am really getting into this stuff and wanna see what magic I can make happen! 🙄 Thanks for your results, and as long as you keep posting them, I’ll keep reading them! Luvs, jpballerina