# MX135: "I'm not your girlfriend, dude."

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**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [December 15, 2006, 6:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mx135-im-not-your-girlfriend-dude/1154 "2006-12-15T06:12:00Z")\
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**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\
**Post date:** [February 2, 2007, 3:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mx135-im-not-your-girlfriend-dude/1154/32 "2007-02-02T15:22:16Z")

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For respect in the workplace and out of it, my order of preference is A314, MX134, and to a lesser extent MX105 (it’s a little softer). It seems to calm people and help them stay on task. It will keep nasty peers out of your face, and work very well with those over you in the power structure as well. Brighten it a bit with [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), if you want to show a little mercy. 😉

I’d consider IFM for the office as well - we know it’s great for women’s emotional state, and I’m not convinced from what I read here that very many men are negatively affected by it - most of the reports from men here are neutral as far as self-effect and effect on other men around them. It is oft repeated here that IFM _may_ depress men, but not many first-hand reports to back that up - hardly any, in fact.

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