# Montreal Man Making Moves **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 25, 2010, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543 "2010-02-25T21:39:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![TheWhat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/838e76/32.png) [@TheWhat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheWhat)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2010, 9:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/1 "2010-02-25T21:39:14Z")
Hi all, Long time reader, first time poster here. I spent enough time on this forum to realize that I have a lot to learn about the phero game. It seems the community here is helpful and compassionate, so I can think of no better place to seek advice from. I’ve had my share of relationship experiences, and am always seeking new ones. I learnt about pheros along my path of discovery, as I am also interested in alchemy (mystic oils, ormus, philosopher stone, etc)… basically the pursuit of perfecting one’s self. DNA activation, realizing full potential, developing intuition, healing others - these are my objectives on this path. I know I have found a community where I can learn from others’ experiences…if anyone has particular mixes, or can guide me towards realizing my objectives thru the use of pheros, I would be most grateful. About me: 31 yrsold, Montreal born&raised, world traveller, engineer, urban monk Thank you all for your contributions on the forum, they are worthwhile reads that have steered my approach in the phero game, and given me several unforgettable moments to date.😉 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2010, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/2 "2010-02-25T21:42:39Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! And I’m so glad you’ve finally decided to join us! In order to recommend the right phero products for you, we need to knw a bit about your personality and how you relate to others. Are you confident and outgoing, or more on the shy side? Also, what kinds of situations were you thinking og using pheros for? What kinds of effects do you hope to see? This info will also help you qualify for the $25 gift certificate 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2010, 9:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/3 "2010-02-25T21:54:50Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum, TheWhat, Now that you are aware of the $25 gift certificate ([https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934)), as mentioned to you by SillyKitty, it only takes several minutes of your time to tell us about yourself. Some [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) are idea for business, dating, and social situations in a variety of environments- these pheromones highlight or enhance your personal style of presenting yourself in different situations. We both know, that meeting people can even make the most confident people feel some anxiety, steaming from uncertainty about being like and accepted; **however** there’s products that can address that. Therefore that’s the reasoning behind asking you more information about your personality; this is ensure the forum members can best assist you with right the product(s) suited for your objectives. 🙂 cheers, MVKBugatti ---
**Author:** ![TheWhat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/838e76/32.png) [@TheWhat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheWhat)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2010, 10:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/4 "2010-02-25T22:05:19Z")
Hi Sillykitty, thanks for your quick reply. To answer your questions: I find I am naturally confident and outgoing…when I allow myself to act natural. I’ve always been athletic and attractive to women, so I have no complexes about my looks. Over the last few years, I have been pursuing the “Living in the Heart” approach to relationships…a subject I’ve seen loosely mentioned on this forum. I am, however, sensitive to people’s opinion of me and am constantly surprised to meet people who perhaps are not naturally outgoing, but who find my openness strange, even troublesome. I am not the overenthusiastic fellow at work always seeking approval, I know how to demonstrate high value. A little ramble there, but I hope this answers your 1st question. As for the types of pheros, I learnt on this forum somewhere that “form follows function”…meaning I must know what effects I want before knowing which combination to use. So like I said in the 1st post, I want to create new relationships, I want to shed barriers that we impose on ourselves without even thinking about it. I find that if you live in the heart and communicate from the heart with others in a non-verbal way (body language, for example) they always respond in the same way…it’s human nature. I am hoping that pheros can act as a catalyst in such interactions, thereby accelerating the shedding of barriers and facilitating communication. So I love to meet new people, especially when those people allow themselves to be open and happy. Speaking of which, it’s very nice to meet you, SK. ---
**Author:** ![scotties123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c37758/32.png) [@scotties123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scotties123)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2010, 10:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/5 "2010-02-25T22:30:27Z")
Welcome! Breaking down barriers can be achieved a number of ways. Instant Openess tends to turn people into chatterboxes, so you may notice people are more willing to talk to you when you have it on. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) helps give off a vibe of increased trustworthyness, so people may confide in you more and have deeper conversations than would normally be expected. Instant Shine tends to just make people flat out happier and you might notice people linger around you a bit longer than usual when you have it on. Those are a few different ways you could get someone to open up more. If you are looking for more of a sexual vibe, you could give TUTH a try, but it can be tricky so I suggest reading about it a bit before giving that one a go. A314 helps you come off as more alpha and respectable and could be great for both the workplace and normal everyday activities, like going to the supermarket. I notice a lot more attention from people when I have it on. Hope this helped! ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2010, 10:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/6 "2010-02-25T22:58:50Z")
I suggest you go with the _lighter_, _brighter_, “fun” type pheromones. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) ([Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)) and Instant Shine. Instant Openness ([Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)) makes me chatty, if you’re shy, it’s a good choice to help open you up more; it will make you seem friendlier; likewise those exposed to IO feel more talkative which is an added benefit it that person happens to be shy. And Instant Shine has a self “feel good” vibe, and it also makes people around you feel good and upbeat about themselves. It noted, that Instant Shine has additional provides a boost of confidence; because of the fact you’re feeling so good about yourself. Finally thought, purchase some [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/); it causes people to let me into their private lives, as they shared some deeper things to me. Also it may be cost sufficient to start out with the to-go bottles first. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2010, 10:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/7 "2010-02-25T22:59:33Z")
> [@TheWhat](#): > > Hi Sillykitty, thanks for your quick reply. > > To answer your questions: > I find I am naturally confident and outgoing…when I allow myself to act natural. I’ve always been athletic and attractive to women, so I have no complexes about my looks. Over the last few years, I have been pursuing the “Living in the Heart” approach to relationships…a subject I’ve seen loosely mentioned on this forum. I am, however, sensitive to people’s opinion of me and am constantly surprised to meet people who perhaps are not naturally outgoing, but who find my openness strange, even troublesome. I am not the overenthusiastic fellow at work always seeking approval, I know how to demonstrate high value. A little ramble there, but I hope this answers your 1st question. > > As for the types of pheros, I learnt on this forum somewhere that “form follows function”…meaning I must know what effects I want before knowing which combination to use. So like I said in the 1st post, I want to create new relationships, I want to shed barriers that we impose on ourselves without even thinking about it. I find that if you live in the heart and communicate from the heart with others in a non-verbal way (body language, for example) they always respond in the same way…it’s human nature. I am hoping that pheros can act as a catalyst in such interactions, thereby accelerating the shedding of barriers and facilitating communication. > > So I love to meet new people, especially when those people allow themselves to be open and happy. Speaking of which, it’s very nice to meet you, SK. It’s very nice to meet you too, and thanks for the great info! I’m thinking that the very best product to address your communication goals is [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Instant Honesty is one of my personal faves (I get it in 4x) and adds depth and intimacy to conversations. People feel more comfortable and relaxed talking to you, and they are more likely to open up and talk about personal things. Instant Shine is another one that would be appropriate for your purposes. It adds a positive and uplifting sparkle to everyone within its range, it will boost your mood as well as the moods of those around you. I always keep one with me, just for a pick-me-up if I need it. I hope this helps! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![TheWhat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/838e76/32.png) [@TheWhat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheWhat)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 6:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/8 "2010-02-26T18:39:50Z")
Thanks for the helpful advice everyone, I appreciate your thoughts. IH, IO, and IS are already part of my arsenal, I find they’re quite effective in my day-to-day interactions, and hope to experiment a bit with combos tailored for more specific situations. I’m an engineer by trade, but next week I’ll be reciting a poem in front of dozens…something I haven’t done since elementary school! Facing fears is rewarding for me, but moreso I want to shine (pun intended) in front of the crowd as I speak. Can anyone recommend a phero mix for this type of performance? ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 8:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/9 "2010-02-26T20:23:40Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![TheWhat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/838e76/32.png) [@TheWhat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheWhat)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2010, 9:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/10 "2010-02-26T21:23:40Z")
> [@kelsey](#): > > I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool!. > > Welcome to the forum. Thanks for the GC…now to figure out what to get. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2010, 12:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/montreal-man-making-moves/36543/11 "2010-02-27T00:39:53Z")
Hmm, I do remember reading about a mix that was good for public speaking anxiety. Maybe do a search, or post that question in the Mens Section, where you will get more feedback.