# Mix for meeting gf's parents? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 8, 2008, 12:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666 "2008-06-08T12:56:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Deeds407](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/deeds407/32/688_2.png) [@Deeds407](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Deeds407)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2008, 12:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/1 "2008-06-08T12:56:46Z")
I have been seeing this girl for quite a while now and she has asked me to come and meet her parents and the rest of her family tomorrow. I want a really good mix to use so it will go as smooth as possible, i was thinking along the lines of.. 2 dabs of A314, 1 shot of cttm2,4 shots of instant gentleman 1/2 shot of instant openness and one shot each of instant shine and instant honesty..? will this be too much? any recommendations? thanks in advance! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2008, 1:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/2 "2008-06-08T13:39:27Z")
Its hard to say if it will be to much without knowing what you normally wear to see a reaction with each product. I would suggest going a bit lighter on the masculine and more on the social myself. Remember you are coming to take a mans little girl away. You want to project a strong masculine sig but not over bearing either. The high socials will signal a deep friendly kindness as well so this is why I suggest the mix below. 2 drops of A314 2 sprays of [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) 2 shots of Instant Openness 2 shots of Instant Shine 1 shot of Instant Honesty Leave off the CTTM or replace the IO and IH with 3 shots of that. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2008, 4:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/3 "2008-06-08T16:55:26Z")
Coming at this from a slightly different angle, as the father of a lass slightly older than yourself. I suggest a rone based product like ig or a314, or both. I’d leave the socials out of the mix at first. Rone can be social in itself with higher status individuals. rone will help project a mature, competent male signature. When a parent looks at a child’s potential mate, social considerations may initially be below considerations of how the person will fare in their future roles in life. Later, after these evaluations are made, there may be greater value in using the socials to help with communication and establish bonds. ---
**Author:** ![Deeds407](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/deeds407/32/688_2.png) [@Deeds407](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Deeds407)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 12:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/4 "2008-06-10T00:14:07Z")
thanks for the help guys! think i might leave out the socials as gone with the wind said and might try out tisha’s advice on a mix on the second time i meet them, i’ll let you know how it goes 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 12:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/5 "2008-06-10T00:34:45Z")
I might o with a mix closer to Tisha’s myself … Beware of self-effects of IO or IH. ---
**Author:** ![akamahyar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/97f17d/32.png) [@akamahyar](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/akamahyar)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 5:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/6 "2008-06-10T05:08:41Z")
I would say 2 drops of a314 3 sprays of io and 3 shots of instant shine. Do not use ammo or tuth because you are not trying to attract anyone ---
**Author:** ![akamahyar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/97f17d/32.png) [@akamahyar](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/akamahyar)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/7 "2008-06-10T05:09:14Z")
I would say 2 drops of A314 3 sprays of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and 3 shots of instant shine. Do not use ammo or Turn Up The Heat because you are not trying to attract anyone ---
**Author:** ![richter](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/richter/32/1158_2.png) [@richter](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/richter)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 6:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/8 "2008-06-10T06:06:14Z")
Listen to Tisha and Gone with the wind both know what they’re talking about. Tisha gives a lot of great advice so I might be more inclined to listen to what she has to say, she is a goddess. Good luck with the parents. ---
**Author:** ![akamahyar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/97f17d/32.png) [@akamahyar](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/akamahyar)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 6:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/9 "2008-06-10T06:37:05Z")
hey ritcher do you have a thing for tisha? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 11:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/10 "2008-06-10T11:11:21Z")
> [@akamahyar](#): > > hey ritcher do you have a thing for tisha? Of course he does I look better in a thong. LOL GW gave good insightful advice as well but coming from a women’s and a moms perspective we look for kindness and compatibility more. Dads look for the mature competent more. So since your meeting both mom and dad I suggested the mix I did. It wont take away from the masculine side of the A314 and IG and will cover the moms needs with the friendly nice boy vibe. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![data4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/data4/32/272_2.png) [@data4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/data4)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 11:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/11 "2008-06-10T11:26:23Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Of course he does I look better in a thong. LOL Was this yet another real life avatar that I missed? I seem to miss 'em all. ☹ -D4 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 1:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/12 "2008-06-10T13:24:04Z")
Of course there is no “right” answer to a question like this. As is said over and over a lot of the response is going to depend on the personalities and previous experience of those exposed, as well as the personality and natural [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) signature of the wearer. Both Tisha and I gave suggestions for a particular “flavor” that might be considered for the interaction. The details of response depends a lot on tastes though. What’s the best meal to prepare when meeting a girlfriend’s parents for the first time? Fortunately, the pheromone response seems to be a little more predictable than the taste in foods, but it has he same type of variability to a lesser degree. The best thing to do when giving suggestions is to convey the “flavor” of the mix as Tisha did, and then let the person asking make a choice based on whatever knowledge he has of the people involved. Even for people you’ve never met, you may have heard stories, smelled their offspring, or received other conscious and unconscious input that will be valuable in deciding what mix to try. ---
**Author:** ![richter](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/richter/32/1158_2.png) [@richter](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/richter)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2008, 4:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/13 "2008-06-12T16:54:43Z")
> [@akamahyar](#): > > hey ritcher do you have a thing for tisha? > [@tisha23](#): > > Of course he does I look better in a thong. LOL What she said 🙄 Tisha’s awesome she helped me get through my skepticism phase when I was testing [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). ---
**Author:** ![toilofday](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toilofday/32/371_2.png) [@toilofday](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toilofday)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2008, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/14 "2008-06-12T18:17:37Z")
> [@Deeds407](#): > > I have been seeing this girl for quite a while now and she has asked me to come and meet her parents and the rest of her family tomorrow. I want a really good mix to use so it will go as smooth as possible, i was thinking along the lines of.. > > 2 dabs of A314, 1 shot of Come Talk To Me Mix 2,4 shots of instant gentleman 1/2 shot of instant openness and one shot each of instant shine and instant honesty..? > > will this be too much? any recommendations? > thanks in advance! I know this is a bit late, but for future situations you may not want to wear anything. The parents are going to be picking you apart. Strong pheromone levels are not the normals, so it may be counter productive and make them weary of you. Plus, you want them to like you for you, and not be influenced by [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 13, 2008, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-for-meeting-gfs-parents/13666/15 "2008-06-13T01:44:58Z")
I don’t necessarily agree with that myself. You want to put your best foot forward. If pheromones are good enough to wear when you attract the girl they should be good enough for her parents as well. Its kinda like saying don’t wear them around someone you want to attract because you want her to like you for you. Your still you when your wearing mones, just a better you. Plus It defeats the purpose of [synthetic pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). They really just enhance whats already there and make interaction easier. Tisha