# Make the wifey hot ? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 12, 2009, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/make-the-wifey-hot/29805 "2009-06-12T00:19:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Fishdeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/dec6dc/32.png) [@Fishdeth](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fishdeth)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2009, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/make-the-wifey-hot/29805/1 "2009-06-12T00:19:49Z")
Hi, I’m M 54 living in the Orlando area. I’ve been married to my wife for 22 years and we do have good sex… WHEN we have some. I’d be interested in something that might put her more in the mood / be more aggressive. I’ve tried Pherlure with not much result. Any pointers ? Thanks, Jim ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2009, 12:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/make-the-wifey-hot/29805/2 "2009-06-12T00:53:02Z")
Hi Welcome to the forum, Can you tell us a little bit more about yourself and your personality. So we can recommend the phermones better suit for your needs. Besides the obvioous recommendation that will probably be suggested. Chris ---
**Author:** ![Fishdeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/dec6dc/32.png) [@Fishdeth](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fishdeth)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2009, 1:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/make-the-wifey-hot/29805/3 "2009-06-12T01:00:29Z")
I’ll be 54 tomorrow. I install cabinetry in very high end homes. Work hard… play hard. I fly giant scale aerobatic RC planes. Like to swim with my 2 dogs here in the Orlando heat ! Jim ---
**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2009, 1:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/make-the-wifey-hot/29805/4 "2009-06-12T01:20:25Z")
hi and welcome to the forums! there are many great [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) at your disposal, but i would recommend TUTH for your sex life to become more frequent, and IH for getting her to the “mood”. Have you been looking around at the store and have been thinking about any certain product? cheers and good luck. ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2009, 3:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/make-the-wifey-hot/29805/5 "2009-06-12T03:10:46Z")
Hi Fishdeth. I am always thrilled when I hear of people who are married and committed to staying that way. 22 years, that’s an accomplishment! Unfortunately for men, the truth about women is that unless we are very comfortable, feel completely secure and cherished, we will not turn into animals in the bedroom. On the other hand… [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is formulated to bring on the conversations that women crave. The deeper, more intimate ones that leave us feeling really connected to our man. Without that type of connection, even the best relationships can be lacking in passion. My suggestion to you is Instant Honesty. Some of the others, such as Ammo, will give you a sexier aura and may be attractive to your wife, but this product will stimulate her on a completely different plane. Also, be patient. A spouse, especially one of so many years, knows your natural pheromone signature well. Any abrupt changes will raise red flags in her mind. Go slow at first, and bear in mind that she may naturally wonder what or who has caused this change in you. It took my husband over a month to react positively to pheros on me. At first I was met with indifference and/or suspicion depending on the day, and later with some uncharacteristic jealousy. Give your wife time. I’m glad you’re here. Read lots, starting with the stickies at the top of each forum section. They are brimful with good information and will help you make informed choices without too much time spent searching. Have fun experimenting! ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2009, 3:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/make-the-wifey-hot/29805/6 "2009-06-12T03:20:33Z")
im with moonwhisper on this one… i am not a fan of TUTH , but IH is the perfect start IMO. will you be letting her know you’ll be trying these? that could go either way for the sex part, but in my world i _like_ that he knows i use them sometimes… keeps him guessing and keeps the mind on SEX anytime i wear a new scent… 😉 A314 can be pretty sexy, and [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) too is sexy if you will be letting her in on your game ( i always wonder if wearing sexy mixes like Ammo isnt best kept a secret when your women knows your natural phero-signature…) great advice, Moonwhisper !!! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2009, 7:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/make-the-wifey-hot/29805/7 "2009-06-12T19:39:42Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Fishdeth! There is no point in saying anymore after you received some great recommendations. 😃 In addition to some great pheromones we always suggest you put in the work which I am sure you don’t mind. PHEROMONES + ACTION = POWER ! Here is a great thread to read up on to assist you : > [@Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695): > > Myself: Mid-40’s, athletic, married for 20+ years. This post is actually a combination of posts I have made in the Introductions section. It is designed for married guys looking to use the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) here to help things at home. I use pheromones for several purposes - work, social and to enhance life at home. I use multiple approaches especially for home: First - at this point in our lives we know sexual attraction is not the final answer. So my first recommendation is actually what … **Your GC is on it’s way!**