Hopefully her response was, if you said yes, she would have been thinking “awww dammit.”
And if you said no she would have been, “o0oo ok nicee.”
Yeah…that’s what I was hoping for…unfortunately she said “maybe we should tell them to sign up”. Which again pisses me off because she’s sending me mixed signals…Or maybe she’s just very shy
Hmm, I hate to say it but I might be a little wrong. I went to ask her to go sign up for the trip and she said we should wait till the other people got back to sign up together. idk…this seems like a bummer to me. I really don’t understand her though, she shouldn’t be flirting with me the way she has if she’s not willing to go on a date with me, right? I hate mixed signals. Then again, this is why I’ve never had a relationship…
girls LOVE LOVE LOVE playing stupid games like this. I don’t mean to offend anyone, this is just what I’ve noticed over the years. I wouldn’t give her too much attention because she already knows you’re interested and if you give her too much attention she’s just going to abuse it and have you chasing after her for no reason, just because she likes the attention. I don’t know how often you two communicate, but if she texts you or calls you, don’t pick up or answer every time, and don’t even return the call every time either. It sounds harsh, but I’ve always told my friends: “Treat a girl like dirt and she sticks to you like mud”. This of course works only on the younger, more immature girls.
Ok so first of all, 1 spray of MX302 and 1 spray of MX200 is AMAZING for Asians. I find that two sprays of MX302 or MX301 are sometimes a bit too much for some asians, but 1 of MX302 and 1 of MX200 are PERFECT. Had so many hits from the usual girls on my floor.
And even worse, that one girl continued flirting with me today. It’s bugging me so much that she’s one of those girls, but I guess I’ll use her game against her and see what happens…![]()
Yes yes yes. Girls love to play games.
It seems to me that you need to pull a bit back on the amount of attention you’re giving her. Hell, there were countlesssss times in my life where I gave so much attention to girls. But in the end it all turns out to be rejections, rejections, and more rejections. I had to learn the hard way.
Giving girls all the attention in the world is not necessarily a good thing (at least for a lot lots of girls). I find that girls tend to like the “chase.”
You have got to make yourself seem harder to get.
Maybe you need to make your interactions with her more assertive (possibly with slightly sexual hints).
I treat some girls nice and they don’t know how to appreciate it. I treat some others like jackasses and they cling on like no other.
“oh the irony.”
Thanks for the advice! Yes, the more I seem to make myself unavailable, the more she chases me. But it has been working really well so far. It’s sad, but it’s how some girls are I guess…Will keep you updates
Bah. I gotta give p83 another try, my first experience was crummy due to my own misapplication.
Maybe p83 and spaceland?
I’ve heard P83 is great with Spaceland but I haven’t tried it. However I agree, with MX301/302, P83 is hit or miss for me. For some girls its amazing, for others its unnoticeable.
Hmm, maybe it’s not the P83 that gave me the great results last time? I met the same girl tonight that I last time had great results when I used P83 and MX302, only this time I used only 1.5 sprays of MX302 and nothing else. Now this girl is asian, but she was all over me during watching a movie together (nothing sexual, but very intimate). I was shocked actually. The results were amazing however! It seems like the MX302 was responsible for this last time more than the P83.
Whatever works! ![]()
I’m having trouble with the original girl who I told you would cancel plans with me. Again, she has been extra flirtatious, and there is no doubt in my mind that she is interested in me. The problem? She always cancels plans. Granted, she is very busy with family life and church and goes home every weekend which is why she has to cancel most things, and I understand this. But like today, we were going to go grocery shopping with a few other friends from the floor and then she ends up telling me she doesn’t want to go because she doesn’t need any food. So I’m very confused about her. And of the 3 girls so far, she seems the most attracted to me despite her weird plans. Anyways what should I do? I’m sorry if this has turned from a testing pheromones post to a dating post, but it’s part of the process lol (I am still testing MX302/MX301
I suggest u basically ignore her without 100% flat out ignoring her. What I mean is, if she calls you, dont pick up. If she texts you, don’t respond. Just let any talking that happens between you two, be when you are face to face. The biggest thing however, is don’t try to make further plans with her. It just makes you seem needy. If she likes you, she will eventually go crazy trying to figure out why you aren’t interested in her anymore. At that point she will either move on, in which case she wasn’t that interested in the first place, or she will try to make plans. This is what I would do at least.
Sounds like you may becoming the puppet on the string. At 19, I’m sure you’re really wanting her, and that’s not a bad thing, BUT!
Stop making plans that include her.
Stop making plans with her.
Stop making plans on the weekend.
Stop making plans on the nights you KNOW she has church.
Start making plans for a new girl, 'cause this one doesn’t seem to have time for a relationship, which you understanding this, could give you piece of mind.
Just go your merry way, and talk to her when you SEE her, should it be she visits you, or you visit her.
Annnnd maybe you’re reading too much into it. Maybe she doesn’t want to go with a bunch of friends … just YOU.
Maybe! Maybe! Maybe! Tis t’wue … A RELATIONSHIP IS WORK!
Ditto ditto ditto to the above two posts.
Wow ok so after using MX301 and MX302 and MX200 for the last few weeks, I’ve seen some differences. I still prefer using 1 spray of MX301/MX302 and 1 spray of MX200, but I also know which girls are sensitive to which. Some Asians I cannot use any MX301/MX302 and so for them I use only MX200; other asians go crazy for MX301/MX302. Finding that sweet spot with different girls is important ![]()
Also the becoming less available thing is working. The more I pull away the more she pulls towards me haha. But it’s hard…Anyways, I think we may have our first date this Wednesday, gonna take her to go see Paranormal Activity…that one should be a jumper ![]()
But the MX301 is amazing on her. She has gone much farther than simple hand touching to the point where she now rubs her ass against my arm while walking by if I’m sitting down or boobing me from behind. She’s been much more kinoestic with me, and the MX301 helps alot ![]()
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Yes yes yes. Girls love to play games.
It seems to me that you need to pull a bit back on the amount of attention you’re giving her.
I treat some girls nice and they don’t know how to appreciate it. I treat some others like jackasses and they cling on like no other.quote]
This is all so true when dealing with most young women…
This is all so true when dealing with most young women…
How much do they normally charge to have an MX made special in a 30ml custom order? Please don’t tell me it’s 6x the cost of a 5ml to go either.
Im soooo down