# My ex and I

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [September 24, 2008, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218 "2008-09-24T19:26:57Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![Jessefrom213](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cc9497/32.png) [@Jessefrom213](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jessefrom213)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218/1 "2008-09-24T19:26:57Z")

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I bought Turn Up The Heat, A314, TAL, and P79. I’m thinking of also getting AMMO.

My situation is this, I broke up with my gf a few months ago. She cheated on me, and I don’t want that, but after a very nasty incident that happened we are now talking again and having sex sometimes once a week. For us not being in a relationship we are having sex frequently, considering the sequence of events that happened (which I will not discuss).

We love each other, but we are not right for each other and we have decided to go our own way. But we still enjoy sex with each other. I’m really crazy for her, although I don’t want her as my gf anymore I do lust for her and want her to lust for me a lot too.

I have gained weight since we were together, I currently have 24% body fat. I’m a good looking guy, but my confidence dropped a lot since gaining weight. I am exercising again and my body fat is lowering, I am also taking testosterone boosters (not anabolics, just natural stuff, Tribulus).

I want her to be able to ask me for sex more frequently, and always crave for me, so I bought these [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) mentioned above. She is a very difficult person to turn on, but once she is turned on she cums easily. I want her to have more and intense orgasms, I want her to think of me as her only way to be sexually satisfied. More than half of the time that I’m with her she sees me as her teddy bear, and I don’t like that.

Is there a combination in which it would work with her to get the results that I want? She feels extremely comfortable with me, and I please her emotionally already. I just want her lust for me to be sky high. One more thing, she already sees me as someone ‘dangerous’ and she seems to kinda like this because she is still around me and has sex with me.

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**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 8:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218/2 "2008-09-24T20:40:28Z")

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Interesting situation. You’ll have to explore but here’s an idea. I’m taking some guesses as to your girlfriend’s personality based on your descriptions.

A314 - 2 or 3 drops  
Turn Up The Heat - 1 spray

This may give you a commanding/sexy presence. Of course you have to play it that way. You can add in the “danger” with your attitude. As your time together progresses you can add more sprays of Turn Up The Heat and ramp the commanding attitude up also.

If you try this approach let us know how it works.

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**Author:** ![happens31](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/aca169/32.png) [@happens31](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happens31)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 8:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218/3 "2008-09-24T20:53:57Z")

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> [@jgom2235](#):
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> I bought Turn Up The Heat, A314, TAL, and P79. I’m thinking of also getting AMMO.
> 
> My situation is this, I broke up with my gf a few months ago. She cheated on me, and I don’t want that, but after a very nasty incident that happened we are now talking again and having sex sometimes once a week. For us not being in a relationship we are having sex frequently, considering the sequence of events that happened (which I will not discuss).
> 
> We love each other, but we are not right for each other and we have decided to go our own way. But we still enjoy sex with each other. I’m really crazy for her, although I don’t want her as my gf anymore I do lust for her and want her to lust for me a lot too.
> 
> I have gained weight since we were together, I currently have 24% body fat. I’m a good looking guy, but my confidence dropped a lot since gaining weight. I am exercising again and my body fat is lowering, I am also taking testosterone boosters (not anabolics, just natural stuff, Tribulus).
> 
> I want her to be able to ask me for sex more frequently, and always crave for me, so I bought these pheromones mentioned above. She is a very difficult person to turn on, but once she is turned on she cums easily. I want her to have more and intense orgasms, I want her to think of me as her only way to be sexually satisfied. More than half of the time that I’m with her she sees me as her teddy bear, and I don’t like that.
> 
> Is there a combination in which it would work with her to get the results that I want? She feels extremely comfortable with me, and I please her emotionally already. I just want her lust for me to be sky high. One more thing, she already sees me as someone ‘dangerous’ and she seems to kinda like this because she is still around me and has sex with me.

Google black sex stone

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**Author:** ![Jessefrom213](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cc9497/32.png) [@Jessefrom213](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jessefrom213)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 9:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218/4 "2008-09-24T21:19:07Z")

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We were together for 2 years in a relationship, and a year as friends before we became boyfriend and girlfriend. She is very comfortable with me and has told me lots of things, even her darkest secrets. I pretty much able to get girls to do that with me easily.

As far as her personallity goes, she is crazy. LOL

Very indecisive, changes her mind often. Cannot commit.

Jealous type, possesive, yet she doesn’t want to feel like a possesion or tied up. Very explosive and aggressive (has slapped the hell out of me sometimes, which I don’t mind, I kinda like it 😃 )

She has a sexual aura, lots of guys lust after her (me included), and she gets turned on by new partners and new situations. Which is why we are no longer in a relationship, which is fine, because I get my share of new partners too. I just love the sex with her, and in a way I want her to be mine only (while I still go out with other girls, yes it’s selfish, but that’s how I feel).

She likes the young looking, fit type of guys, which is what I was and what I’m trying to get back at being. A little bit of bad boy personality too.

She’s a type of person that likes NSA sex.

I just want things as they are, not commited, not emotionally invested. I do my thing, she does her thing. But I do want her to come to me for sex, me and only me, at least primarily.

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**Author:** ![Jessefrom213](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cc9497/32.png) [@Jessefrom213](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jessefrom213)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218/5 "2008-09-24T21:37:36Z")

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How do I apply the A314 and the TUTH? Any other thing that I could use to make her orgasm hard?

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**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218/6 "2008-09-24T21:58:22Z")

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If you know her cycles, make sure when she meets you during her ovulation you are wearing a -none product like Ammo or Turn Up The Heat, and when she meets you during her menstrual cycle you are wearing [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) (or any Androstadienone product). If you meet her during any other period of her cycle make sure you are wearing A314+IS. You will make an impression!🙂

For good orgasms any -none product applied right before sex would work.

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**Author:** ![Jessefrom213](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cc9497/32.png) [@Jessefrom213](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jessefrom213)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 10:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218/7 "2008-09-24T22:04:27Z")

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Thanks for the advice, but how much and where do I apply the A314 and Turn Up The Heat?

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**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 10:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218/8 "2008-09-24T22:04:43Z")

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> [@jgom2235](#):
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> How do I apply the A314 and the Turn Up The Heat?

to your skin, arms, wrists, neck, chest shoulders, applying it to your body is best, although some women apply it to themselves to heighten their response during sex.  
start with one then go to two, until you are getting the results you want.  
A314 to the wrists and or neck.  
TUTH to chest, shoulders or neck.

> [@jgom2235](#):
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> Any other thing that I could use to make her orgasm hard?

Talent?  
Turn Up The Heat is about the best for that, apply it on your body where her nose will be closest during coitus.

other than that, timing is everything, fingers, tongue, anything else that works,  
Some women still need 3000 RPMs to achieve orgasm, sorry but no part of the numan body can do that.

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**Author:** ![\_Carl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/_carl/32/429_2.png) [@\_Carl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_Carl)\
**Post date:** [September 24, 2008, 11:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218/9 "2008-09-24T23:31:48Z")

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Reps to jgom2235 for sharing your sex life on the forum. Really cool. I think I’m going to call my girlfriend over to my house to start a “fight” in the bedroom.

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**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\
**Post date:** [September 25, 2008, 3:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-and-i/20218/10 "2008-09-25T15:53:16Z")

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I can depend ALOT on the girl - I’ve had a fair number of sexual hits with A314 from my LTR - whilst almost no hits with AMMO
