# Mones For Control or Attention **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [December 24, 2010, 7:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985 "2010-12-24T19:56:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jackslater](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jackslater/32/1476_2.png) [@jackslater](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jackslater)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2010, 7:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/1 "2010-12-24T19:56:15Z")
**Do You Use Mones For Gaining Control Or For Gaining Attention?** ---
**Author:** ![RisenAlpha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/54ee81/32.png) [@RisenAlpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RisenAlpha)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2010, 8:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/2 "2010-12-24T20:13:50Z")
Interesting question. ---
**Author:** ![samuraitea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/samuraitea/32/1998_2.png) [@samuraitea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/samuraitea)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2010, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/3 "2010-12-24T20:22:07Z")
Agreed with Josie, interesting. I am going to have to say… … … All. In order to have control, you need to have attention, now depending on what degree of what you want is up to you. I want to have the ability to influence people without them even knowing, I want to be able to force my aura, this is my hobby, a passion ! and I have a blast with this! So kinda your question is already answered itself, BUT I understand where you are getting at! I personally lean towards control, I want people to feel a certain way towards me. ---
**Author:** ![jackslater](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jackslater/32/1476_2.png) [@jackslater](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jackslater)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2010, 8:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/4 "2010-12-24T20:43:57Z")
> [@samuraitea](#): > > So kinda your question is already answered itself, . \*\* Okay, I suppose I need to clarify and state what is the proper interpretation. For Control- Someone that wants to influence the thought and actions of other, without them knowing, in order to achieve certain goals. For Attention- Someone that just wants people to give attention by talking, interacting, etc. No specific goals laid out, just normal social interaction. \*\* ---
**Author:** ![2000GT](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/2000gt/32/389_2.png) [@2000GT](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/2000GT)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2010, 9:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/5 "2010-12-24T21:44:21Z")
Ah but in a way, by using mones even for attention, we’re using it as a form of influence. Influencing people to react in a fashion more in line with what we want is a form of control. I would have to say all as well. ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2010, 9:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/6 "2010-12-24T21:56:30Z")
Even though others have said theres a thin line between the two which I certainly agree to a good extent I will go with “attention” 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2010, 10:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/7 "2010-12-24T22:02:16Z")
[Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) dont control so I will have to go with attention. I would say I use them to gain attention so then I can influence them. My pheromones just put them in the right frame of mind and influence them in the right direction a little but I still have to do 90% of the influencing myself. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![jackslater](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jackslater/32/1476_2.png) [@jackslater](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jackslater)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2010, 2:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/8 "2010-12-26T02:58:47Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Pheromones dont control so I will have to go with attention. > > I would say I use them to gain attention so then I can influence them. My pheromones just put them in the right frame of mind and influence them in the right direction a little but I still have to do 90% of the influencing myself. > > Tisha **“influence”** ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2010, 12:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/9 "2010-12-26T12:04:55Z")
> [@jackslater](#): > > **“influence”** Yes influence. Everything you do everyday influences other people without them being conscious of it. I would not define influence as control. That would be manipulate. Pheromones dont manipulate or control. They dont make people think something that is untrue or not logical. Pheromones just amplify feelings in a way. Tuth for instance can influence the feeling of arousal. It projects that your a virile masculine guy in your prime. It doesn’t control there actions it just puts them in the mind to think of you in a sexual frame of mind. You still have to influence there logical side to sleep with you. Phermones just sort of prime that attempt. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![jackslater](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jackslater/32/1476_2.png) [@jackslater](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jackslater)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2010, 12:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/10 "2010-12-26T12:53:03Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Yes influence. Everything you do everyday influences other people without them being conscious of it. > > I would not define influence as control. That would be manipulate. Pheromones dont manipulate or control. They dont make people think something that is untrue or not logical. > > Pheromones just amplify feelings in a way. Tuth for instance can influence the feeling of arousal. It projects that your a virile masculine guy in your prime. It doesn’t control there actions it just puts them in the mind to think of you in a sexual frame of mind. You still have to influence there logical side to sleep with you. Phermones just sort of prime that attempt. > > Tisha My 2nd post. \*\*For Control- Someone that wants to influence the thought and actions of other, without them knowing, in order to achieve certain goals. (i.e., a boss that want to cause more obedience in employees, a friend that always wants to convince his other friends to drive when going out at night, a salesman that wants to convince people to buy the product, etc) For Attention- Someone that just wants people to give attention by talking, interacting, etc. No specific goals laid out, just normal social interaction. \*\* ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2010, 3:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/11 "2010-12-26T15:53:00Z")
LOL I saw your second post Jack you posted it in bold. 😛 I was giving my opinion and agreeing with you that influence fit better then control. Tish ---
**Author:** ![jackslater](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jackslater/32/1476_2.png) [@jackslater](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jackslater)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2010, 4:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mones-for-control-or-attention/189985/12 "2010-12-26T16:02:19Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > LOL I saw your second post Jack you posted it in bold. 😛 I was giving my opinion and agreeing with you that influence fit better then control. > > Tish \*\* I need to reinvent this thread. 😃 I just wanted to research how many people were already in positions of control/influence, and wanted to enhance that control with the use of pheromones. And, how many here just use mones as social enhancers. it’s a delicate comparison, so perhaps I should have chosen control and “social”, instead of “attention”. Peace\*\*