# Most Bizarre Incidents? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 16, 2006, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-bizarre-incidents/295 "2006-04-16T00:33:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2006, 5:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-bizarre-incidents/295/21 "2006-04-22T17:17:12Z")
> [@catlord17](#): > > Is it possible she was so uncomfortable in part because she was having innapropriate responses? I’ve seen women act really funny and then later on discover (from a friend or something) that instead of being uncomfortable with me, as I had thought, she was overwhelmingly attracted and didn’t want anyone else present to know it. After all, if you had an overwhelmingly sexual response to a total stranger, wouldn’t it… oh, nevermind, us guys don’t have a problem with that. > > Not that it matters anyway. 🙂 Most women have an anti-slut mechanism, either organic or created over the years by social conditioning. They will do almost anything to avoid being called / viewed as / talked about as being a “slut”. Some of the better “pick up” systems, such as “The Mystery Method” take this into consideration, and intentionally don’t go too far, too fast to avoid triggering the Anti-Slut Defense (ASD). If you were to unify pheromones and a good PUA system such as these, you wouldn’t use a mix that’s too sexually aggressive at first. Instead, you’d start with openness (Instant Openness), good feelings (Shine + IFM), humor (Shine probably _without_ IFM) with a moderate amount of attractive oomph (rone, reasonable amounts of -none, and sometimes A1/IFM) and _lots_ of comfort (Openness + IFM + maybe Honesty at some middle point)… and only gradually “Turn Up The Heat” with higher amounts of -none near the end… when you want them to boil over in lust… when you want them to explode… with desire (“I can’t take it anymore!”). ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2006, 4:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-bizarre-incidents/295/22 "2006-04-23T04:41:03Z")
> [@MHarris](#): > > Most women have an anti-slut mechanism, either organic or created over the years by social conditioning. > > They will do almost anything to avoid being called / viewed as / talked about as being a “slut”. > > Some of the better “pick up” systems, such as “The Mystery Method” take this into consideration, and intentionally don’t go too far, too fast to avoid triggering the Anti-Slut Defense (ASD). > > If you were to unify pheromones and a good PUA system such as these, you wouldn’t use a mix that’s too sexually aggressive at first. > > Instead, you’d start with openness (Instant Openness), good feelings (Shine + IFM), humor (Shine probably _without_ IFM) with a moderate amount of attractive oomph (rone, reasonable amounts of -none, and sometimes A1/IFM) and _lots_ of comfort (Openness + IFM + maybe Honesty at some middle point)… and only gradually “Turn Up The Heat” with higher amounts of -none near the end… when you want them to boil over in lust… when you want them to explode… with desire (“I can’t take it anymore!”). That would certainly explain the internal resistance to their own attraction, and why my current mix seems to work well when a woman has enough time to “get hit” by it. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-bizarre-incidents/295.md?page=1)