# Most important day of my life up till now: Need to build a sense of rapport.

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-important-day-of-my-life-up-till-now-need-to-build-a-sense-of-rapport/56017>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [July 2, 2012, 12:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-important-day-of-my-life-up-till-now-need-to-build-a-sense-of-rapport/56017 "2012-07-02T00:12:44Z")\
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**Author:** ![Apu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@Apu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Apu)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 12:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-important-day-of-my-life-up-till-now-need-to-build-a-sense-of-rapport/56017/1 "2012-07-02T00:12:44Z")

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Hey guys,

I am going to keep this short. I failed my university course, and I will be meeting three representatives of my university’s board of governors to request an exemption from the expulsion.

For the meeting I cannot seem rich/successful. I have to seem like a good guy who made an honest mistake (which I did, I accidentally confused the date of a compulsory exam) who they can trust. The meeting will be very sombre, I expect to involuntarily cry. I hope that [pheromones](https://a314.com/) can help them feel more sympathetic towards me.

For reference, I am 19 years old, Indian and live in the Netherlands.

I was thinking 2 sprays of IG and 2 sprays of IH without a cover scent.

If the pros could give me advice I will be infinitely grateful. Please only give advice if you know what you are talking about. There is a huge deal at stake for me.

If I get rejected by the representatives, I will have wasted 4 years of my life.

Thank you.

P.S. If you need more information, please ask me. 🙂

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 12:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-important-day-of-my-life-up-till-now-need-to-build-a-sense-of-rapport/56017/2 "2012-07-02T00:24:58Z")

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Do you know who the board members are … Males or females ?

What products do you have so we know what you have to works with ?

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Apu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@Apu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Apu)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 12:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-important-day-of-my-life-up-till-now-need-to-build-a-sense-of-rapport/56017/3 "2012-07-02T00:42:32Z")

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Hey Tisha, thanks for responding! =D

Two females, and one male. The male is a statistics professor, and is one of the more difficult ones. All of them are above 40 years old.

I didn’t list which products I have because I am fully willing to buy new ones.

I have A314(oil), ISx1, ISx2, ISx4, IJx1, TUTHx1, Ammox1, Ammox2, IOx1, [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/)(15mcg/spray)

My IG and IH are both depleted. =(

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-important-day-of-my-life-up-till-now-need-to-build-a-sense-of-rapport/56017/4 "2012-07-02T01:28:34Z")

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Darn I wish you had some [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) and P103 but working with what you have.

I would go for A314 or IG and heavy IH. You could use a little Ishine but stay away from the anones and IO. The anones will be to aggressive and confrontational and IO will cause a babbling effect.

Just go in, look them in the eye and tell them the truth. You made a mistake. Do not come up with lame excuses for that mistake just take responsibility for it. \<\<\< (This is important)

Try to keep the crying to teary eyed but don’t bawl if you can help it. I find the crying approach works better when women do it then men. In men it shows weakness of character. I am picturing the board as being the intellegent snooty types and bawling will just make them think your a babbling idiot. Do some deep breathing right before you enter.

Be clear and assertive when you speak to them.

Make eye contact

Try to reflect (not out do) there body language and verbal style back at them to create an emotional bond and empathy. Now when I say verbal style I dont mean if they have an accent you copy that. Try to use some of the same words they do when they question you. I have to repeat this …the key is to match not out do or over emphasize.

All this causes a subconscious bonding and if they bond you got them.

Go for slow deep breathing and relaxed facial features. You want to not come across as panicked but confident they will see things your way and give you another chance. Not cocky…confident…yes there is a difference.

Good luck. Its going to be ok. If you take responsibility they will most likely not let you waste 4 years of school. They may not just let you take a retest but will in all liklihood come up with some compromise.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Apu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@Apu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Apu)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-important-day-of-my-life-up-till-now-need-to-build-a-sense-of-rapport/56017/5 "2012-07-02T01:59:05Z")

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Hey Tisha, thank you sooooo much! I will take all of your advice regarding body language and speech on board during the meeting.

P103 is sold out but I can purchase [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) if you think that would help! I am going to have to place an order for IG and IH anyway.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 3:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-important-day-of-my-life-up-till-now-need-to-build-a-sense-of-rapport/56017/6 "2012-07-02T03:00:52Z")

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> [@Apu](#):
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> Hey Tisha, thank you sooooo much! I will take all of your advice regarding body language and speech on board during the meeting.
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> P103 is sold out but I can purchase P74 if you think that would help! I am going to have to place an order for IG and IH anyway.

Your welcome.

I would get [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/). It increases bonding affection and the empathic response.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Apu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/898d66/32.png) [@Apu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Apu)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 12:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-important-day-of-my-life-up-till-now-need-to-build-a-sense-of-rapport/56017/7 "2012-07-02T12:35:15Z")

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@Tisha

What strength do you recommend I get the [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/)?

Also, what is your best guess as to what dosages I should apply the IG, IG and P74? I know I should test it out myself, but the problem is that there is too little time. I am thinking 2xIG and 3xIH and I don’t know how much of the P74 as I have never used it before.

Thank you so so much! =D

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2012, 1:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/most-important-day-of-my-life-up-till-now-need-to-build-a-sense-of-rapport/56017/8 "2012-07-02T13:14:18Z")

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Sorry had to go to work.

I would get 15 mcgs per spray myself but thats because I know my dose which ranges around there 15 mcgs to 20 mcgs.

2XIG sounds about right. Frankly if it were me I would go a little higher on the IH unless you tend to spill your guts when you use that much. If you buy the 12.5 mcg [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) use 2 sprays. You cant OD with it really it just will cause stronger empthy and bonding which in your situation is good.

If you were using it in a sexual attraction mix I would go lower.

Tisha