# My date last week,and this week... **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 17, 2007, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-date-last-week-and-this-week/6707 "2007-11-17T22:08:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Stangman25](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3e96dc/32.png) [@Stangman25](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stangman25)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2007, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-date-last-week-and-this-week/6707/1 "2007-11-17T22:08:58Z")
So here is what my first order of my phero arsenal consists of -A314 -double strength instant openness and also regular strength instant openness to go -1x [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) -1x Instant shine -1x turn up the heat and 1x turn up the heat to go -1x instant female magic so last week i was on a date with my recent girlfriend, she is 20 years old and also persian like me, i have been going out with this girl for 3 weeks and finally 2 weeks ago asked her to be my girlfriend, during this time i had been phero free because i was still waiting veryyy patiently for my order to come and last week half of it did and a couple days ago i got the rest. So for last weekends was the 2nd date that i took her to and we went out for dinner then to a hookah bar after dinner, basic stuff, since only part of my order had come in all i had was instant female magic and some turn up the heat. My plan was to wear some of the instant female magic and later on in the date when things started to heat up to spray some of the turn up the heat to see what happens. So i had worn 2 sprays of IFM, one to the back of my neck and another to my wrists. So i go to pick my date up and everythings cool we go to dinner she seems really relaxed we have a good time, thenn we go to the hookah lounge we go sit down in the back area where we were kiind of hidden, here is when she got very touchy, i noticed she was much more engaged compared than before as far as being closer to me and being more touchy, she deifnetly seemed to be more comfortable, everytime i bent down or over to move the coal off the hookah or something she would put her head directly on the back of my neck as if she new exactly where i had sprayed the IFM hahah, so after about an hour of smoking i excuse myself to the bathroom and with the Turn up the heat to go i had took one and a half sprays to the chest. I came back and we left to the car, it was about 10 at night at that point, and i asked her if she wanted to go back to my place and she was kind of shy and said she would just wanna stay there in the car with me, one reason for this was because i lived 25 minutes away and she had to be home by 12, soooo in the car things heated up fast, for the next hour and half the make out session was extremely more intense than the previous ones, a lot more touchy as well, it seemed like i could have gone further but i didnt wanna push it or scare her… it was great, i think the instant female magic gave her the comfort level to trust me, and when things needed to heat up the TUTH defiently did its part… So yesterday… So now that i had my full arsenal to dispose of i had another date with her yesterday, so i had cooked her dinner at my place and wanted to watch a movie with her at my place right after, this time i was wearing 2 spray of double strength instant openness 1 spray to the side of my neck, 1 spray to the forearm, 2 drops of A314 one to the wrist then another spread under my chin and ears, 1 spray of instant female magic to the back of the neck, and 4 sprays of instant shine, 2 to the neck, 1 in the hair, and another to the wrist. Sooo i go to pick her up like usual and we are driving back to my place, everything seemed like usual, however she thought that for some reason i was being too quiet and she kept telling me to talk, which i dont think i was being to quiet but usually when i tend to drive i concentrate a little to hard on the driving and listening to music so i do get quiet, keep in mind i drive a stick shift car so my attention has to be on that and on the road haha soo I try to start chatting more, we eventually get home and she meets my sister and i start to get the food ready and have a nice dinner, she seemed a little shy in front of my family probably because it was the fisrt time she had met my dad and sister, anyway after dinner was done we go up to my room and i ask her what movie she wants to watch and she says she doesn’t care, haha so i finally put something on and we start watching it, at this point i did the same thing as the last date i go and put 3 spray this time of Turn up the heat to my stomach and upper chest, the make out sessions and other specific details i don’t want to mention hahah was definetly a lot more intense, it felt like i had her at my fingertips and she was going crazy, and so was I, so eventually she wanted to go out so we turned off the movie, and go out to get a drink and i drop her off home after that, now we have not had sex yet because this is a girl that wont give it up that easily, she is far from being a slut,and thats part of why im so attracted to her, i would rather her feel comfortable before we did that, i really like her a lot and so far it seems like turn up the heat has been working the best along with the instant female magic, the a314 i have used around friends as well it seems like I am getting a bit more respect but nothing to drastic to notice around them, the instant openness seems to work on a certain few but i have to experiment a little more with that, Ammo i have used only once and didn’t have a chance to really go out to experiment with it, but i am looking forward to see what their effects would be and what my next combination of pheros for my next date would be, if you guys have any suggestions or recommendations please share! ---
**Author:** ![The\_W](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_w/32/1104_2.png) [@The\_W](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_W)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2007, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-date-last-week-and-this-week/6707/2 "2007-11-17T23:21:44Z")
Nice one 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![NancysBoy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nancysboy/32/391_2.png) [@NancysBoy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NancysBoy)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2007, 11:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-date-last-week-and-this-week/6707/3 "2007-11-17T23:40:57Z")
Well, you’re well along the way, wherever you are going. If it’s not too forward, I would like to ask that you to please say if your culture believes, as I know other mid-eastern cultures believe, that women are more, shall we say, “sexually inclined,” than men? It might help to know this, for comments on what [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to use? You say she is not a slut, and I got the idea that you are pleased with her responses so far. But, do you want her to dance in a particular fashion? I mean, do you want things to go at a particular pace? Do you want to be in the lead, for instance? Or, can she decide when it is time? You’ve stacked the deck, with pheromones, so that things are going to be more physical. Are you after what we might call a no strings roll-in-the-hay, or are you after a long term relationship? We want to hear your reports no matter what you have in mind, and no matter what you’re trying to accomplish. 😛 You seem to be well informed, and you seem to know what you are doing. Keep doing what you’re doing.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Stangman25](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3e96dc/32.png) [@Stangman25](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stangman25)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2007, 11:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-date-last-week-and-this-week/6707/4 "2007-11-17T23:51:33Z")
you are right as far as saying the women are more sexually inclined in middle eastern culture, as far as the way i want her to behave, i just want her to be more comfortable around me and not afraid to hide how she feels, and i am definetly looking for a long term relationship, we both are… if she starts to go from just liking me to loving me and feeling more comfortable things will difenetly get more serious, so my main concern would be building on the relationship and taking it to the next level, slowly though… 😛 and so far it seems like the pheremones have been a help, i just got to experiment more with different combinations and dosages to get that sweet spot, and as far as me being well informed, lets just say i have been reading a lot on these forums haha, its you guys that are guiding me and i think im doing alrite so far! ---
**Author:** ![NancysBoy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nancysboy/32/391_2.png) [@NancysBoy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NancysBoy)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2007, 7:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-date-last-week-and-this-week/6707/5 "2007-11-18T07:24:47Z")
Great, thanks for your direct responses. I’d go light on the TUTH for a little while - I mean, give the woman a break. Maybe AMMO is enough for next time? Concentrating on the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) will get you further towards your goals as I now understand them, I think. ---
**Author:** ![spot007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecae2f/32.png) [@spot007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/spot007)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2007, 7:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-date-last-week-and-this-week/6707/6 "2007-11-18T07:35:13Z")
> [@NancysBoy](#): > > I’d go light on the Turn Up The Heat for a little while - I mean, give the woman a break. Maybe AMMO is enough for next time? Concentrating on the social pheromones will get you further towards your goals as I now understand them, I think. I think you’re right, NS… I’m now learning the same thing… the social pheros, such as Instant Shine and especially [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), have helped me get great responses from a target I’m hoping to get into an LTR with. When I’ve gone a little too heavy on the -none (i.e.: Turn Up The Heat or NPA), she has been a little stand-offish. Lesson I learned… save those for if/when the situation (hopefully) is ready to cross over the line into the realm of sexual intimacy. Heavier -none apps, have got me some decent IOIs in my experimentation process from girls who I don’t know, btw… so I know they do work. My relationship with my “crush”, though, is not ready for that.