# Mr Awesome: 2 drops of A314 **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 28, 2008, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mr-awesome-2-drops-of-a314/16454 "2008-07-28T21:42:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Saifz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/13edae/32.png) [@Saifz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Saifz)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2008, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mr-awesome-2-drops-of-a314/16454/1 "2008-07-28T21:42:54Z")
([http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8373743](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8373743)) [Saifz](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8373743) Today at 2:17pm I went to starbucks this morning, Alli was wearing a nice make up..she doesn’t usually wear much, she looked really pretty..i wanted to tell her that but I held back.. she says hi bla bla , takes my order and then I go to the guy who’s making the drink, i pick it up.. and where they put your name on the plastic cup.. she wrote ’ Mr Awesome" I looked at her, she was busy with customers..i wanted to yell her name and blow her a kiss but I didn’t.. held back again i have a problem with expressing myself sometimes.. ([http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8811950](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8811950)) [Bobby](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8811950) Today at 2:49pm you did express yourself. in one of the following ways, depending on how she is going to percieve it. 1. you didnt notice it said anything on the cup 2. you noticed, but your name is INDEED mr. awesome, and that its very typical for you to have your name written on a cup, so you didn’t need to say anything, not even thankyou. 3. you noticed, realized she was flirting, but were too shy to talk to her (this is probably the last thing she would think though) 4. you noticed but you hate her and think shes a crazy stalker woman (this is most likely the first thing she would think) ([http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8373743](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8373743)) [Saifz](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8373743) Today at 3:01pm LOL..so? I don’t think she’s a stalker.. ([http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8811950](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8811950)) [Bobby](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8811950) Today at 3:34pm right.. ur obviously #3. but SHE doesnt know that. she thinks its #4. so you just need to start paying attention to what it is you’re expressing. because youre always expressing SOMEthing, even if you dont think you are. ([http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8373743](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8373743)) [Saifz](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8373743) Today at 3:54pm how do you tell if its flirting she was doing or just being nice? ([http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8811950](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8811950)) [Bobby](http://www.new.facebook.com/profile.php?id=8811950) Today at 4:11pm you cant tell. the same way she doesnt know if its #3 or #4, you dont know how to percieve her actions either. if you choose to percieve her as being shy, then thats what it is. but if you want to see her as a crazy stalker woman then thats what it is too. the idea is to show women that you arent attached to anyones reality but your OWN. and in your reality you have the ability to juggle perception. walk up to her and say “omg.. how did you know my secret identity.. have you been spying on me? tell me what you know.” you get it? the idea isnt to be REAL all the time. the idea is to have fun with reality. pretend your someone else. pretend you never met a girl who you’ve talked to for 2 years. figure out what theyre thinking your gonna do, and do the opposite. make people understand that you will not conform to what they expect. if they expect u to be a perverted creepy guy because thats what theyre told. then be a really nice kind guy and it will flip their reality. if they say “i heard you were really nice from my friend so and so” say oh you must be talking about someone else, im a real hardass. you could call it reframing, i call it choosing. choosing how i want to react to any situation the way I want to, not the way people expect me to. thats freedom my friend. thats freedom. * * * thought I’d share a hit with you guys, and some advice I took from a friend over facebook 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 4:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mr-awesome-2-drops-of-a314/16454/2 "2008-07-31T16:20:15Z")
SOrry we missed this post… But it is great so some reps 😉 Glad that you start to like a314! Bump! ---
**Author:** ![Saifz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/13edae/32.png) [@Saifz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Saifz)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 4:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mr-awesome-2-drops-of-a314/16454/3 "2008-07-31T16:31:36Z")
yay! love reps 🙂 thanks for reading man!