# My Ex... Depressed... =/ **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 30, 2007, 4:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-depressed/4392 "2007-06-30T04:46:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![BMasters87](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmasters87/32/2048_2.png) [@BMasters87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BMasters87)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2007, 4:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-depressed/4392/1 "2007-06-30T04:46:24Z")
Okay… this is the best setting for me to test my pheromones tomorow on my ex. Im sorry this may be a bit long… story time… My ex text me tonight, apparantly she got depressed. So I called her to talk about it. Now, just so you guys know, I have been pushed down in her mental list, i used to be the guy she could talk to about anything. Well, she was hesitant about telling me what was bothering her, she just kept telling me to “forget it”. I get so nervous when she talks to me like that, I have the tendancy to think of the worst in a situation like ths, so i kept thinking like she had sex with her other ex bf, so I became a little hesitant with finding out what was bothering her, but I kept persisting. (In my earlier post about getting blown off for hanging out today, i said she was going to this BBQ). Well, her ex boyfriend was there of course, and she found out that he got drunk i think the day before with his friends, and all his friends rifled through his cell phone, found erotic pictures of her and sent them to their phones. Well my ex found out, and she got real upset over this, calliing herself a whore and all that… Thing is it happened 2 years ago, all those pictures, so its not her fault now, she turned iinto a great girl and she doesnt realize that. Anyway, She started finally talking to me, and telling me what bothered her, she dumped so much on me i felt so bad for her. Tomoro, is the BEST day to test these pheromones on her. Now listen… I need some advice, from both guys and girls… we are ex boyfriend/giirlfriend, still hovering around best friends for now. I dont want to scare her away or make her feel anything remotely close to discomfort, but I want to buy her some flowers and sit them on the passenger seat of my car, along with the music playing. (both flowers and music puts a huge smile on her face). Now, I just dont want to push the idea of hooking up or making that a discreet way of saying “I want you back”, i want to cheer her up so bad, in the best way I can. And thats the first step in my arsenal of ideas. would that be a bit too much? here is my pheromone mix line up for the day: Instant Shine - 3 sprays [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) - 3 sprays Ammunition - 3 sprays And I will apply 1-3 sprays of Turn Up The Heat as the day goes on, but ONLY when i notice a comfortable setting between the two of us, hoping IS and Instant Openness will do a good job in that area. Going to cheer her up, and if im successfull doing that, my main goal is to give her the “Im a man you need to keep around” vibe… and naturally i want her to think of me sexually, which is why Turn Up The Heat is in my arsenal. So… what you all think? sounds like a plan? should I do something different? what? let me know. ---
**Author:** ![JoeS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7ba0ec/32.png) [@JoeS](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JoeS)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2007, 7:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-depressed/4392/2 "2007-06-30T07:36:34Z")
While I have no experience with [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) as of yet, I must say that 3 sprays of TUTH may be too much especially after having read the discription of the item and various accounts of what it does in these forums. She may get the feeling that you want that one thing and one thing only from the whole deal and its quiet apparent that you don’t (atleast from my veiwpoint). I can only recommend one spray as an absolute minimum. Again, I have no experience with pheromones as of yet so don’t take my words as the absolute truth and nothing but; read up on it a bit and follow the advice of some of the more experienced members. Hope this helps atleast a tiny bit 😉 ---
**Author:** ![BMasters87](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmasters87/32/2048_2.png) [@BMasters87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BMasters87)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2007, 7:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-depressed/4392/3 "2007-06-30T07:48:02Z")
Yea, i understand that, what I mean by 1-3 sprays of TUTH is, i will put 1 spray on, see how that effects her for a while… If i dont see any change or effect in her mood, i will spray another, and will continue up to 3 sprays or if I see iit effect her in any way. I will research more on Turn Up The heat… thanks ---
**Author:** ![JoeS](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7ba0ec/32.png) [@JoeS](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JoeS)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2007, 8:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-depressed/4392/4 "2007-06-30T08:04:13Z")
One spray of TUTH is a good baseline but just be sure not to get too ahead of yourself too fast. Unless your intentions are to get physical fairly fast I’d (personally) lay off it especially since it seems she has just started to open up to you again (I may be wrong?). She may get the feeling that your coming on too strong, even with just one spray. I could be wrong though since it could be “debuffed” as it were by the IS and IO, again, I’m only going by what I’ve read and not from personal experience. Good luck 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![capone](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/capone/32/587_2.png) [@capone](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/capone)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2007, 3:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-depressed/4392/5 "2007-07-05T03:52:40Z")
I’ve found that, if you two are alone in a place where sex can be done, you wear high doses of -none and do NOTHING to ignite her (this is important or she will think you only go for sex, and fast), girls come a little crazy and make the first step to sex. With “nothing” I mean nothing sexual, you should act like if you had not even thought in sex with her there. It has worked for me every time I’ve been alone with a girl. I would suggest in your case that you use IFM, too. ---
**Author:** ![XDragonX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/6f9a4e/32.png) [@XDragonX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XDragonX)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 2:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-depressed/4392/6 "2007-07-06T02:26:03Z")
alright here’s my advice, use Alpha A314 for sure. Perfect item for this situation, cause it’ll make you seem more of the older type who knows all the answers and can help her out more effectively than anyone else. It also makes you seem like the type of man who can take care of her. It’s not called Alpha A314, trust and respect for men for nothing. Also Instant gentleman will work here too as it also gives an aura of dependability and mental stability that depressed women like. Don’t use any tuth at all because ammo will be plenty it’ll keep that sexual spark going. 3 sprays of reg sized bottle ammo is fine but make it 5 if u have togo also A314 keep it at 2-3 and don’t do both alpha and gentlemen just pick one. I’d go with alpha as it’s more dependable in my eyes. And don’t push the sex idea too much on her cause she’ll hate you for it as it’s taking advantage of her vulnerability ---
**Author:** ![gitsmw](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/85e7bf/32.png) [@gitsmw](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/gitsmw)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 7:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-depressed/4392/7 "2007-07-06T07:47:23Z")
Honestly, if she’s going to you to spew the shit that’s bothering her on you, she’s very likely not thinking of you as anything more than a friend. ---
**Author:** ![capone](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/capone/32/587_2.png) [@capone](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/capone)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 6:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-ex-depressed/4392/8 "2007-07-06T18:01:14Z")
I agree with you gitsmw.