# MASSIVE Hits at a Singles' Event, with Ammo + Instant Openness **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 15, 2009, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120 "2009-02-15T23:50:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [February 15, 2009, 11:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/1 "2009-02-15T23:50:08Z")
Warning: long post. Then again, it’s my first time testing out the pheros, so bear with me. Thanks. Here’s an overview of my first “field test”. To clarify the results below, I’m Caucasian. Location: a singles’ event in a hotel conference room Setting: friendly, fun-loving crowd that was there to meet new people People: all ages Time of day: 9:30pm to 1:30am Moon phase: third quarter (Why? [Moon Phases and Pheromones](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/moon-phases-and-pheromones/25650)) It was Valentine’s Day, and I had no plans (that’s why I joined this site not too long ago). My friends were busy with their own plans, not all of them with dates, and I ended up home with nothing to do. So I went online, looking for events or venues where it would be acceptable for a young guy to come to by himself. I found a singles event 15 minutes from my home, and decided to go. I knew there wouldn’t be many people my age, but it was better than sitting in an empty apartment, and at the minimum, I’d get a chance to try out my pheromones. So I put on the pheromones: one spray of Ammunition on the chest, and two sprays of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) on the sides of my neck. Then I dressed in some nice club clothes, and left the apartment. When I arrived at the hotel, the parking lot was packed as hell, so I knew there would be many people there. Feeling pumped, I entered the hotel and headed for the conference room. Now, this is where it started to get interesting. **Some minor hits at the bar:** Before entering the room where the event was, I decided to head to the bar to get some liquid courage. There was a long line that just wasn’t moving. People around me seemed more polite than usual, and were more responsive to the small talk I made. One man joked about me buying drinks for him and his wife. I played along with the joke, but I was mildly worried that they were looking for a “third party to join them”. I’m sure the bartenders were working to serve everyone, but the line just wouldn’t move. When one young woman working there walked by, I asked her why the service was so slow. She apologized profusely, and actually gave me and a few other people in line free drinks. (In retrospect, I think I might have yelled at her a little, so I feel kind of bad about that.) But that, along with the joke earlier, indicated that the pheromones were working. **Two Caucasian middle-aged women:** After fueling up at the bar, I was ready and raring to go. I entered the conference room where the singles’ event was taking place. There was a large dance floor in the middle, with some tables around the perimeter. I scanned the room to look for women my age. I didn’t see them, but by this point, I didn’t care very much. I saw two women, who looked about 40, dancing together. I approached one of them (the more attractive one of the two), and asked her to dance. She responded: “well, you’ll have to dance with my friend too”. I agreed, took each of them by the hand, and started to dance. I think I did a good job. Since they were outside the my age group, I thanked them for the dance and moved on. **Miscellaneous hits:** Throughout the event, I danced with a number of people, both my age and older. This is where I knew that the dance classes I’ve been taking were paying off. They seemed to enjoy my company, and even complimented me on my dancing skills. However, I got a vibe that they danced with me just because they liked to dance, rather than out of romantic interest, so in each case, I said “thanks for the dance” and moved on. **Young African-American girl:** I saw her dancing by herself in the middle of the dance floor. She looked in my direction, so I approached her. She was a great dancer, and I followed her moves the best I could. We made some small talk, and it turned out to be an interesting conversation. We even went to the bar at one point (the line was a lot faster by then), and I ended up buying her a drink. Most of the time on the dance floor, it was non-contact dancing, with some hand-holding here or there. When I tried to get closer, she seemed resistant to it. I decided to dance with her longer, and try again later. When I did, same reaction. By then, about 45 minutes passed. So while I was enjoying her company, it again seemed like she wasn’t too interested. Perhaps she was looking for just a dance partner, rather than someone to date. Oh well. I politely excused myself and left. **Young Caucasian girl who gave me her phone number, part 1** : After the previous dance, I took a break to chill out and rest. When I was standing at the edge of the dance floor, I saw her looking at me. Since it’s common knowledge that hesitation leads to masturbation, I went up to her and asked her to dance. The next song playing was “Suavemente”. I asked her if she knew how to dance merengue. It turned out she did. During the dance, she was pressing against me much more than I expected, and complimented me many times. **Young Caucasian girl who gave me her phone number, part 2** : After that, another song came on; this time, it sounded more like swing. Instead of just dancing freestyle, I asked her if she knew swing dance, but she said she didn’t know it. I showed her a few basic moves, and she did pretty well. After the song, she said “thanks for teaching me”, but she had a look of affection like I taught her the meaning of life. Mind you, I approached her no more than ten minutes ago. But when I asked for her phone number, she gave it to me, and seemed very happy doing it. As we were parting company, she gave me a full-body hug for nearly 15 seconds. And yes, I am planning to call her today (Sunday) or tomorrow. As I was walking back to my car with a spring in my step, I caught a few guys in the parking lot giving me jealous looks as they passed me. That only made me smile more. This was one of the best night I’ve had in months, and ironically, it’s something I decided to do at the last minute as a last resort. And most important, my pheromones worked wonderfully! Thanks you, Tisha, Steve, and the rest of the Pherotalk team, for promoting such a great product. _P.S.:_ You probably noticed that many of my threads focus on a dance-related situation. It’s one of the things I like to do, and I think that a dance floor is one of the best places to use pheromones. ---
**Author:** ![jankren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jankren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jankren)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2009, 4:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/2 "2009-02-16T04:58:14Z")
So are you Caucasian too? ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2009, 5:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/3 "2009-02-16T05:59:57Z")
Yes, I’m Caucasian. I probably should have mentioned it when I wrote the original message. By the way, I have an update about the girl who gave me her phone number. I no longer follow the “wait three days” school of thought (and from what I heard, not many people follow it anymore, either), so I decided to call her next day after meeting her. Anyway, I called her last night, and she picked up. We ended up talking for almost half an hour. She said that she was glad to have met me, gave me many compliments, and seemed interested in what I had to say. It must have been the residual effects of Ammo and IO that I wore when I met her. With the exception of one or two awkward pauses, the conversation went very well; it turned out that we have quite a few shared interests. In the light of that, I decided to schedule a date with her for this week. When I mentioned the idea, she sounded very excited, and said multiple times that she was looking forward to seeing me again. (Wow, these pheromones are amazing!) So we set the date and time to meet. The phone conversation ended on that note. So for now, it looks like I’ll be seeing that girl again. I’m planning to wear the same pheromones that I wore the first time, in the same amounts: 1 spray of Ammo on the chest and 2 sprays of IO on the neck. (I used witch hazel to prevent build-up, so that won’t be an issue.) Does anyone have other suggestions? I also have [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and IH that I can use. I’ll probably stick with what I know worked the first time, but I’d like to hear from other people as well; namely, what pheromone would work on a first date after an initial meeting? ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2009, 6:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/4 "2009-02-16T18:48:58Z")
Great report Attractor 🙂 Very detailed & informative 😃 So you went to a single event & got some really great hits, good for you 🙂 I too went to a single event during the eve of Valentine’s Day but well it was only so-so not like what happened to you there:o ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2009, 3:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/5 "2009-02-17T03:21:13Z")
Very nice report. “Hesitation leads to …” - hilarious. I will have to remember that one. You are also living proof of something I just mentioned in my MX301 report … learning just a little bit of basic ballroom dancing can take you far in both self-confidence and social skills. Of course those guys were jealous - you had the guts to ask girls to dance and the basic skills to execute. As far as what to wear, I would go with the Ammo and IO, maybe adding in some IShine for the first few dates then switch the IO for [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to build better rapport. Kudos. ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 6:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/6 "2009-02-26T06:46:58Z")
Well, I have an update about the singles’ event girl. Or I should probably say “woman”, because you’ll find out why shortly. I scheduled a date with her to go Latin dancing at a historic ballroom. Before going out, I sprayed on the same stuff I wore when I met her: 1 spray of Ammo on the chest, and 2 sprays of IO on the neck. Then I put on nice clothes, and drove over to the ballroom. (Just as a reminder, both me and her are Caucasian.) We met at the ballroom, and after sitting and talking for ten minutes, we hit the dance floor. While dancing with me, she stumbled through some of the moves, but danced very close, enough for bodies to touch. After about half an hour on the dance floor, we sat down to rest and talk. She sat very close, and responded well when I touched her hand, shoulder, or knee. But at one point during conversation, we told each other how old we were; that topic never came up before, and certainly not during the first night (the one with the massive hit). It turned out that she’s 35, ten years older than me. I was a little surprised, because she didn’t look older than 30. We had a brief laugh about it, it wasn’t a big deal, and we continued dancing like before. At the end of the date, I walked her to her car. She gave me a full-body hug, like when she first met me, but resisted my attempt to kiss her. (Maybe it wasn’t a good idea to try in the first place, but oh well.) After that, I drove home myself. I’m still chuckling a little about how we didn’t know how old the other person was until the first date. I’m thinking that her age was the reason why she responded so well to my [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) the first time. Many posts on this site say that older women respond better to pheros than younger ones. Anyway, from the way my conversation with her at the end went, it sounds like she wants to keep seeing me, but as someone to go to dance classes with, rather than a romantic partner. Then again, you never know, she might feel a “craving”, especially if I decide to try using TUTH. Well, that’s the story. Let me know what you think of the whole turn of events. ---
**Author:** ![yogalefty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/a9a28c/32.png) [@yogalefty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/yogalefty)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 7:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/7 "2009-02-26T07:09:14Z")
Maybe at her age she can tolerate a little bit more none. A spray of turn up the heat and a spray of ammo, along with the instant openness may do the trick. As long as you didn’t show that it obviously phased you that she resisted the kiss it should be inconsequential. I wish I thought of applying pheros before dances and all that. Allows for a lot more solid of diffusion! Good luck keep up the good posts. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 2:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/8 "2009-02-26T14:56:13Z")
> [@TheAttractor](#): > > … She gave me a full-body hug, like when she first met me, but resisted my attempt to kiss her. (Maybe it wasn’t a good idea to try in the first place, but oh well.) … I wouldn’t worry. It’s likely she would have taken it as a complement and an ego boost, even if she refused the kiss. ---
**Author:** ![OC1007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/b782af/32.png) [@OC1007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/OC1007)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/9 "2009-10-20T02:24:43Z")
Old post I know, But ya man, going for the kiss and being rejected - and then being ok with it shows a lot of great qualities, and is nothing but good in my experience. It shows you are a man who goes after what he wants. It also shows what your intentions are and a lot of times, especially if you are being awesome, girls will reject it just to see if you are really secure in yourself. Keep it up, and I have also had nothing but great experiences with mones. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 11:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/10 "2009-10-20T11:50:41Z")
I think you might want to try a spray of TUTH, a spray of ammo (or two ammo), 2 instant Openness, two instant Honesty, and a few [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and see what you think. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![onthornsilay](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/onthornsilay/32/1427_2.png) [@onthornsilay](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/onthornsilay)\ **Post date:** [October 26, 2009, 2:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/11 "2009-10-26T14:53:26Z")
that’s my weak spot, dancing, i can’t dance and i hate most music. But if it’s some good early 90’s tunes like 2 unlimited or sash or something, i’ll have a go, but dancing is something i have always avoided… ---
**Author:** ![crashbandicoot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/crashbandicoot/32/2321_2.png) [@crashbandicoot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/crashbandicoot)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2011, 8:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/massive-hits-at-a-singles-event-with-ammo-instant-openness/26120/12 "2011-04-13T20:56:40Z")
I love this story so much. For a bave single man to go out with such confidence and manliness is so inspiring like Kirk Douglas.