# Meeting Ex at a Party. What to wear? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 21, 2008, 2:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309 "2008-02-21T14:49:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![kustocha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e99b99/32.png) [@kustocha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kustocha)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2008, 2:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/1 "2008-02-21T14:49:56Z")
Ok, so I am meeting my very recent Ex at a party this Saturday. I have A314, [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), and IS. What would be a good combo? I have never worn any pheros in front of her. My objective is for me to have a good time and maybe attract my ex. ---
**Author:** ![kustocha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e99b99/32.png) [@kustocha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kustocha)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2008, 3:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/2 "2008-02-21T15:08:46Z")
Hmm. Maybe 1x Ammo to chest and 2x [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) on wrists and rub together. or maybe opt out Ammo for A134 ---
**Author:** ![kustocha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e99b99/32.png) [@kustocha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kustocha)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 4:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/3 "2008-02-22T16:04:36Z")
NO suggestions ???😮 ---
**Author:** ![Jamie3500](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/2acd7d/32.png) [@Jamie3500](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jamie3500)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 4:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/4 "2008-02-22T16:50:31Z")
Hmm, well Im no expert and I am yet to have any real results with Pheros but I would assume that you and your ex broke up for a reason. not some spiritual reason like “god has a plan for eveyone”. I realise that you probably still like her (hence using pheros around her) so I would reccommend something like 1 x ammo just for a little sexual vibe, 2-3 drops of A314 (depending on your age) so as you dont appear “needy” (which is a major turn off to women IME). Instant openness and honesty would be good also (in any dosage) to see if you can identify previous problems and work out a solution. All the best 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![kustocha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e99b99/32.png) [@kustocha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kustocha)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 4:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/5 "2008-02-22T16:56:12Z")
I am only 22 so i think wearing ammo and a314 at the same time might be too much for her to handle (she is also 22). And yes, i still like her. I don’t know if i should introduce her to a314 or ammo first. I was thinking for the party: 1x ammo and 2x instant shine. ---
**Author:** ![Jamie3500](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/2acd7d/32.png) [@Jamie3500](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jamie3500)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 4:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/6 "2008-02-22T16:59:40Z")
You may have a point there. i think A314 is mostly -rone and a little -none so it may compliment the -none in the Ammo along with all the buffers. I dont think you can OD on [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) so if i was in your situatin I would bring th bottle with me and spray myself once every hour or so until you are satisfied with the results. ---
**Author:** ![kustocha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e99b99/32.png) [@kustocha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kustocha)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 5:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/7 "2008-02-22T17:08:24Z")
Interesting. So 1x ammo 1drop A314 and 2x instant shine (bring the instant shine with me in case i need more). Does that sound about right? ---
**Author:** ![Jamie3500](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/2acd7d/32.png) [@Jamie3500](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jamie3500)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 5:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/8 "2008-02-22T17:11:38Z")
Go for it. All the reports suggest no negative effects from an [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) “OD”. Remember though - If she has truly made up her mind about not dating you again, the Pheros wont do Jack. You will have to pull out the charm and convince her the old fashioned way 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![kustocha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e99b99/32.png) [@kustocha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kustocha)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 5:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/9 "2008-02-22T17:13:57Z")
One more thing i would like to add. I just got all my stuff on Thursday (Instant shine, ammo, a314) and the party is this Saturday. I regret not having enough time to try all these out separately. LOL. so i am very desperate for any personal experience stories. Thank you for all your help. ---
**Author:** ![galydrum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/galydrum/32/5181_2.png) [@galydrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/galydrum)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 5:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/10 "2008-02-22T17:20:07Z")
Yeah. First thing is, don’t overdo it. I have limited experience too, but I have no delusions about pheros being magic love potions. I know they work, I know they give me an edge, and anything past that (overtly blatant hits) is gravy. Don’t rely on the pheros. Play your game like you would without them, with confidence. Don’t come across as too needy, as someone else said here. Be cocky and funny. Poke playful jokes at her. Tease her on any quirks she exhibits. If she says anything loony, call her out on it. All with the attitude that it’s done in good fun. You’ll be fine. Go for it. ---
**Author:** ![Patratt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/patratt/32/971_2.png) [@Patratt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Patratt)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/11 "2008-02-22T17:26:57Z")
I would suggest keeping the A314 out of the mix for this specific situation. On a personal note, remember she is your “EX” for a reason. God does in fact have a plan for your life and it may not include this chick. Don’t know why you think you need to attract her again, but whatever floats yer boat dude. My advice would be to find another attractive female at this party and let her experience all the wonderful effects of your Ammo and IS usage. Ex will probably persue you when she sees you with another female. ---
**Author:** ![kustocha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e99b99/32.png) [@kustocha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kustocha)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 5:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/12 "2008-02-22T17:48:25Z")
Thats a great idea. HAHA. make her jelous. 😉 She does have a lot of hot friends. 😃 I guess ammo and IS it is. i am thinking 1spray ammo to upper chest/neck area. 2x IS on either side of next. Cool? ---
**Author:** ![galydrum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/galydrum/32/5181_2.png) [@galydrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/galydrum)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 5:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/13 "2008-02-22T17:58:43Z")
Oh, well in that case, even if your EX doesn’t get jealous and come around, the worst case scenario is you end up with one of her friends. Perhaps you’re even better off then. EDIT: Just a word of caution. There’s nothing in the world a girl hates more than to be used to make her friend jealous. So be careful, use your best judgment, and don’t do anything stupid. ---
**Author:** ![kustocha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e99b99/32.png) [@kustocha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kustocha)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/14 "2008-02-22T18:17:52Z")
haha. thank you all for all the advice. We will see how it goes. Anyone here that is around 22 that can tell me what their Ammo spray level is? ---
**Author:** ![Patratt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/patratt/32/971_2.png) [@Patratt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Patratt)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 7:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/15 "2008-02-22T19:40:21Z")
Go easy on it since you are so young. 1-2 sprays will do the trick. ---
**Author:** ![oce89](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oce89/32/2198_2.png) [@oce89](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/oce89)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2008, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/16 "2008-02-26T18:43:52Z")
kustocha, dude! I’m in the exact same situation as you right now. I’m also being advised on ammo and instant shine(also instant openness but plan to just use ammo and IS). Please post results of how it goes. Go get her back. Good luck man. ---
**Author:** ![jonno101](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jonno101/32/367_2.png) [@jonno101](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jonno101)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2008, 10:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/meeting-ex-at-a-party-what-to-wear/9309/17 "2008-02-26T22:55:02Z")
…it’d also be nice to have a supermodel gazing lovingly into your eyes to bring out the competitive spirit in her…😃 (JUST KIDDING!) But seriously, I think TAA might be useful to decrease personal space. A touch of IFM, but not too much - you want warmth and not to seem ‘wimpish’. It also depends on what sorts of things she likes in a guy. What sorts of things did she like in you? Then use mones to help show off those features she has liked in the past, in the best possible light. The other thing to bear in mind is that unless you’ve worn mones around her before, she will be wary of any big change in phero signature. You just won’t seem like the old you, which may work for you, or more likely scare her off. As the guys and gals have said, it’s mainly about you and her connecting. Mones can only help position you in a certain way in her mind. The rest is up to you, my friend. You’ve done it before so you KNOW you can do it again.