# Metaphorically speaking \*\* Hi There! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 27, 2009, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/metaphorically-speaking-hi-there/33621 "2009-10-27T01:28:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![alext93](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b9bd4f/32.png) [@alext93](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/alext93)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/metaphorically-speaking-hi-there/33621/1 "2009-10-27T01:28:02Z")
Hello I’m looking for [pheromones](https://a314.com/) that will increase my confidence, but also draw people to me to get a confersation started. I’m really easy going and most people enjoy hanging out with me, but there are times when I tend to have problems talking to beautiful women or alpha females’ the ones initially looking for hot guys instead of just getting to know a guy in a club/bar scenario. Metaphorically speaking, once I get past the defensive line I’m fine. I’m just looking for something to help me break through that barrier. As far as trying to find the perfect pheromone for me. Currently I’m just reading up on peoples experiences and views to consider what I’ll try first. But I do plan on trying something that will ease me from being shy and approaching people and talking to them easier. Also I’m pretty interested on studying peoples behaviors prior to and after each application of different pheromones. ---
**Author:** ![K-Train](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k-train/32/2253_2.png) [@K-Train](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K-Train)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 1:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/metaphorically-speaking-hi-there/33621/2 "2009-10-27T01:38:40Z")
> [@alext93](#): > > Hello > I’m looking for pheromones that will increase my confidence, but also draw people to me to get a confersation started. I’m really easy going and most people enjoy hanging out with me, but there are times when I tend to have problems talking to beautiful women or alpha females’ the ones initially looking for hot guys instead of just getting to know a guy in a club/bar scenario. Metaphorically speaking, once I get past the defensive line I’m fine. I’m just looking for something to help me break through that barrier. > > As far as trying to find the perfect pheromone for me. Currently I’m just reading up on peoples experiences and views to consider what I’ll try first. But I do plan on trying something that will ease me from being shy and approaching people and talking to them easier. Also I’m pretty interested on studying peoples behaviors prior to and after each application of different pheromones. Hey there Alext, and welcome to the forums man! Okay, you and me have the same backstory it seems. Outgoing but too friendly, confident but not enough to talk with pretty girls. My suggestion is A314. That’s my trump card and it doesn’t disappoint. I’ve had great success using it and it increases confidence and allows those Alpha girls to view you as a potential lifelong mate. It’s good stuff, especially with IH to aid in bonding. At the beginning of my school year I talked with a very pretty girl who is now a very close friend(maybe more) and she just can’t stay away from me. We bonded very quickly thanks to [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and A314 and I’m sure you’ll like that combo as well. Instant Shine is also a nice addition as it too increases confidences and makes you appear more youthful. Give it a go and if you need help with dosages check out my journal in the men’s section. ---
**Author:** ![andrew88777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f14d63/32.png) [@andrew88777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andrew88777)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/metaphorically-speaking-hi-there/33621/3 "2009-10-27T01:43:14Z")
Hey welcome to the forum! You did not list how old you were so that skews my choices somewhat. IG gives off a cool vibe towards others. It also can give some confidence effects. For me IO helps me be more open to talking to others, and also does the same for them. I love that stuff. Now for the killer confidence, A314 is awesome, it raises your status, however it can make it harder for others to approach you. My favorite combo is A314 and IO. IT gives me ultimate confidence, as well as the ability to speak to anyone without fear! LOVE it! Check out Snoopyace post on IG and IS. That is a good thread to read! Its a good combo! If you have any other questions do not hesitate! ---
**Author:** ![ladyofthewoods](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ladyofthewoods/32/1288_2.png) [@ladyofthewoods](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyofthewoods)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/metaphorically-speaking-hi-there/33621/4 "2009-10-27T01:44:00Z")
Welcome to the forum Alext, I would also suggest [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for everyone. It gives you that little extra something. I find that when I wear it I feel more confident, like I have just a little more to offer. And of course, women find confidence VERY sexy! Have fun, and if you have questions, just ask! ---
**Author:** ![funtimes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/f08c70/32.png) [@funtimes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/funtimes)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/metaphorically-speaking-hi-there/33621/5 "2009-10-27T01:59:20Z")
> [@ladyofthewoods](#): > > Welcome to the forum Alext, > > I would also suggest Instant Shine for everyone. It gives you that little extra something. I find that when I wear it I feel more confident, like I have just a little more to offer. And of course, women find confidence VERY sexy! > > Have fun, and if you have questions, just ask! Have to agree with you. Instant shine seems to work wonders. I wasnt shy on it. In fact i approached women and started the convo.🆒 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 27, 2009, 9:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/metaphorically-speaking-hi-there/33621/6 "2009-10-27T21:38:11Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.