# mix suggestion needed for possible 3 way encounter **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 30, 2010, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-suggestion-needed-for-possible-3-way-encounter/42215 "2010-09-30T21:00:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2010, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-suggestion-needed-for-possible-3-way-encounter/42215/1 "2010-09-30T21:00:28Z")
Hello my dear friends and comrades. It is not often that I post inquiries of this nature, but a situation has presented itself to me recently that could be of great benefit for testing and personal enjoyment. As some of you who read my posts know, I am recently involved in a relationship with an amazing girl. The vibe is there, the sex is there, the emotion is there… it’s just firing on all cylinders right now and I am absolutely loving every moment of it. It just so happens though that my girlfriend is one of those kinda girls who likes girls too. And there’s a girl that she hooked up with prior to us getting into a relationship that will be hanging out with us this weekend. I have had some pretty good interaction with this and most of the time I am wearing 'mones so I believe that she is responsive to them. When we talk face to face she normally has good body position and mirroring, good eye contact, focus on me while I’m talking, and other pretty noticeable IOI. Actually, the night I met her, we hugged when parting ways and she gave me a very warm hug followed with an intense look and made comment that we MUST hang out more. My gf is friends with her and speaks very highly of me (DHV ftw!) and my gf is under the belief that she is already at least moderately interested in a 3some with us. I have made it abundantly clear that my gf can satisfy her sexual needs in regards to females under a very specific rule set, and she is more than happy to comply. Actually, there’s only 1 rule and that is that any encounters must be in my bed or in my presence. This allows me to participate in whatever function I and the other girl choose. I have no problems with watching my gf with another female and it seems she would have no problem with me having intercourse with another female as long as she is a part of the situation. This is a mutually beneficial understanding. I know my gf is completely and utterly head over heels in love with me and I am absolutely in love with her as well. Sex != love and we both know this. This is where I come to the members of this forum for suggestions on a mix that could amplify and intensify this possible interest, or spark an interest if there isn’t one already (although both of us have pretty good reason to believe that there is). The plan for Sunday is to go see a play at my gf’s school (her best friend is performing and it’s the last day of the show) with the other girl. Then I suggested heading back to the east side of the bay (where I live) to go to a haunted house… fight or flight syndrome/fear response can be highly arousing. After that the goal is to return back to my house (pending the situation allows) and have a good time with each other. My gf is willing to push this agenda and I would like to have her wearing some mones as well. I have composited some mixes for her and will probably create a new one for her to wear for this weekend (and other similar situations should they arise in the future). Her’s will likely be mostly social but with some TAL and p83 incorporated. Once drawback is that my gf is currently PMS’ing and about to be on her period likely come Monday or Tuesday. This eliminates my ability to use -none based mixes as I do not wish to aggravate her as she is going to be the main catalyst in this whole thing happening. Should she hit the red flow early, I have no fear as this is only a minor setback and would only cause me to not be able to have vaginal intercourse with her. As can be seen in my sig, I have a multitude of products available for use. I do have some ideas but additional feedback and suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I have not yet shared this type of experience with my gf and I feel that overall it will bring both of us a bit closer as well as add a new and interesting aspect to things. Thanks for any and all input provided in this thread. I’m sure there are other users who could and would stand to benefit from this thread. Cheers folks! ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2010, 9:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-suggestion-needed-for-possible-3-way-encounter/42215/2 "2010-09-30T21:12:18Z")
Lucky SOB. Anyways Meo-Est’s/A1 properties could ease the tention with your gf. P96 could push things along making the bonding connection with all three of you very realistic (I think this should be the catalyst for promoting that comfort.) I also think it would be very very safe if you used MX301 in lower sprays 1-2 and that should give enough kick for it. Since 301 has bnol in it, you could add on a little more to help with the connection. Typically I would say some -none, comfort and bonding, and a little intensifier (P79 or TAF) ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2010, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-suggestion-needed-for-possible-3-way-encounter/42215/3 "2010-09-30T21:22:42Z")
[P93](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p93/) and P74 are both reputed to foster a teamwork vibe 😃 ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2010, 9:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-suggestion-needed-for-possible-3-way-encounter/42215/4 "2010-09-30T21:49:01Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > Lucky SOB. > > Anyways > > Meo-Est’s/A1 properties could ease the tention with your gf. P96 could push things along making the bonding connection with all three of you very realistic (I think this should be the catalyst for promoting that comfort.) I also think it would be very very safe if you used MX301 in lower sprays 1-2 and that should give enough kick for it. Since 301 has bnol in it, you could add on a little more to help with the connection. > > Typically I would say some -none, comfort and bonding, and a little intensifier (P79 or TAF) These are very solid suggestions. I would also recommend a LITTLE Meo-est and A1 on back of neck. [P130](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p130/) could get everyone feeling loose and very comfortable, and none… maybe UF pack or TUTH. Maybe wait for the heavy none stuff for when it’s actually going down. ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2010, 9:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-suggestion-needed-for-possible-3-way-encounter/42215/5 "2010-09-30T21:56:44Z")
MX301 sounds like a great base, maybe sprinkle some toppings on it and you should be good. Its got a good does of -none buffered very well by other playful and disinhibiting molecules. I would give that a shot and maybe add some more IH to it to create a bond between you three that might make the whole thing a little more comfortable. Or even A1 or Meo for the same aspect. ---
**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2010, 10:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-suggestion-needed-for-possible-3-way-encounter/42215/6 "2010-09-30T22:06:12Z")
There is a big no-no in regards to the -none usage. My gf is pms’ing and about to start her period. -none products = surefire way to shoot oneself in the foot in these situations ---
**Author:** ![hoplessly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hoplessly/32/2319_2.png) [@hoplessly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hoplessly)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2010, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-suggestion-needed-for-possible-3-way-encounter/42215/7 "2010-09-30T23:24:16Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > P93 and P74 are both reputed to foster a teamwork vibe 😃 Hahaha. He should definitely do a double dose and spray twice. ---
**Author:** ![Reclipse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reclipse/32/773_2.png) [@Reclipse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reclipse)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2010, 12:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-suggestion-needed-for-possible-3-way-encounter/42215/8 "2010-10-01T00:21:32Z")
I think I’m gonna go with a mix of A1, Meo-Est (small amount), p75, p96, TAA, and some beta-nol as well. I may be able to sneak 2.5mcg of -none in there with a heavy A1 buffer but I’m cautious of this as I don’t want my gf to get agro when so close to her period. TAC is a good -none buffer as well so that may make it’s way into the mix if I use any -none As for my gf… TAA, TAC, TAL, p83, and some b-nol… maybe. ---
**Author:** ![GorMas2020](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gormas2020/32/197_2.png) [@GorMas2020](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GorMas2020)\ **Post date:** [October 1, 2010, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mix-suggestion-needed-for-possible-3-way-encounter/42215/9 "2010-10-01T01:23:23Z")
I don’t know how long you have been with your gf, but a 3-way with friends is an all around bad idea. The two of them have been together(alone) and you have been with your gf(alone). Threesomes are very tricky under these circumstances. If you have been with your gf over 6 months then it’s better, a year better yet. It’s hard being a swinger(for all intensive purposes) The more people involved the MORE emotions involved. For guys it’s a bit easier to disassociate sex and emotion, but if the two of them get into it and you end up holding the clothes it may turn out bad for you. A couple who swings tends to seek out avenues or venues that cater to this specific desire with like-minded individuals and in some cases the jealousy that is created ends what was a loving and caring relationship. I dabble in the online sexual dating and EVERY women likes the IDEA of NSA attached sex, but there is never sex without strings(EMOTIONS) unless your paying for it and then again emotions can be created there. I’m just advising you to be careful if you really care about this girl and make sure you discuss this in depth and always be open and honest and keep the communication open. YOU HAVE TO BE EXTREMELY OPEN-MINDED FOR THIS TO WORK. Let her set most of the parameters that will increase her comfort in the situation, because even though she says she’s ok with it if she loves you like your saying she does than SHE DOESN’T WANT YOU LEAVING HER FOR HER FRIEND NO MATTER HOW BI-SEXUAL SHE IS. Emotions my friend are complex. Oh and don’t kiss the other girl. Let her kiss you and always kiss your gf deeper and longer after if the position dictates that as a possibility. Also if they are getting into it don’t try and join in. Rub and kiss your gf and the other girls backs(or where ever) to make them REMEMBER your there. You don’t need luck you just need practice, but 3-somes are hard to practice 😛