# Mone Question **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 18, 2010, 9:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mone-question/37835 "2010-04-18T21:50:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Asus28](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/asus28/32/1719_2.png) [@Asus28](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Asus28)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2010, 9:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mone-question/37835/1 "2010-04-18T21:50:27Z")
Say im out with 3 buddies… Got my mones on. How will the girl be able to tell who has the mones? Because technically I could be spending tons of money to give the friends around me advantages. How does that actully work? ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2010, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mone-question/37835/2 "2010-04-18T22:37:57Z")
> [@Asus28](#): > > Say im out with 3 buddies… Got my mones on. How will the girl be able to tell who has the mones? Because technically I could be spending tons of money to give the friends around me advantages. How does that actully work? It does occasionally happen that someone will steal your phero signature. I had that problem a couple of times when I started wearing pheros. I look like the love child of John Candy and Drew Carey. My buddy has those boyish good looks women go crazy for. I would be wearing pheros and sitting next to him. He’d be phero free. Women would think, ‘hmmm… I feel warm and tingly… Must be the cute guy that is making me feel that way…’ and they’d approach him. I figured out that I could either leave the area (it did work because he’s a jerk to most women so they’d lose interest) or be more congruent with my phero signature. I wear a lot of the ICM mixes Steve gave out as well as quite a few of my own. They all seem to work to make people see me as a fun, VIP type person. I’d get myself to come out of my shell and be the funny (slightly sardonic) person I am around my friends. Made the biggest difference in the world. Be happy, outgoing and fun while wearing pheros. I don’t care who your dream woman is, she’ll find you attractive (even if you aren’t every woman’s dream physically). Believe in yourself and let the pheros help you get where you want to be. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2010, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mone-question/37835/3 "2010-04-18T22:45:28Z")
For the most part, it’s the same as if you’re with three buddies and one of you has incredibly powerful BO. Yes the whole area is rank but in a short time the variations in intensity depending on if the girl is standing closer to you or one of your friends will make it obvious who the smelly one is. Well it’s the same thing with the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) I’d imagine. A couple of things that can help is try to control distances. If you and another guy are equal distances from the girl she might have a hard time differentiating. So stand next to her for a few minutes and let her get the effects, then step away for a bit. This way she’s with the other guy when the effect is gone, you come back and bring your phero cloud with you. Now it’s pretty obvious the source of what she’s feeling. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2010, 2:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mone-question/37835/4 "2010-04-19T02:21:30Z")
Your olfactory senses work just like all your other senses. When you see light you can pinpoint where it is coming from. When you hear a noise you can pin point where it is coming from. When something or someone touches you you can pin point where it is coming from. When you smell something you can pinpoint where it is coming from. Its not something you really consciously think about. Its just ingrained in us. Its instinctual Sure there are occasional situations when our senses give a confused signal and we have to make a conscious effort to process the signals but it doesn’t happen often. Pheromones dont work by scent although it is part of processing. The scent just carries the molecules which then enter the brain connect with the neurotransmitters causing them to fire a emotional response. They work in the subconscious. Every person leaves a vapor trail when they move about and we process these natural pheromones all the time. Of course our natural pheromones are congruent with who we are though. This is why we talk about congruence in the forum alot. Once someone gets the signal the subconscious quickly looks for the cause of the signal. Now suppose your wearing IO which is a friendly open attractive vibe but your standing there looking anything but friendly and open. Then you may have a problem with someone mistaking the signal for one of your friends if your in a large group setting. Small groups usually are not a problem though. I am not suggesting that you act differently or try to be someone your not. However you do have to make some effort. The best way to do this is pick up a book on body language or look it up on the net and just review it so you understand what different stances convey. Then put some of those into practice. We communicate with all of our senses and it doesn’t hurt to learn about and use as many as you can to improve your social interactions. Tisha