# Missed my chance to pick-up with AMMO + IS, lol

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [October 5, 2010, 3:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345 "2010-10-05T15:06:02Z")\
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**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 3:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/1 "2010-10-05T15:06:02Z")

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Okay, I just went to this Starbucks to talk to this girl, whom I met three weeks ago and had chance to talk to a few times. She is about 8.5, in terms of looks, but she has a nice, confident and outgoing personality. I went there to get her number. Anyways, while I was waiting in line, I saw a girl that was 9.5 (blonde) and i just randomly struck a conversation with her. It was odd. She was saying how her job is nothing special - she was a lab tech in hospital- and she feels lowly about her social position. I never even gave her the impression that I thought lowly of her, lol. I think AMMO + IS made me seem like a very high-status person to her or something.

Well, I was going to ask the 9.5for her number, but this girl that is 8.5 started asking me all kinds of questions, lol. While, i was answering her, the girl that is 9.5 left. Dang it! What should I have done different? I should have said that I would be going to a restroom and left the scene briefly, and then get the number from the 9.5; afterward, come back in and get the number from the 8.5 girl? lol

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**Author:** ![Bolkie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bolkie/32/1056_2.png) [@Bolkie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bolkie)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 3:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/2 "2010-10-05T15:07:40Z")

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I am not a PUA or skilled in this kind of thing. But isn’t this where usually wingmen come into play?

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**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 3:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/3 "2010-10-05T15:09:48Z")

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I was trying to get numbers from BOTH, lol. That girl who was 9.5 was astounding. Gorgeous soft skin and lovely straight blonde hair!  
Why am I not capitalizing here, errrrr

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**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 3:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/4 "2010-10-05T15:24:26Z")

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Two things

She could have not been interested and just passing the time waiting till she left.

or

You came off as a player and she bounced

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**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 3:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/5 "2010-10-05T15:30:36Z")

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you never know. well, I didn’t leave 8.5 to talk to 9.5, because I had already talked to the 8.5 four times already, and she seems somewhat attracted to me. You don’t want to take a risk losing something pretty nice that you have a good chance of having over something that you might not have a good chance of obtaining 😉. i played it safe and smart on this one, hehe. If I went for for the 9.5, it could have ended my chance with the 8.5, lol

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**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 3:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/6 "2010-10-05T15:32:23Z")

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Either way you won out

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**Author:** ![mikdal9201](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikdal9201/32/2358_2.png) [@mikdal9201](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikdal9201)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 3:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/7 "2010-10-05T15:43:44Z")

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never focus on ‘the one that got away’ focus instead on the fact that an 8.5 while not equal to a 9.5 is better than a 7.5.

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**Author:** ![RisenAlpha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/54ee81/32.png) [@RisenAlpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RisenAlpha)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 3:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/8 "2010-10-05T15:44:32Z")

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Not sure you could have done anything different. That’s a tough one man. Sounds like the 9.5 gave you a DHV to the 8.5 girl. Did you at least get the number of the 8.5 girl?What was your body placement in relation to the two girls? When you were talking to both of them, did you have to turn away from one to talk to the other?

One way of keeping someone in place is to anchor them with an object. Put something on them, ask them to hold something, etc. This keeps them from going too far. You could also try changing your body placement so that the 9.5 girl were included into the conversation. Even anchor her with a few well placed kino’s to keep her from leaving. Then tell the 8.5 girl that you will talk to her in a bit and lead the 9.5 girl away with some statement about wanting to ask her something.

It’s tough though.

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**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\
**Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 4:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/9 "2010-10-05T16:01:29Z")

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> [@P51Mustang](#):
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> Either way you won out

Yea I agree… Have to admit I never get in ‘getting numbers’ conversations while in line to get coffee

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**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\
**Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 12:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/10 "2010-10-06T00:27:12Z")

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im going to another coffeee shop with this combo again later this week!  
I am becoming SO GOOD at coffee shop pick-ups. Getting even better than doing it with school girls or at bars

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**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\
**Post date:** [October 6, 2010, 4:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/missed-my-chance-to-pick-up-with-ammo-is-lol/42345/11 "2010-10-06T04:59:57Z")

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> [@mikdal9201](#):
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> never focus on ‘the one that got away’ focus instead on the fact that an 8.5 while not equal to a 9.5 is better than a 7.5.

Bird in the hand..yada yada yada.

But seriously, you’re right…also…the 8.5 might actually be a lot sexier than the 9.5 once you get to really know her. Maybe the 9.5 is a lousy lay and that 8.5 ends up rocking your world…or the 8.5 ends up being one of the highest quality women you’ve ever come across thus far and to top it off is just so into you, and makes you feel loved and special too.

Gratitude is so important especially focusing on the blessings and not the so called curses. 🙂
