# My first hits? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 9, 2009, 1:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-hits/29722 "2009-06-09T13:31:14Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![LTDshred](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ltdshred/32/1416_2.png) [@LTDshred](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LTDshred)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 1:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-hits/29722/1 "2009-06-09T13:31:14Z")
Well, I went to the mall saturday last week but before I did, I applied two sprays of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and one spray of AMMO. I ordered a vanilla shake with my friend and the girl behind the counter was flirting with me I think. Ok don’t laugh, but here’s what went down. She asked if I wanted the swirl with that, and I said no. She asked why, and I was being cocky/funny and said because I’m boring. She laughed and told me to have a not boring day. My friend, who is totally clueless on reading body language and picking up women noticed that she was flirting with me. Another time there was that a young Kay Jeweler saleswoman shouted to us and beckoned to us to come over there (which I haven’t seen this happen before, so I check and see what’s up). She asked us if anyone was 18, and I said I was. Just a side note, she was pretty cute. She asked me a favor for her, and to help her out and receive a credit card totally free. I told her I wasn’t interested while my annoying friend kept tapping my foot grinning (yes, he likes to point out the obvious). I said I’ll think about it, and I could see the expression on her face that I kinda made her emotionally upset. Either one or two things. One, both woman were being kind and friendly, or two, it was the pheromones that caught their attention. I don’t know what to make out this, you guys be the judge. ---
**Author:** ![jayarea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/48db29/32.png) [@jayarea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jayarea)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 3:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-hits/29722/2 "2009-06-09T15:28:23Z")
based on just the info above, i would say #1 was a hit and #2 was not. #1: depending on how long you were there at the counter, the hit might’ve been from pheros, or better yet, from you alone. if you’re feeling extra cocky/funny next time this question ever comes around to you, you can say something like “sure, but only if you make something neat.” if you get a heart or something, you’re good. i’ve seen coffee baristas do hearts and smiley faces. #2: if she yelled out to you, that means she was probably far away and thus could not have been affected by the pheros just yet. it also seems she had a preconceived notion of asking you to accept a credit card. (maybe a kay jeweler’s card? if they have one) you saying no and her looking sad probably was not emotional distress, just faking disappointment that she “lost” a cc push. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 3:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-hits/29722/3 "2009-06-09T15:38:10Z")
> [@LTDshred](#): > > Well, I went to the mall saturday last week but before I did, I applied two sprays of Instant Shine and one spray of AMMO. I ordered a vanilla shake with my friend and the girl behind the counter was flirting with me I think. > > Ok don’t laugh, but here’s what went down. She asked if I wanted the swirl with that, and I said no. She asked why, and I was being cocky/funny and said because I’m boring. She laughed and told me to have a not boring day. My friend, who is totally clueless on reading body language and picking up women noticed that she was flirting with me. > > Another time there was that a young Kay Jeweler saleswoman shouted to us and beckoned to us to come over there (which I haven’t seen this happen before, so I check and see what’s up). She asked us if anyone was 18, and I said I was. Just a side note, she was pretty cute. She asked me a favor for her, and to help her out and receive a credit card totally free. I told her I wasn’t interested while my annoying friend kept tapping my foot grinning (yes, he likes to point out the obvious). I said I’ll think about it, and I could see the expression on her face that I kinda made her emotionally upset. > > Either one or two things. One, both woman were being kind and friendly, or two, it was the pheromones that caught their attention. I don’t know what to make out this, you guys be the judge. nope, no hits on both counts. ya i know i sound like a broken record by now, but guys just don’t know how to read signals, i spent dang near a year to really get good at it. even guys who cliam to know how to read signals maybe know maybe only 2. heres the main problem i’ve noticed on this forum, people just aren’t using situational filters to assess the body language. what i mean is that there are certain signals (about 4 that i know of) that are dead on and is accurate no matter the situation or circumstance. however, there are about 10 other signals which are situational specific. flirting is one of them, women flirt just for the fun of it. or a girl will flirt to get your attention, it’s all about the context. let me give you an example: a lapdance from a stripper doesn’t mean anything, but a lapdance from a librarian means something totally different. here’s my assesment based on what i read: with the first chic you ran into the flirting hurdle(why is she flirting with me?) you have to look at other things to figure out the answer to that question. the second chick was just doing her job. hope this helps ---
**Author:** ![LTDshred](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ltdshred/32/1416_2.png) [@LTDshred](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LTDshred)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2009, 6:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-first-hits/29722/4 "2009-06-09T18:06:39Z")
Yeah, I kinda suspected that number 2 was doing her job. Meow333x, its no problem. I don’t care if number 1 was a hit or not, what I do know is that these [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) can work if I work them.