# Men's opinions on women repost **URL:** \ **Category:** Really Awesome Social Awareness Training\ **Created:** [September 12, 2006, 2:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-opinions-on-women-repost/23477 "2006-09-12T14:46:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 5
**Author:** ![texaspete](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/texaspete/32/1612_2.png) [@texaspete](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/texaspete)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2006, 6:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-opinions-on-women-repost/23477/5 "2006-09-12T18:26:57Z")
> [@men's opinions on women](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-opinions-on-women/672/1): > > i find clarity comes from hearing yourself say how you feel, especially when you have opinions that oppose eachother. > so let me ask… > for the guys here on this forum, all of whom have to be to some degree looking to improve or play with the social interaction, which is more desirable: > a woman who is foreward and confidant OR > a woman who (although beautiful/hot) is quiet or waits to be approached ? I can only speak for myself, and I may not be all that helpful because I don’t think I’m typical of every other male in the US. I vote for “Forward and confident”… but one can be too forward and most notably, too confident. A woman who is overly confident makes me think I’m being played or that there’s more going on than what I’m noticing, so I’ll be more cautious and observant. If I’m pressed to make an immediate decision by her as far as sleeping with or dating her - which i have been in the past - I will definitely say “no”, because I’m generally a suspicious person. > [@men's opinions on women](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-opinions-on-women/672/1): > > and, how big is the factor of beauty in relation to the confidence factor? > women clearly put confidence at the top of their list. where do men stand? I think _all_ women are beautiful, but I don’t think all beautiful women are sexy or attractive. And I should also note that when i describe a woman as being \*\*\*HOT, \***I’m not talking about her looks - it’s a combination of things. Don’t expect me to be as poetic or metaphysical (ahem… _wordy_) as Tacitus, but I’ll state that confidence is not a determining factor. Think of it as being near the bottom of a long list of details on a checklist - for example… no wedding ring? _check._ got teeth? _check._ less than 9 kids? _check._ is her butt smaller than mine? _check_ \*\* etc etc etc.** > [@men's opinions on women](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-opinions-on-women/672/1): > > finally, if you meet a woman **clearly wearing 'mone mixes** , you imediatly think- what? sex. here. now. 😃 --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-opinions-on-women-repost/23477)._