# my bodys pheromone mixed with ur synthetics **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 29, 2008, 9:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-bodys-pheromone-mixed-with-ur-synthetics/13230 "2008-05-29T09:28:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![androtaker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a88e57/32.png) [@androtaker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/androtaker)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 9:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-bodys-pheromone-mixed-with-ur-synthetics/13230/1 "2008-05-29T09:28:10Z")
well I have a question after reading all the stickys about ur products. I normally dont have a problem attracting women, I am pretty good looking and have alot going for me. the problem is that I have heard many people tell me that a girl wants to sleep with me or while at a party they say there gonna hit that tonight (talking about me) but most of the time I dont get any type of signs out of the female directly, it seems only the sl\*ts that dont care give me some sort of sign, im sure you can see where this causes a problem. So does this mean that I need to try to find a pheromone that makes them feel more comfortable around me and not so much go for the more sex oriented sprays, or will they cover up my natural [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to an extent that would cause me to have to use more synthetics, also for some damn reason gays hit on me alot, kinda wanna get away from that to, ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 10:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-bodys-pheromone-mixed-with-ur-synthetics/13230/2 "2008-05-29T10:32:57Z")
Hi Androtaker, welcome to Pherotalk. The social products might help to bring more girls in to you for conversation. Instant openness is a fun chatty mix that would be great at parties. Instant honesty also makes people feel more comfortable with you and makes conversations easy. Have you approached the girls you’re more interested in? A little light conversation & some sign of interest from you might be what they’re waiting for. Instant shine is also a feel good [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) that will uplift your and those around you moods. None of the products I have mentioned are sexual orientated sprays. The mens sticky section is a great read for a new user and will have you familiar with the products that are being suggested to you. Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![bsassy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bsassy/32/2266_2.png) [@bsassy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bsassy)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 10:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-bodys-pheromone-mixed-with-ur-synthetics/13230/3 "2008-05-29T10:42:47Z")
Sounds like you may intimidate women. Maybe you should approach the women you are interested in instead of the ones that approach you? The non-sl%ts are interested too but may be intimidated. Be more approachable and open to others. Just a thought 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 10:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-bodys-pheromone-mixed-with-ur-synthetics/13230/4 "2008-05-29T10:58:49Z")
Welcome. Sometimes males have to indicate interest before the female will provide any obvious signs. Many males are notoriously blind to the subtle signals females send. ---
**Author:** ![bsassy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bsassy/32/2266_2.png) [@bsassy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bsassy)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 11:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-bodys-pheromone-mixed-with-ur-synthetics/13230/5 "2008-05-29T11:37:04Z")
So are you looking for a committed relationship or dates with more substance or both? Cause these are the girls that don’t approach you ever. They will however send clear signals when they like you and after you have succeeded in getting their attention in the first place. Pheromones are great for that. SassY ---
**Author:** ![nnn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/58f4c7/32.png) [@nnn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nnn)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 5:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-bodys-pheromone-mixed-with-ur-synthetics/13230/6 "2008-05-29T17:32:34Z")
> [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](#): > > Welcome. > > Sometimes males have to indicate interest before the female will provide any obvious signs. Many males are notoriously blind to the subtle signals females send. This is a very important point and I certainly experience it myself. That is, when I go out, it is often my friends who point out that so-and-so is checking me out - I’m rather oblivious to anything but the most obvious signals. The way I see it, you can go about ‘fixing’ this issue in 3 possible ways. 1. Pay more attention to IOIs. No pheromones required here - instead, pay more attention to the people around you and take note. Ask your female friends to help you out at the beginning. 2. Jack up the ‘sex’ image with either your presentation (e.g. the way you talk, the way you look) and/or pheromones like Turn Up The Heat. 3. Increase the rapport via products like Instant Honesty and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and hope that your targets come on to you more openly. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![androtaker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a88e57/32.png) [@androtaker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/androtaker)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 6:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-bodys-pheromone-mixed-with-ur-synthetics/13230/7 "2008-05-29T18:30:40Z")
not really looking for something with more substance, I am just trying to attract more normal (if thats the right word) girls that way if somethings there I dont have to worry about what type of person she is, also I kinda have a problem approaching girls that I know im just trying to date, and or sleep with, but if there like at a party at my house and there friends of my friends then im golden, its not that Im afraid, im just not a good out of the box conversationist, but If I have hung around them before or for awhile then I know what to talk to them about, and know what keeps them focused on me for lack of better words, I can get them (not bragging just explaining) home with me the first night. and yes I think I may be horrable about picking up on the more subtle signs, I have even read books on body language and still cant get it down, I have hung out with girls for months even years having no idea that they were attracted to me at all, just friends, and all of the sudden the next thing I know people start asking me why I havent asked her out or tried something on her because shes crazy about me. my first wife and I hung out for 5 years as friends before she road with me home from a party to sleep on my couch (one of many nights) and the next thing I knew she was naked n my bed. I guess im saying that I just want girls to come to me instead, or even give me less subtle hints, sounds kinda crazy but if a girl approaches me or gives any obvious signs I guess the confidence is already there and I can go to work knowing theres interest there ---
**Author:** ![bsassy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bsassy/32/2266_2.png) [@bsassy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bsassy)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-bodys-pheromone-mixed-with-ur-synthetics/13230/8 "2008-05-29T21:03:42Z")
Hmmm… you are even sending me mixed messages? I am a girl and I’m confused as to what you want. It seems you get plenty of attention from girls and even girls you like… so what is the problem? I will take a stab at it. I’m guessing you are… 1. Looking for a better quality of women to sleep with. 2. Want women to approach you but with less of a sexual furvour. 3. Want to get signs from the women directly. The best advice is to go for the girls you want and treat them the same as if they had sent you hints or not. This will boost your confidence to get the girls you want instead of the girls that want you… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2008, 10:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-bodys-pheromone-mixed-with-ur-synthetics/13230/9 "2008-05-29T22:55:22Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 > [@](#): > > I have heard many people tell me that a girl wants to sleep with me or while at a party they say there gonna hit that tonight (talking about me) but most of the time I dont get any type of signs out of the female directly, it seems only the sl\*ts that dont care give me some sort of sign, The sluts will give you a blatant sign, well because they are sluts LOL “Normal” girls are alot more subtle and in all liklihood even if she tells her friend “Oh I wanna do him” she wont till she knows you better. I think first you need to read this… > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… Mones are going to give you a edge and attract girls more but if they are not ready or willing to have sex they wont no matter how hot you make them. That being said… I think AMMO and IO would be a good choice to start with. AMMO attracts attention and interest and its sexy. It can also boost the wearers confidence a bit. IO is a ice breaker that makes socializing a whole lot easier. If you have any questions just ask. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email box shortly** 😃 Have fun Tisha